'cause y'know if it doesn't...
It's only a matter of time until things r going 2 get a bit lonelier.
My spirit hasn't aged, my taste was always wide-ranged.
Sometimes, I catch myself admiring some sweet morena and I forget all about my age.
Sometimes, in retrospect I realise I'm easily old enough to be her father, and I wonder (albeit rarely), is this healthy?

thedribbler said:

And how long before you find OLDER women attractive?
I mean, much older...

yes

Imago said:

I think it does, somewhat anyway, I mean when your young like in your teens you go for one thing, then in your twentys you realize that theres more to it than just that one thing, it just goes on and on from there.

Why? What's wrong with my taste?

he is also ageing so

meggy said:

Three!

uh, i would say so.

Only in the sense that I will soon have to give up my dream to have sex with a much older woman. When I was 15 I was sometimes fantasizing about women around 50. If I want that same age difference now she would be 65 which is still doable, but it's not the same "old woman - young man" tension anymore since I'm getting old myself.

My taste has changed drastically over the years.

CarrieMpls said:

You mean you didn't used to be into young boys?

yeah they gettin younger


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retina said:

Been there, done that ("sex with an older woman? tick.") To be honest sexual fantasies are often best left as such. At least you'll always have material for a wank.

retina said:

omg, stop!

When I was young I only liked the practically pre-pubescent thing. Then my taste in styles changed. And then I started finding all the manly things sexy, like body hair and the smell of clean sweat. Now I find things like salt and pepper hair and laugh lines sexy. I think I've mainly added to my tastes over the last 10 years. What I find attractive has grown much, much wider.

novabrkr said:

So it wasn't a nice experience?

CarrieMpls said:

Wide enough to accomodate me?

retina said:

Let's just say the little me lost interest in the midst of it.

Basically, I just had been having that thing as a sexual dream so long that it was impossible for me to materialize it fully in real life anymore. There was already a huge distinction between what was supposed to be a mental image for my own private ends, and how sexuality really works on a level of an encounter with another person in real life.

novabrkr said:

Yeah, reality can rarely live up to a fantasy. It must still have been exciting on some level though? Sometimes I think the idea of what I'm doing can be more exciting than what is actually physically happening. So even though she might not be great in bed or the best-looking or whatever, I might still look into her eyes and get a kick of seeing an older woman enjoying getting fucked by me, you know what I mean?

novabrkr said:

But once in a while a fantasy can be filled out with a real experience.

"you're like the Elton John of instrumental hip-hop."

U made me laugh with that!

retina said:

Well, I'm overtly neurotic so it also played a part in it for sure. She was a great-looking woman herself as well and I was extremely ready for it before we got into bed. But that was the outcome in my case.

I'm not sure whether I should still give it another shot or not. At 27 I still might be able to pull of the "young man" on my own part, but I'd have to be really picky about the person. It would have to be, you know, a michelle pfeiffer -type of personification of a female probably. I just found out in practise that there's a great division between a masturbatory fantasy and attempting to fulfill it.

novabrkr said:

Go 4 it, bugs! But do you remember woody woodpecker? Now, he's so much smarter.

inside matters more, outside matters less.

thedribbler said:

For banging his head on wood for so long on a constant fashion?

novabrkr said:

Well that , but other things too. His laugh is better.
Bugs doesn't laugh

thedribbler said:

A great comedian doesn't laugh at his own jokes.

Stax said:

Now you make me feel all superficial for my answer.

Stax said:

Oh come on stax! the outside is just as important for a sexual partner.
It's often more important than the inside.
Lovers don't have 2 b best friends.
I know you meant well - you could give yourself away in a cereal box.

novabrkr said:

bugs doesn't laugh at anybodys jokes. Just like a teenage girl, he's too caught up in himself 4 that