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PrintableImago said: dude, gay men get sooooo much ass.
Imagine me not getting any love! 
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UCantHavaDaMango said: SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: Are you handing me your leftovers!? 
Prince looks completely stoned in your avie  Leftovers? Yeah right, I never even got a taste! They're all for you Hun. You are so nice to me  What did I do to deserve it!? 
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Imago said: dude, gay men get sooooo much ass.
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when i was in that situation... i realized that i really was not ready to be in a relationship. i was not ready to trust or love.... so things never worked out. | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: OK, so I broke up with my ex 9 months ago. During that time I have really been trying to get over myself and all my retardedness when it comes to approaching guys or expressing my interest. I AM THE WORST AT THIS and over the years I have watched opportunity after opportunity pass my ass by. Well I have decided that it's just ridiculous already. I am outgoing, have no problems in social settings and so why should I be so shy in expressing my interest? I guess it's the whole rejection thing and my love life has been a trainwreck in general so I guess that really doesn't help matters much.
But I figure it this way. This person that I am approaching is already not my partner or boyfriend and if after saying hello nothing comes of it, well things are what they already are. Nothing has changed. If I'm OK with it before saying hello, then why can't I be OK with it after? I can be OK with it So I've really been putting myself out there and expressing interest where I never would before. It feels really good.
Well, out of the last 8 men I have approached SEVEN OF THEM are from out of town/out of state/out of the country. WTF!?!! I have outoftowndar! I don't know why this is happening, must mean I'm not ready yet. Whatever 
I wasted months here at work staring at a guy on the elevator and never even saying hello. Too scared, too shy, too retarded  Well I stopped seeing him around about 3 months ago and I was so bummed because who knows if I'll ever see him again. Well about a month ago I went to a bar I haven't been to in about a year and guess who was there. Mr. Elevator!  As soon as I saw him I said to myself Hell no I aint wastin no more time! and I went up and said hello. We talked and of course, he has a boyfriend  I gave him my email and left it at that.
Yesterday I went to beer bust after Bingo and Mr. Elevator was there. I said hello but really respected the fact that he had a boyfriend so I didn't do what I wanted to do and that was jump his ass Thank God for beer and the 100 mile rule. We played boyfriends yesterday His friend is in NY and they have this rule that if they are 100 miles away from each other, then they are free to play. I asked no questions, their rule not mine, and spent some time with him. He called me Dangerous He said that I'm cute and sweet and that is a very dangerous combination for him. Well I'm not trying to break up anybody's home so he has nothing to fear. I guess my point being that it really pays to not be retarded! I got to spend some really quality time with someone I only ever stared at. And it was amazing It paid off to say hello
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ehuffnsd said: SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: OK, so I broke up with my ex 9 months ago. During that time I have really been trying to get over myself and all my retardedness when it comes to approaching guys or expressing my interest. I AM THE WORST AT THIS and over the years I have watched opportunity after opportunity pass my ass by. Well I have decided that it's just ridiculous already. I am outgoing, have no problems in social settings and so why should I be so shy in expressing my interest? I guess it's the whole rejection thing and my love life has been a trainwreck in general so I guess that really doesn't help matters much.
But I figure it this way. This person that I am approaching is already not my partner or boyfriend and if after saying hello nothing comes of it, well things are what they already are. Nothing has changed. If I'm OK with it before saying hello, then why can't I be OK with it after? I can be OK with it So I've really been putting myself out there and expressing interest where I never would before. It feels really good.
Well, out of the last 8 men I have approached SEVEN OF THEM are from out of town/out of state/out of the country. WTF!?!! I have outoftowndar! I don't know why this is happening, must mean I'm not ready yet. Whatever
I wasted months here at work staring at a guy on the elevator and never even saying hello. Too scared, too shy, too retarded Well I stopped seeing him around about 3 months ago and I was so bummed because who knows if I'll ever see him again. Well about a month ago I went to a bar I haven't been to in about a year and guess who was there. Mr. Elevator! As soon as I saw him I said to myself Hell no I aint wastin no more time! and I went up and said hello. We talked and of course, he has a boyfriend I gave him my email and left it at that.
