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Reply #60 posted 03/01/07 11:26am

mdiver

Mach said:

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God damn boys i thought i was being your bitch & you 2 are going all out you both can suck my ass! lick


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Reply #61 posted 03/01/07 11:27am

Mach

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MAch you used the NON alter account falloff


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Reply #62 posted 03/01/07 11:28am

SureThing

sextonseven said:

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No it isn't.
How are they helping each other?
Tips on how to destroy yourself better is not understanding or help.
If I buy drugs for an addict because I UNDERSTAND withdrawl is hard, is that help?

What if this was a cutter's website and the give each other tips on how to get the most pain and blood without getting caught, is that HELP?

Do these people discuss their motivation for starving themself until they look like holocust survivors, lose hair, and pass out?

Do they ever say this is a good thing because I was just ugly and fat when I was 5'5" and 90 pounds?


I agree that if the site is trading tips on how to support your disorder then it's counterproductive. Alcoholics don't give advice about sneaking a drink when no one is looking at AA meetings, right? But I'm the person that thinks all smokers should go to hell so what do I know? shrug


Well, no, but they have a place to go and talk, and if they want to relapse and go out for a drink that is on them.

Some of the sites are for support some aren't and admittedly aren't before you even ENTER, and some are a haven to promote the disease but disguised as a support in recovery.

Read the opening page of this one.

http://www.bluedragonfly.org/
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Reply #63 posted 03/01/07 11:28am

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wow, this is unknown psychological territory for me... the website's true effect and intention are new/alien to me... I'll have to go through it to see what the shape of things are... and form an opinion.
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Reply #64 posted 03/01/07 11:29am

Imago

We should seriously consider this fine thread for this prize: http://nobelprize.org/nom...ators.html



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Reply #65 posted 03/01/07 11:33am

SureThing

NDRU said:

SureThing said:




So you and BlackAdder are the same person?

Yeah, it is a lifestyle to most of the people on the site.

And it IS a lifestyle, IMO.

It's their choice, to live that way. Even if it is sick.....


I think you're right. As much as I think it's bad & wrong, I don't think people shouldn't be allowed to talk about stuff, if they're just hurting themselves.

I think people should be allowed to talk about using heroin if they want. Lord knows we talk about sex, drugs, & alcohol right here on this site.

I praise Prince, and he's contributed to the ringing in my ears.

As Anx said, where do you draw the line?

Yes anorexia is more serious than som of the above issues, and it's disturbing to see people who try to make it okay, but maybe sites like this are actually an opportunity to monitor people who desperately need help.
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Not only that. And I'm not at all joking around in this thread, guys. But anyways.
It is a disease of secrets and lies. It really really is. And if these girls can come out and talk about it, I really feel, for those that have TRUE and DEEP issues, that is a step in the rite direction. This needs to be brought out into the light. Its a shameful and secretive disease, and IF we as onlookeers can learn from some of these sites and understand its great. Also these girls who have actual REAL DISORDERS are making the first step into recovery by openly admitting they are sick!

How can we take that away from them?
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Reply #66 posted 03/01/07 11:40am

Anx

so dani, do you think the pro-anorexia sites are a first step for people w/ eating disorders to go public and feel "accepted" as people living with it, and that it helps them move on to some kind of recovery phase? do you think the pro-ana sites are a necessary evil?
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Reply #67 posted 03/01/07 11:41am

Imago

Anx said:

so dani, do you think the pro-anorexia sites are a first step for people w/ eating disorders to go public and feel "accepted" as people living with it, and that it helps them move on to some kind of recovery phase? do you think the pro-ana sites are a necessary evil?



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Reply #68 posted 03/01/07 11:44am

Anx

Imago said:

Anx said:

so dani, do you think the pro-anorexia sites are a first step for people w/ eating disorders to go public and feel "accepted" as people living with it, and that it helps them move on to some kind of recovery phase? do you think the pro-ana sites are a necessary evil?



Be prepared for an incomprehencibly well articulated response.



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Reply #69 posted 03/01/07 11:45am

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I had read an article about these websites, and wanted to see it for myself. What I saw was very unhealthy, and should not be made available to young girls. There were chants and mantras that "helped" girls deal with the pain of hunger in order to achieve "perfection" (thinness) They had tips to beat hunger, fool friends and family into thinking that they eat, and ways to lose even more weight from an already skeletal frame. They also had photos of celebrities who were their idols, because they had low body fat percentages. I felt very sad for the people who created the website, and angry at the same time. The comments left by young girls broke my heart.
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Reply #70 posted 03/01/07 11:45am

SureThing

Anx said:

so dani, do you think the pro-anorexia sites are a first step for people w/ eating disorders to go public and feel "accepted" as people living with it, and that it helps them move on to some kind of recovery phase? do you think the pro-ana sites are a necessary evil?



falloff


I really don't believe many of the members of pro ana sites are ever going to recover.

