say they wanna have sex with a lesbian?

I think I wanna have sex with a really hot gay guy. I was thinking about it today and I am oddly curious.

I too have thought about that as well

Me too

What's up with that??

same here.

JustErin said:

I'm not sure exactly

though more times then not I am attracted to gay men over straight men

So where is the hot gay men that live in NY ?

Me too!

Mach said:

Really? Interesting.

I mean, I know that a lot of gay men are really hot. It's kinda like they're so hot that they don't wanna waste themselves on a women...they wanna be with someone just as hot as they are.

I leave lesbians to their own devices.

I did not realize that a lot of straight guys want to have sex with a lesbian, or that a lot of straight women want to fuck gay guys. I've clearly not been paying attention.

WHY? Is it the challenge?

As soon as I find out a guy is gay, any attraction vanishes (though I might continue to love and adore them in every other way ).

HereToRockYourWorld said:

What if they have two heads?

JDINTERACTIVE said:

Um. . . what?

What, they're some kind of super hot non-man man?

The best of men, without the 'ugh! men'

JustErin said:

MmmHmm ...really

thats been the norm for me since my teens ... I often times feel that gay men can be more in touch with aspects of sexuality/sensuality that straight men sometimes seem to just bulldog their way through. It can most times also be so much easier to just exsist and be around gay men, more relaxed, more open and real

that is just my experience though ... and i do have several straight men friends that are incredible as well

The org always does make me feel better about my quirks.

Mach said:

I generally prefer their company, for sure.

I don't know. I guess once I find out that I have no power to turn somebody on. . . not interested in trying.

Protege said:

seriously. i've felt so much less odd over the years of reading posts here.

evenstar3 said:

I was actually just thinking about this subject a couple days ago and how utterly unfair it was.

Do you think gay animals feel the same?

HereToRockYourWorld said:

I really dunno what it is. All I know is that I was thinking about it today.

Fauxie said:

What??

I don't know for sure, but to me it sounds like in some cases that's just being unfamiliar with gay men, placing them on a pedestal and based on stereotypes considering them completely different to straight men when oftentimes they're not. In my experience anyway.

I'm also curious about the same thing heretorock.. asked. Is it instead the challenge that provides the attraction? 'Cause I might be attracted to a woman who's a lesbian, but once aware that they are a lesbian I would never pursue her.

Fauxie said:

I dunno what it is. I really don't. To be honest, today is the first time I have ever thought this.

I need someone to explain it to me.

JustErin said:

Is it that they're gay or just how you find gay men to be?

For the last time - I am NOT gay

NO ... for me it's not about the "chase what I cant have energy" I am happily married... I am just saying that there is an attraction, a energy ... I dont view it as a challenge I just know how I feel and how it makes me feel

I grew up surrounded by wondeful gay people and know just as many gays as straights so I don't really feel I put anyone on a pedestal

Fauxie said:

It's that they're hot and I can't have them.

borgman there would be leather and lace and ropes and


in reality i had a bit of a thing for a gay friend before he was out.
once he was no longer boyfriend potential my "thing" for him fizzled lol

ItsOnlyMe said:

Don't worry...you didn't bring this on. There is no way I would want to have sex with you, straight or gay.