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PrintableBlackAdder7 said: JustErin said: I am the queen of revisting past relationships. I have a hard time letting go emotionally so when they come back (and they always do) I always seem to give in. But it never works out at the day. I used to refer to myself as Filler Girl. I'm the girl these guys fill their time with until something better comes along.
at the risk of sounding like a fanboy, I can't imagine you as filler girl material. just sayin Thanks...I think.  | |
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JustErin said: CarrieMpls said: Filler Girl is a good one. I've been that more than once. Part of the reason I stopped doing the fuck buddy thing is it started to mess with me in a way. I was always OK with it just being a sex thing, but then I realized I could find a good fuck buddy in a heartbeat but I have a hard time finding men who want to date me. I mean, what's up with that?  I can do the FB thing no prob as long as I don't get along with them outside of the bedroom. If I like them or get to know them too well, I get emotionally involved. And yes, same thing with me. Most guys just want to have a casual thing with me and not get emotionally involved. I remember a male co-worker once told me, "you're the kinda girl guys wanna fuck, not marry."  I've pretty much found the same thing to be true of myself. It's disheartening. And frankly, I don't get it.
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JustErin said: CarrieMpls said: Filler Girl is a good one. I've been that more than once. Part of the reason I stopped doing the fuck buddy thing is it started to mess with me in a way. I was always OK with it just being a sex thing, but then I realized I could find a good fuck buddy in a heartbeat but I have a hard time finding men who want to date me. I mean, what's up with that? I can do the FB thing no prob as long as I don't get along with them outside of the bedroom. If I like them or get to know them too well, I get emotionally involved. And yes, same thing with me. Most guys just want to have a casual thing with me and not get emotionally involved. I remember a male co-worker once told me, "you're the kinda girl guys wanna fuck, not marry." OMG! I would take that as a compliment! It means your HOT not CUTE! | |
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CarrieMpls said: JustErin said: I can do the FB thing no prob as long as I don't get along with them outside of the bedroom. If I like them or get to know them too well, I get emotionally involved. And yes, same thing with me. Most guys just want to have a casual thing with me and not get emotionally involved. I remember a male co-worker once told me, "you're the kinda girl guys wanna fuck, not marry." I've pretty much found the same thing to be true of myself. It's disheartening. And frankly, I don't get it.
Honestly, I don't get it either...unless these guys just think I am nuts, which now that I think about it, maybe it's true. 
The funniest thing about it is they all later come back and sing my praises.  | |
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SureThing said: JustErin said: I can do the FB thing no prob as long as I don't get along with them outside of the bedroom. If I like them or get to know them too well, I get emotionally involved. And yes, same thing with me. Most guys just want to have a casual thing with me and not get emotionally involved. I remember a male co-worker once told me, "you're the kinda girl guys wanna fuck, not marry." OMG! I would take that as a compliment! It means your HOT not CUTE! I totally didn't take it that way. | |
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Not really, though I dated a girl who I had been best friends with for over five years.
It was similar to going back to an ex (both good and bad), since we knew each other so well, but it was also new & fun. It didn't last too long though. My Legacy
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JustErin said: SureThing said: OMG! I would take that as a compliment! It means your HOT not CUTE! I totally didn't take it that way. Well, I if someone said that to me, I'd love it. | |
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REDFEATHERS said: Ex boyfriend or girlfriend, husband, wife.. whatever? What happened, or what are your opinions of this..?
All except one!  The man who does not read good books has no advantage over the man who cannot read them. -- Mark Twain.
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SureThing said: I did this all the time before I was married.
It never works out, in my experience. And now.....LOL!!! The man who does not read good books has no advantage over the man who cannot read them. -- Mark Twain.
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SureThing said: JustErin said: I totally didn't take it that way. Well, I if someone said that to me, I'd love it. That might be a bit of a compliment when you're young and cute, but think about it. It means that you're just not considered real relationship material, And when you're old and still alone and not so fuckable anymore...that's pretty depressing. | |
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DexMSR said: SureThing said: I did this all the time before I was married.
It never works out, in my experience. And now.....LOL!!! 
Things are going good now Jack! You'd know that if you did more than just drop in and bump your own threads every now and then.  | |
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JustErin said: SureThing said: Well, I if someone said that to me, I'd love it. That might be a bit of a compliment when you're young and cute, but think about it. It means that you're just not considered real relationship material, And when you're old and still alone and not so fuckable anymore...that's pretty depressing. Well, I don't think he meant ALL THAT.