Yesterday I went to beer bust after Bingo and Mr. Elevator was there. I said hello but really respected the fact that he had a boyfriend so I didn't do what I wanted to do and that was jump his ass Thank God for beer and the 100 mile rule. We played boyfriends yesterday His friend is in NY and they have this rule that if they are 100 miles away from each other, then they are free to play. I asked no questions, their rule not mine, and spent some time with him. He called me Dangerous He said that I'm cute and sweet and that is a very dangerous combination for him. Well I'm not trying to break up anybody's home so he has nothing to fear. I guess my point being that it really pays to not be retarded! I got to spend some really quality time with someone I only ever stared at. And it was amazing It paid off to say hello
. [Edited 3/5/07 13:15pm] yay!! I looked for you at the faultline yesterday I saw some sisters and hoped you were one of them 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: ehuffnsd said: yay!! I looked for you at the faultline yesterday I saw some sisters and hoped you were one of them The PS girls were out in face yesterday because they didn't make it to Mr Sister. I left LA about 530 yesterday afternoon. I was up until 500 sat night and got up at 10 for brunch and the victory bbq at the Tom of Finland Foundation. I wanted to go to bed. You CANNOT use the name of God, or religion, to justify acts of violence, to hurt, to hate, to discriminate- Madonna
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ehuffnsd said: SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: I looked for you at the faultline yesterday I saw some sisters and hoped you were one of them The PS girls were out in face yesterday because they didn't make it to Mr Sister. I left LA about 530 yesterday afternoon. I was up until 500 sat night and got up at 10 for brunch and the victory bbq at the Tom of Finland Foundation. I wanted to go to bed. I got there around 6:00. Eventually we will meet
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SlamGlam said: when i was in that situation... i realized that i really was not ready to be in a relationship. i was not ready to trust or love.... so things never worked out.
So every chick you approached lived 8,000,000 miles from you?
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God I love you...
It's ridiculous how alike we are. Well, how alike we were. I still don't have the balls to approach the guys I like. Hence, the reason I stay home on weekends reading Joan Didion or some other depressing shit... 
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Reply to 'What is WRONG with me?!'
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hmmmm... I noticed ALL the guys are looking at each other at Bally's... but not saying anything... My art book: http://www.lulu.com/spotl...ecomicskid
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Handclapsfingasnapz said: for me, that'll most likely end up being the case. i work more on the wavelength of if you want me, you come and look for me...i promise i'm worth the search.
'sides, it seems as if there's a shortage of women right now anyway. I think that its a healthy dose of both points of view....but I know plenty of folks who seem to believe that you can get knocked off the horse only so many times before you quit and say "fuck it!"....whereas I think you move on and keep trying until that special person comes along.... there's an old adage in the Army that is to some extent extendable to relationships as well.... "The worst unit you've ever been in is the one you're in and the best is the one you just left" As far as the shortage, I can't righteously speak on it since I don't frequent the spots, but from what my single friends tell me its absolute mayhem out there...all you need to be ready for is a cavalcade of unrealistic expectations borne of other relationships.... He was like a cock who thought the sun had risen to hear him crow.
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CarrieMpls said: awwww... Just look at it as good experience anyway.
I know last time I was in Chicago I was standing on the street waiting for my friends to meet me back at the car so we could head back to our hotel and an incredibly gorgeous man walked up and started talking to me. I could tell he was nervous. He finally got up the courage to ask me to have coffee and I had to turn him down cause I was just in for the weekend. But it MADE MY DAY!! He was sooooo beautiful.
So just think of it that way. Anyone would be honestly flattered to attract your interest, Richard. That's so cool.
I just need to take a moment to point out: Hottie couldn't see your INTELLIGENCE from across the damn street; he came to hit on you because he LOOKED at you and thought you were yummy. So, the next time you're thinking about claiming that nobody would be with you due to your cuteness, remeber Chicago.  oh noes, prince is gonna soo me!!1! | |
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Richard, you rock. It's so, so hard to approach people like that. I'm glad it's paying off for you.   oh noes, prince is gonna soo me!!1! | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: Handclapsfingasnapz said: there's nothing wrong with you/that, man.I meant about the outoftowndar. What is it that I'm only picking dudes I cannot have!? DAMNIT!  Someone please live closeby and not have a boyfriend please
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Nothing's wrong, hon. Maybe it's just not the time. Keep going, though. Odds are that one of the upcoming guys has to be local! | |
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applekisses said: SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: I meant about the outoftowndar. What is it that I'm only picking dudes I cannot have!? DAMNIT! Someone please live closeby and not have a boyfriend please
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Nothing's wrong, hon. Maybe it's just not the time. Keep going, though. Odds are that one of the upcoming guys has to be local! Easy for you to say You have someone trying to break down your door, even while I was visiting!!!  2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: applekisses said:
Nothing's wrong, hon. Maybe it's just not the time. Keep going, though. Odds are that one of the upcoming guys has to be local! Easy for you to say You have someone trying to break down your door, even while I was visiting!!!
