Yanno if I wasn't married, I would totally go back over and over again to Exes.

I just always hold on to the GOOD things and times, and just always HOPE HOPE HOPE to get that back.

I know it never works though.

mdiver said:

Good to hear! I hope life's treating you well.

Excellent! I'll definitely be there as well. Look forward to catching up.

SureThing said:

That is what fuck buddies are for!

mdiver said:

No No.

I'm no good at that either.

I start out with good intentions of not getting attached, but I do.

Then I do, the totally chic thing.

I don't tell THEM I'm getting attached, and then when they don't show feelings towards me, that I want them to, I get pissed.

I'm not a fuck buddies type o gal.

mdiver said:

I find they are not as fun when you get older..

SureThing said:

I can't speak on your behalf but you might be right there. The trick is to let go of the past and to embrace what lies ahead. Cheesy, perhaps, but it helps you to look forward to the good things that await you.

Then I saw this:

mdiver said:

True!!

If I'm honest, there are a few guys from my past that - when I look back - I think "WTF was wrong with me??!" I was younger, a lot more innocent, I didn't really know what I wanted - I wasn't ready to settle down, really. But if I met the same guys *now*... things would be a lot different. But you can only learn these things at your own pace.

Dani... here's to more good times.

SureThing said:

Story of my forays with exes....EXACTLY!!!

reneGade20 said:

Well stay away from me! I fall in love.


ONA :

SureThing said:

Well from what I hear, I have the unique skill of bringing that out of people...

THE "BOY DID I MISS WHO THAT WAS FOR" EDIT!!!
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SureThing said:

Speaking of fuck buddies, without wanting to sound arrogant or up my own ass in any way, I have never, ever met anyone who is able to meet up on a strictly 50/50, no strings basis. That makes me sound like a right slut - chance would be a fine thing - but I've always found that these things may start off that way initially but, eventually, one person gets more attached than the other. And it's never me. It puts me off getting into these things, to be honest.

So, in my experience, these things rarely work.

onenitealone said:

When I hear the words "no strings attached" thats my cue to HAUL ASS!!!

You are so right...there is no such thing as no strings....

reneGade20 said:

Definitely. I think these things always come at a price - or, again, they have in my experience. There's always an emotional pay-off for one or both of the people involved. Which defeats the object of going into it in the first place.


Hope everything's going okay for you out there. Take care.

onenitealone said:

Things are...and I will.....same to you......