I see what your saying though. | |
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JustErin said: SureThing said: Well, I if someone said that to me, I'd love it. That might be a bit of a compliment when you're young and cute, but think about it. It means that you're just not considered real relationship material, And when you're old and still alone and not so fuckable anymore...that's pretty depressing. anatytically speaking, could it be the vibes youre giving off?...that you're not open to emotional involvement?  | |
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JustErin said: SureThing said: Well, I if someone said that to me, I'd love it. That might be a bit of a compliment when you're young and cute, but think about it. It means that you're just not considered real relationship material, And when you're old and still alone and not so fuckable anymore...that's pretty depressing. Yeah, it's a very mean thing to say. But it sure doesn't mean he was right. My Legacy
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BlackAdder7 said: JustErin said: That might be a bit of a compliment when you're young and cute, but think about it. It means that you're just not considered real relationship material, And when you're old and still alone and not so fuckable anymore...that's pretty depressing. anatytically speaking, could it be the vibes youre giving off?...that you're not open to emotional involvement? Perhaps, but I think it probably has more to do with my poor choice in men. Actually, the more I think about it the more I just don't know. All these guys moved on to serious relationships with others. So it must really be a case of "it's not them, it's me". | |
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JustErin said: BlackAdder7 said: anatytically speaking, could it be the vibes youre giving off?...that you're not open to emotional involvement? Perhaps, but I think it probably has more to do with my poor choice in men. Actually, the more I think about it the more I just don't know. All these guys moved on to serious relationships with others. So it must really be a case of "it's not them, it's me". tell me about your childhood. what's your earliest mammary...er...memory? | |
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BlackAdder7 said: JustErin said: Perhaps, but I think it probably has more to do with my poor choice in men. Actually, the more I think about it the more I just don't know. All these guys moved on to serious relationships with others. So it must really be a case of "it's not them, it's me". tell me about your childhood. what's your earliest mammary...er...memory? Har har.
I don't remember much about my childhood to be honest. | |
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The main ex, I ended up marrying and we've been together now a total of 19 years (16 married)..... He was like a cock who thought the sun had risen to hear him crow.
(George Eliot) the video for the above... 
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DexMSR said: REDFEATHERS said: Ex boyfriend or girlfriend, husband, wife.. whatever? What happened, or what are your opinions of this..?
All except one! But it wasnt good, was it? | |
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JustErin said: SureThing said: Well, I if someone said that to me, I'd love it. That might be a bit of a compliment when you're young and cute, but think about it. It means that you're just not considered real relationship material, And when you're old and still alone and not so fuckable anymore...that's pretty depressing. Hell you arent old! | |
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CarrieMpls said: JustErin said: I can do the FB thing no prob as long as I don't get along with them outside of the bedroom. If I like them or get to know them too well, I get emotionally involved. And yes, same thing with me. Most guys just want to have a casual thing with me and not get emotionally involved. I remember a male co-worker once told me, "you're the kinda girl guys wanna fuck, not marry." I've pretty much found the same thing to be true of myself. It's disheartening. And frankly, I don't get it.
Maybe it depends on the circumstances. | |
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REDFEATHERS said: JustErin said: That might be a bit of a compliment when you're young and cute, but think about it. It means that you're just not considered real relationship material, And when you're old and still alone and not so fuckable anymore...that's pretty depressing. Hell you arent old! I know. Well, I'm old-ish.
I was just thinking ahead. | |
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JustErin said: REDFEATHERS said: Hell you arent old! I know. Well, I'm old-ish.
I was just thinking ahead. Damn, I am older than you but I still feel like I am in my twennies..  | |
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JustErin said: BlackAdder7 said: tell me about your childhood. what's your earliest mammary...er...memory? Har har.
I don't remember much about my childhood to be honest.  there's alot of gold to mine there.
tell me your earliest memory | |
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REDFEATHERS said: JustErin said: I know. Well, I'm old-ish.
I was just thinking ahead. Damn, I am older than you but I still feel like I am in my twennies.. Oh I feel young too. Unfortunately, it's not about what I feel like, it's about how others see me. | |
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BlackAdder7 said: JustErin said: Har har.
I don't remember much about my childhood to be honest. there's alot of gold to mine there.
tell me your earliest memory What are you suppose to be the arm chair psychologist to Prince.org? | |
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BlackAdder7 said: JustErin said: Har har.
I don't remember much about my childhood to be honest. there's alot of gold to mine there.
tell me your earliest memory Ok. It was dark, very dark...then I saw a light, a bright light.... | |
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JustErin said: REDFEATHERS said: Damn, I am older than you but I still feel like I am in my twennies.. Oh I feel young too. Unfortunately, it's not about what I feel like, it's about how others see me. ahh well I work/ed with a lot of younger peeps, and I guess I hang out with a lot younger friends too, and they seem to forget that they are much younger..  | |
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REDFEATHERS said: JustErin said: Oh I feel young too. Unfortunately, it's not about what I feel like, it's about how others see me. ahh well I work/ed with a lot of younger peeps, and I guess I hang out with a lot younger friends too, and they seem to forget that they are much younger.. he he! Well, yes, erm, he he, hmm. | |
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