You are ALWAYS the belle of the ball(s)! How many times do I talk with you and you're telling me you're meeting someone after work? | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: Handclapsfingasnapz said: there's nothing wrong with you/that, man.I meant about the outoftowndar. What is it that I'm only picking dudes I cannot have!? DAMNIT! Someone please live closeby and not have a boyfriend please
. [Edited 3/5/07 13:17pm] I have to go back and read your first entire post
But, skimming through this thread, this is me exactly. Not the whole boyfriend thing, but with friends period. I know a lot of women and we are friends, but I don't have a woman friend that I feel really close to. (My .org friends are an exception, but none live close to me) It makes me sad and what I've noticed is that when I meet a woman that I really like and would like to hang out with, she is unavailable in one way or another, like she lives far away, hangs out with men more than women, has personal issues that make her emotionally unavailable...stuff like that. So if you're weird honey...so am I. I'm firmly planted in denial |
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Oh Richard.....
You ARE cute and sweet, like he said. Oh honey, please just be careful. He doesssss have a boyfriend. I don't wanna see you get hurt if you end up REALLY being into him and he stays with his bf, yanno? | |
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SureThing said: Oh Richard.....
You ARE cute and sweet, like he said. Oh honey, please just be careful. He doesssss have a boyfriend. I don't wanna see you get hurt if you end up REALLY being into him and he stays with his bf, yanno? Awwww Thank you for your concern
Been there and done that and I won't do it again. The chemistry with Mr. Elevator is OUT. OF CONTROL but I will not even allow myself to dive into that pool because for me it will only be a mirage. I need a fountain I can really drink from. 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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applekisses said: SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: Easy for you to say You have someone trying to break down your door, even while I was visiting!!!
You are ALWAYS the belle of the ball(s)! How many times do I talk with you and you're telling me you're meeting someone after work? I'm always staring at my mirror when I'm talking to you! 
I mean 
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Oh I am crap like that.. I let far too many opportunities pass me by.. | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: applekisses said:
You are ALWAYS the belle of the ball(s)! How many times do I talk with you and you're telling me you're meeting someone after work? I'm always staring at my mirror when I'm talking to you!
I mean
It's rarely for actual dates, just friends. It will happen honey...you are just too amazing. Some lucky man will scoop you up...you just wait | |
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applekisses said: SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: I'm always staring at my mirror when I'm talking to you!
I mean
It's rarely for actual dates, just friends. It will happen honey...you are just too amazing. Some lucky man will scoop you up...you just wait I've been waiting for 13,504 days!!!
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shausler said: Maybe that's my problem. I should stop driving the tractor to the clubs  2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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ufoclub said: hmmmm... I noticed ALL the guys are looking at each other at Bally's... but not saying anything...
Does that include you? 
OK.... so going back a few weeks I was at one of the bars I visit on the weekends in Long Beach. So I'm standing next to this amazingly super hot military type dude. Beautiful fresh haircut, the most delicious smile I have seen on a man, probably ever and he was throwin some stares my way. So I'm kind of playing it a little cool trying to think how I was going to say hello. Then I look over at the bar and this guy is staring over at me and I'm like    This guy I had seen a couple weeks prior and he was also throwin stares my way but I was too afraid to say hello. As usual
So I never said hello to him that night but I'm thinkin, OK he's staring at me, he's smiling and Oh oh!! He's Walking over!. Well my ass didn't get shot down just once but twice because he wasn't smiling at me. He was smiling at the military dude I felt so stupide Oh well, whatever. I don't even give that disappointing shit any of my energy. If I did I'd have to lay down in the middle of the street
So I move to another part of the bar and I spot this guy coming in and he has the most amazing eyes. It wasn't just the shape or the color, you could feel him in his eyes. They were so alive and so vibrant. No way in hell is that guy gonna want me so I didn't bother to make this shit a trifecta. I can deal with 2 disappointments, no need to add a third
Well some guy starts a conversation with me and he turns out to be the friend of amazing eyes and so amazing eyes starts talking with me and where the conversation with his friend ended, it continued between us. So I'm secretly very happy that I'm actually talking to this guy and since I didn't have to do the whole woe is me song and dance routine, I felt much more comfortable. We ended up closing the bar down and we ended up seriously macking WTF!? How did this even happen? I don't know and I don't care but it did and he seemed really into me. Almost a month later HE HAS NOT CALLED ME BACK!
I want my mommy 
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TheResistor said: God I love you...
It's ridiculous how alike we are. Well, how alike we were. I still don't have the balls to approach the guys I like. Hence, the reason I stay home on weekends reading Joan Didion or some other depressing shit... You gotta just do it baby That's really the only thing I can say Pretend you're a Nike and just. do. it. It gets easier every time 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: We ended up closing the bar down and we ended up seriously macking
WTF!? How did this even happen? I don't know and I don't care but it did and he seemed really into me. Almost a month later HE HAS NOT CALLED ME BACK!
I want my mommy
That's seriously f*cked up. I don't know you in real life, sadly, but I can't imagine anyone who met you and got to know you NOT wanting to see you further - even if it just turned into something friendly. Some people aren't looking for Mr. Right though, they're looking for Mr. Right-Now. | |
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