Come on ask us what you men don't understand about women! (We better get a "Tribute to the beauty of the org women!)

I don't get men who say they don't understand women and vice versa. What's not to get about a gender in entirety?

Figure them out one at a time and you'll be fine.

CarrieMpls said:

I remember a guy I used to go out with was always like "I don't get when women do this! why do women do etc?"

Paradisekiss03 said:

One of the last guys I dated said he could never figure out "women". I tried to get out of him what exactly he didn't get. He was afraid of offending me by saying. I told him he was better off figuring out one at a time, which he took as wise advice. I get the feeling I was very different from many of the girls he had dated before.
Actually, I've been told that more than once and I'm never quite sure what to make of it.

Paradisekiss03 said:

Some do not get that women are not that complicated if you would just stop and listen to what they are saying...

Whats always worked for me is not to try to figure out anything at all per se....just go with the flow and deal with all the idiosyncracies as they come up....just as I would expect a woman to deal with me....

...but I guess the only thing that I can't figure out is why women feel the need to try to change us....

Guys say they 'can't figure women out' because it's way easier to say that then to actually take the time and find out why they do the things they do. The same goes for women that say that about men.

They just don't wanna deal with the truth.

JustErin said:

Smart. Never thought of it that way.

reneGade20 said:

Not ALL women want to change their man....

What's the difference between the front-bottom and the rear-bottom?

Shanti1 said:

I can dig that...but like way back when dinosaurs ruled the earth (and I was single....), I was upfront about some of my ways....but for the life of me, my girlfriends at the time always saw fit to try to rein me in...which only made me more rebellious....

...the other thing that troubled me then was how some of them weren't ready to become exclusive when I was...which was cool...but when the tables were turned, and I had moved past that moment, they lost their minds and made a huge stink about me trying to be a player....:confused:

I think overall, I had the benefit of having three older sisters who greatly aided in my general understanding of women....

fathermcmeekle said:

sweet one side, bitter the other. helpful? and we say back-bottom too sometimes.

Shanti1 said:

Not ALL but I would say MOST.

reneGade20 said:

Well young girls are different from adult women.

Like Erin said I think some ppl have no interest in knowing what the other sex is thinking or feeling so it is easier to say you do not understand. Some ppl are not willing to do the work.

JustErin said:

it would be a good idea if BOTH genders started out the way they intended to continue, instead of giving false hope from the initial period of "on best behaviour"

JustErin said:

what would you say most women want to change their men to then ?

Shanti1 said:

uhh....I didn't get hitched until I was 24, so they weren't THAT young...




Thats true to an extent...but sometimes you'll run into a couple here and there that go out of their way to be WWWAAAYYY more complicated than they really are, and it makes things much more difficult to deal with....doing the work is no issue, but after a while it becomes more like work than trying to build a relationship....

reneGade20 said:

I guess it goes back to being serious about building a relationship and playing games...but I think both sexes are/can be guilty of that..

Shanti1 said:

Agreed!!

reneGade20 said:

Yeah, that sh!t bugs the hell out of me. I would never think about doing that to a woman. Why not accept each other and move on?

Mach said:

You're asking what most women want their men to be?

Well, I suppose it's different for each person, but I find that many, many women fall into the old trap of wishing their men were what they want them to be, instead of accepting who they actually are (which usually ends up being not all they want).

I guess the best example I can give is women who date bad boys thinking, 'I'll be the one to change his behaviour and make him settle down'.

JustErin said:

I think that is true.

JustErin said:

That is a good example. not usually going to happen though

I just don't see the point in thinking they need to be changed and that was more what i mean by my question to you

what is it women are trying to change in men ... what would the change then make them

more like a woman ? more what ? ya know





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ZombieKitten said:

Like men and women being good to each other and honest right from the start?

ok, so we all know that guys fart all day long. And that we find them hilarious.

But other than an occasional slip up , woman seem to never fart.



So what I want to know is, have you profected the "silent but deadly" technique, or do you wait until you are alone and release all the pent up fartiness at that time?





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Imago said:

You should meet my sister; that rule doesn't usually apply to her.

But I'll never tell how it works for the rest of us.

Paradisekiss03 said:

yeah you're right, that is never gonna happen

Mach said:

Yes, I think that's pretty much it. They want them to be more like them.

I understand all women.






At least those that speak English.

JustErin said:

FREAKS

The last thing I want is for my man to be more like me