is it true what they say when your other half leaves (for school), that some or most things go wrong even tho you are still in the relationship? you get sick (as i did) or your health suffers a bit (which mine did). then next thing you know, you end up arguing with your departed other half about dumb shit and even the relationships you have with others suffer a bit?

WTF?

someone help a superhero out.

Ditant relationships are very difficult.

i have nothing of substance to add, but at first i thought your avatar was a picture of a condom.

In answer to your initial question:

You party!

Distance makes everything harder.

On the other hand, it can also give you clearer perspective when you're not having your judgement clouded all the time by, say, great sex.

HereToRockYourWorld said:

True

HereToRockYourWorld said:

But sometimes distance makes you fantasise more about GREAT SEX

REDFEATHERS said:

True!!!

Shanti1 said:

I would rather wait and have great sex, than have sex every night that is just boring..

REDFEATHERS said:

I've really found that the "have great sex all the time" strategy works best for me.

REDFEATHERS said:

Right. Distance makes everything HARDER.

you guys are no help.

HereToRockYourWorld said:

Ya, me too. I don't do well with the whole just fantasizing about having it, even if it's for a short period of time.

REDFEATHERS said:

NAnomaly said:

True but no fantasy can replace the real thing..
[Edited 3/17/07 15:56pm]

Shanti1 said:

that's very true too.

Shanti1 said:

No, thats not what I am saying lol

I am saying I would rather have great sex.. than roll over and die sex..

and if the guy hasnt got the imagination, I take control.. so its all good..

so long as I get what I want..

JustErin said:

But wouldnt you rather wait, than jump into bed just with anyone, cos you want sex?

REDFEATHERS said:

My thoughts exactly.

REDFEATHERS said:

I would rather wait..but I have been told I am impatient..please

It is not easy to wait but well worth it when you do finally get to be together.

REDFEATHERS said:

No, I wouldn't rather wait but I wouldn't jump in bed with just anyone. Those aren't the only two options.
[Edited 3/17/07 16:37pm]

JustErin said:

elaborate this IS prince.org

JustErin said:

Good point Erin

GreenLantern said:

so your relationship is under stress
only way to get through it is to communicate with each other
instead of baiting each other
tell each other how you feel and make sure you hear what your partner says.

emm said:

Good advice

GreenLantern said:

Being apart from someone can add a lot of stress to your life, and stress can lead to a lot of things from being grumpy, to being disconnected from others, to even lowering your immune system, etc... The best thing is to keep open communication with them and always let your feelings be known.


...and can I just say that Green Lantern used to be my boyhood crush? I seriously wanted to see what was under that tight fitting suit.