Ya know it's funny to see how passive aggressive people are these days. They hide behind their computer screens and make insults that they think are going to hurt people. And then of course they have their little puppet friends who jump on the band wagon because they have no lives. Ooooh life and technology!

I recently had to break off a friendship (or what I thought was a friendship) because I saw the truth behind this person. She was very manipulative, jealous, deceiving and well, just plain mean. At first she was very nice to me and then the true colors came out. I started to slowly ween her out of my life to avoid any trouble and once she found out what was happening BAM! Out came the lies and nasty comments.

I read a few things on myspace and the funniest one was that I look like a drag queen!! I mean IS THAT ALL YOU GOT?? I will admit at first I was a little upset, but only because a mutual friend of ours jumped on the band wagon. I was always nice to her and well, I liked her...so that was a little disheartening. Then after an hour or so I observed a bunch of things and realized it wasn't worth it to be upset...THEY weren't worth it. It happens here, as well and man....people just need to grow the fuck up. I know when I see these girls out and about they will look the other way or avoid confrontation on every level because they are cowards. I don't have to do a thing, they have already made themselves look like assholes and people I don't even know have been writing to me to tell me how immature and ridiculous they are.

I don't even know why I'm writing this. I guess to vent a little and I'm sure it's happened to some of you here, too. It's hard for me to execute patience...usually I fly off the handle and first reaction is to retaliate. Maybe because I'm older now I can realize how petty things are and how it's not worth it to get upset.

I have much more respect for people who would say these things to my face, but I know that will never happen because they don't have the balls to do so.

So next time you feel the impulse to leave nasty messages about people while hiding behind a computer, stop a second and grow the fuck up. You look like an asshole!


Ya I know, potty mouth. Whatever I've always been that way

I love you all! Rant over!

bitch slut whore puppydog wannabe jerk ass kisser





Love ya

Sorry you realised that your good friend was so negative.

I hate when that happens. Sometimes its really hard to break the friendship off, and then when you do try to end it, you feel so guilty about it.

Wow. You look like a drag queen? That had to hurt. WHATEVER though. You do NOT llok like a drag queen. And if these people thoguht such terrible things about you, then why were they your friend in the first place.

They're just lashing out, the only way they know how to.

You seem strong, and like your already over. You'll bounce back!

Mach said:

All of the above...cept' for the puppydog

Fuck her.. you look great..

That is sad!

Chin up darling, you are the best.

Internet bitch slap her ass

SureThing said:

Well she wasn't a GOOD friend...she was good to me when I first moved her, but that's how she sucks you in. She is a very jealous person and needs to have you all to herself or she gets pissed. Now that I look back, I should have realized sooner...she's burned many bridges and have had lots of failed friendships. I guess I just overlook those things because I treat everyone they way they treat me.

I expect a comment like that from her, I just didn't from the other girl...until now. I think drag queens are beautiful so bring it on!

DanceWme said:

Nah, it's not worth it. I mean I talk and laugh about it with my friend Wensday. She finally ridded her too, she's known her since elementary school and it took this long to finally get rid of the bitch. But we have our jokes about her to each other, we just don't post them on the internet.

CarrieLee said:

Good job!

lol,if I was going to talk trash about someone I wouldnt sit there and type all of that crap out.
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CarrieLee said:

Stupid org.

Well, it sounds like she's really insecure. Which, I mean, no biggie, lots of people are. But she doesn't have to try to sabotage YOU over it.

The thing thats pathetic is that, if she a real life friend, that you hang out with, and she can easily just CALL you and discuss the problem, WHY is she posting shit on myspace about it? If ya ask me thats pretty fuckin gay and she's the one who looks like an ass.

Good Ridance.

you do kind of look like justin bond on a good day, but i'd consider that a compliment.

SureThing said:

Funny. She emailed me a month ago and says "I miss you, you were always one of my favorites. Will you meet me for dinner so we can catch up and make an effort in this friendship".

