thedribbler said:

whoa. who said it didn't matter? for me, however, it matters less as i get older.

CarrieMpls said:

I think we are kind of saying the same thing.

When I was younger, it was all about physical attraction. Well, at least personality was secondary to looks. Now, its the opposite, which means I am attracted to wider variety of women. But, as thedribbler points out, physical attraction still matters.

Stax said:

You must b older than the hills.

Yes, definitely

thedribbler said:

yes, but i am a man, so it's all good.

Yep!

To be honest, my rules for attraction haven't changed to this day. It's still the overtly feminine, sexy, stylish vixens that I'd run after. Not that I fell obliged to have sex with every second person I cross my paths with either. But rather as an object of desire.

And I've also learnt by now not to fool myself and allow myself to be attracted to this type. I used to feel tremendous guilt over the fact that "normal girls" didn't do much for me, but now I understand that it's basically the same thing in a different package (a more mundane girl does not automatically connote intelligence). Though I could care less about how pretty faces they have been born with, let me see what you can do with it.

novabrkr said:

Go, bugs! Go!

i feel kind of fortunate. as i age, i find myself continually attracted to guys within my own age range. i mean, when i was 21, i liked dating people who were in their early 20s and wasn't so much into dating anyone much older. now that i'm 36, i like dating people who are in their mid '30s and i'm not really interested in dating someone in their early 20s.

i know people my age who are exclusively into young'uns and i've met young guys who like older men, and good for them but i need some kind of mutual generational thing in common i guess. it just makes me feel more comfortable.

plus as i get older i see more clearly what is attractive about the age groups i'm aging into, and it becomes like a whole new cycle of attraction.

Anx said:

Ribbed4UrPleasure said:

yes. i stick to my age group as well. about five years difference, either way. i suppose there are exceptions to the rule, however.

Stax said:

i agree. if the spark is there, it's not like i'm going to ask for I.D.

but normally, having having mutual points of reference is a BIG plus.

yes, it did for me.

The biggest age diffences I tried was five years older..that never worked out so well for me...though I did try a few times. I tend to have better luck with ppl my own age or a bit younger.
I joke that I like them young but I do not think if I went too much younger then myself that it would turn out to be any thing more then just sex...

I know that I have never been sexually attracted to older men..at all. So I am hoping that as I get older that I learn to become attacted to them since my partner is someday going to be an older man..


I must say that as I get older my tastes really don't change it is just that when I was younger I did not know what my tastes were really so I settled. Now that I am getting older I know what I like and do not like in a sexual partner.

My taste hasn't changed. I still taste sweet

Shanti1 said:

The last few men I've dated were considerably younger. And a few years before that I almost dated a man 20 years older. I was very attracted to him but in the end I decided that was maybe a bit too much.
If the attraction is there, age is only a number.

CarrieMpls said:

You are right my dear...

I havent a specific taste although I find myself attracted to older women and vice versa.

No.

CarrieMpls said:

Theres only so much enjoyment you can have with a 90 year old eh Carrie?

JDINTERACTIVE said:

it's like a bell curve with me. since i was 15 or so my tastes started off as pretty predictable then got really, REALLY varied... all hair colours, races, heights, weights, everything... now i'm back to loving the exact same girl i first loved when i was 15!




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[Edited 3/10/07 22:03pm]

Flambe said:

Ok let me try that again.....

Good for you John...

The beauty of love is that you never ever know who, where and when really.

I wish you all the best my friend...


[Edited 3/11/07 8:50am]

My taste is still pretty wide. But basically it all comes down to the ability to get along with that person.

JDINTERACTIVE said:

I used to find older women attractive, but now I'm 30 myselfolder women are simply old, so I tend to look at women my age or younger. I also like them a bit more musculat these days, but that has little to do with aging.

eikonoklastes said: