I talk to women about the same things I talk to men about. Sometimes it's surface, other times depth, it depends on the mood of the moment.

retina said:

Ok ...

what was the last topic you remember talking about with a woman that was deeper then surface, that you really liked talking about with a woman ?

Mach said:

Suit yourself, that's the kind of lame general response you often give to my concrete questions.



Me and Erin were talking about fear yesterday. There are a gazillion other serious things to talk about as well though, I think it's usually harder to find a superficial topic that everybody can enjoy since then it's more specific and people's tastes might not match. Even that is usually not a problem though. Talking to the opposite gender is never difficult, it's talking to the same gender that can feel a tad bit artificial sometimes.

They like to talk about cheese

retina said:

I knew that was exactly why you did that

retina said:

I have the same experience as well. Conversation generally flows better with the oppisit sex though I have yet figured out exactly why

Do you find yourself a "natural" talker then ?

REDFEATHERS said:

Mach said:

Yeah you could say that. I'm not saying that everything I have to say is interesting, but I do enjoy talking to people, and I'm not afraid of talking on the phone either.

retina said:

is that another "lame" stab at Mach ?



Well ... everything you you have to say is interesting to someone, just perhaps not the person that is listening at that time

your phone bill must be huge

Mach said:

Nope. Don't get paranoid now.



True.

I can usually sense when that is the case though.



Actually no. Starting to use Skype was a revolution for me. I talked to a friend in Canada for six friggin hours last week and it didn't cost me a single cent.

Once you satisfy a man's need to hear what your sexual preferences are in great detail and get that out of the way you can pretty much talk about anything with them.

retina said:

Oh yeah, with other dudes I find myself only talking about sports or music. If not for those topics I'd have nothing to say to other men. With women, I can talk about anything.

JustErin said:

even to your brother, or dad?

JustErin said:

Do you think all men desire to hear what your ( our ) sexual preferences are in great detail first ?

well, I was enjoying my Robin Thicke Ball Fondle Move thread, until some fool decided to lock it .







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sextonseven said:

What are some of the topics you really enjoy talking to women about ?

Mach said:

Works for me.

sextonseven said:

love honesty

Mach said:

Anything she wants--career, travel, family, religion, films. Anything except books. I'm illiterate.

Mach said:

that's a really good question, one I've never been able to figure out.

retina said:

Fear is a topic many have trouble talking about ... because of fear about fear and possibly being seen as weak and so on

did you learn anything about yourself and your fears by talking to erin about fear ?

REDFEATHERS said:

Wtf?



Especially them.

I would say for me they talk about pretty much anything.. from everyday things to deeper feelings, Im pretty open when I have conversations with people, so it can be really random or really specific..

I dont understand what I just said..

I think, if ur a fella, and ur into Prince in a big way, you enjoy talking to women. My best friend is female, which has caused numerous problems with girlfriends over the years...

JustErin said:

Cool!

REDFEATHERS said:

Mach said:

I think so. They're just curious so why not get it out of the way right away? That way you can see if they're really interested in talking to you about other things or not right away.






Ok, I'm just joking around about this....kinda.

JustErin said:

I do see a point in what you are saying though with many men

you just made me wonder if all men are interested in it is all and I like that you gave me that fule for thought

JustErin said:

yeah.. I like to know if my local priest prefers doing it doggy style.. get that out the way and then we can talk about Jesus and hmyms..