Stupid me agrees to go. This was the breaking point of our friendship. Her ulterior motive was to get me out, pump me for information and then try to sabotage a friendship with a mutual friend of ours. Of course i offered NO information so she made up what she thought was happening and hurt this mutual friend very badly...her evil plan even worked for about a week. Then it came back and bit her in the ass. So now that I won that battle she is pissed and now is trying to hurt me with her retarded comments. Grow up!

ThreadCula said:

Just shows shes got nothing better to do with her time..

Anx said:

You're trying to be funny, right?

REDFEATHERS said:

We're all guilty of this shit, I know it. I mean Red you and I went at it before but I didn't hide anything and you didn't either. THAT is what I respect...get it out with each other. Don't have your little inside jokes posted all over the internet with your puppet friends. Confront ME!

CarrieLee said:

What is she? In ninth grade?

In all seriousness when someone hurts me, my first reaction is always to lash out and do all kinds of immature things like, this girl did. Then afterwards I'm always embarrased and ashamed of how stupid and immature it was.

Like, what is her reason that she's doing all this shit? Did something happen?

I'm not justifying what shes doing. She's probably gonna feel like an idiot about it when its all said and done though.

SureThing said:

That's just it...she has NO reason. She is very very nosy, I would get emails from her on a monday morning that goes something like this:

Hey how are you? How was your weekend? Do anything fun? Did you see anyone out? What time did you get home? Did you get drunk? Did you hook up with anyone? Wanna come over after work and go for a walk or do bong hits and watch tv?

I am NOT exaggerating. If I didn't answer all of her questions she would write back and tell me so. I got so sick of it that I would avoid everything and she would get sooo pissed off. I am pretty much a private person when it comes to my personal life and it pissed her off to no end. She has a way of getting things out of you without knowing it and then you're like DAMN! How the HELL did she get that out of me??!!!

So that was the beginning, I got fed up and would refuse to answer her questions. I would reply with my weekend was ok, didn't do much. I'm busy this afternoon. Then I'd get the next email..why? What are you doing? Are you going out with someone you met this weekend? etc. etc. etc.

She is just a nasty person. And no, she won't feel like an idiot because this is just how she is. Everyone else is to blame and not her. She is the girl who hooks up with your husband and/or your boyfriend because that's all she can get. She also has a bit of a drug problem and she would lure other people into her world of drugs and supply them with it so they would have to come over and hang out. I didn't want to be around that shit. My days of that are long over. That's probably another thing that pissed her off too. Bitch is INSANE!

CarrieLee said:

Yeah I know.. but that was a rant on the forums about a thread, they werent personal attacks behind your back.. and thats past anyway, but from my experience, you just gotta sit back and laugh cos the truth always rears its ugly head and people will find out about her in due course.. you dont need to do anything..

CarrieLee said:

i wasn't kidding about the resemblance and i wasn't kidding that it would be a compliment for both parties involved. and i meant on a good day for justin bond, not a good day for you, so call off the dogs!

REDFEATHERS said:

Exactly, and I'm not. One of the girls is in a band that's playing my bar this Friday when I'm working. Word got out and my boss told me he would cancel the show if I was uncomfortable. I said HELL NO! I'm not intimidated one bit and I can't wait to ask her if she wants to suck my drag queen dick! I bet she won't come 10 feet near me. Cowards.

Anx said:

I googled him and it doesn't look like he has too many good days!!!!!

am i pretty?

CarrieLee said:

I just googled him too, and ! Anx, I love ya, but you are NOT good on the comparrison compliments. They always suck.

Carrie, from what you just wrote above, the girl sounds like a TOTAL WAC JOB! It sounds like she was trying to control you or live vicariously through you or something.

Be glad your rid of her.

Hopefully soon she'll get over it, and quit writing shit about you and move on.

I can't count how many friendships she has burned. I mean, as an acquaintance she is fine. She'll do nice things for you and she can be funny as hell. It's when you let her in, and I let her in. I do not want any more good friends, I have my girls who I love and trust. Everyone else I'm keeping an arms length away. I don't want to know your baggage, I want to see your friendly face at a bar and shoot the shit with you. That's IT!!! I'm so done with people.

These's some pudding in the truth

Just try to let it go. Holding onto it only brings you down.

Ribbed4UrPleasure said:

huh?