But maybe some will.

Also what did you guys think of the sites you saw? That they were sick? That you never wanna turn into that? So that is imformative, it shows you what path you could be headed down if you decide to purge ONE time. (Purging is very addictive by the way). Just like we know how dangerous heroin is if you try it just ONE time.

Some people may feel that purging is innocent if you do it a couple times, but now look at these sites, and see how you can ACTUALLY end up.

And probably a couple of the ana's / mia's will recover too. Maybe through the site they will be able to identify the root of their eating disorder (which is RARELY ever jsut to lose weight) and maybe they can make life changes and start the process towards recovery.




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Reply #71 posted 03/01/07 11:45am

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in all honesty, i feel like the sites are encouraging the problem rather than fixing it.
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Reply #72 posted 03/01/07 11:46am

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SureThing said:

NDRU said:



I think you're right. As much as I think it's bad & wrong, I don't think people shouldn't be allowed to talk about stuff, if they're just hurting themselves.

I think people should be allowed to talk about using heroin if they want. Lord knows we talk about sex, drugs, & alcohol right here on this site.

I praise Prince, and he's contributed to the ringing in my ears.

As Anx said, where do you draw the line?

Yes anorexia is more serious than som of the above issues, and it's disturbing to see people who try to make it okay, but maybe sites like this are actually an opportunity to monitor people who desperately need help.
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Not only that. And I'm not at all joking around in this thread, guys. But anyways.
It is a disease of secrets and lies. It really really is. And if these girls can come out and talk about it, I really feel, for those that have TRUE and DEEP issues, that is a step in the rite direction. This needs to be brought out into the light. Its a shameful and secretive disease, and IF we as onlookeers can learn from some of these sites and understand its great. Also these girls who have actual REAL DISORDERS are making the first step into recovery by openly admitting they are sick!

How can we take that away from them?
[Edited 3/1/07 11:36am]


It's an insight into the way they think, too, which could help those who treat them.
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Reply #73 posted 03/01/07 11:47am

SureThing

cborgman said:

in all honesty, i feel like the sites are encouraging the problem rather than fixing it.



They are. But like NDRU just said, they can give insight into the minds of the people with this problem.

Look, this is gonna turn out to be an epidemic. We need to be ready and we need the knowledge that these sites can give us.
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Reply #74 posted 03/01/07 11:50am

SureThing

Imago said:

Anx said:

so dani, do you think the pro-anorexia sites are a first step for people w/ eating disorders to go public and feel "accepted" as people living with it, and that it helps them move on to some kind of recovery phase? do you think the pro-ana sites are a necessary evil?



Be prepared for an incomprehencibly well articulated response.



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Reply #75 posted 03/01/07 11:51am

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lol thanks so much for the orgnote. This thread is "hurting"? lol

I think as long as you're not hurting anyone other than yourself, you can do whatever the fuck you want.

Unfortunately, eating disorders rarely affect the singular idiot doing it. shrug Sorry to be an ass. I'd get more into this, but the phone won't stop ringing.
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Reply #76 posted 03/01/07 11:53am

Anx

are there pro-gymorexia sites? or is there even really such a thing as gymorexia?
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Reply #77 posted 03/01/07 11:53am

SureThing

So here is a list of sites if anyone wants to check them out.

If any of you have kids friends family that you worry about and want to watch for any signs beyond what you hear on stupid tv shows here ya go.

www.pro-ana-nation.com

www.westfrom.com

www.angelicasana.istemp.com

www.freewebs.com/red_kels/

I'm really just trying to help. This is a big issue and its something we need start taking seriously.
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Reply #78 posted 03/01/07 11:54am

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do mine eyes deceive me? a serious thread from dani?? hmm
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Reply #79 posted 03/01/07 11:54am

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INSATIABLE said:

lol thanks so much for the orgnote. This thread is "hurting"? lol


How many people did Dani orgnote??? mad
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Reply #80 posted 03/01/07 11:55am

CarrieMpls

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Anx said:

are there pro-gymorexia sites? or is there even really such a thing as gymorexia?


I think that's Gymnasuimia. confuse
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Reply #81 posted 03/01/07 11:56am

IrresistibleB1
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Anx said:

are there pro-gymorexia sites? or is there even really such a thing as gymorexia?


it's gynorexia, sweetie. you should be checked annually for that at your age. nod
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Reply #82 posted 03/01/07 11:56am

Imago

CarrieMpls said:

Anx said:

are there pro-gymorexia sites? or is there even really such a thing as gymorexia?


I think that's Gymnasuimia. confuse



It's a form of "Exercise Bolemia"


Believe it or not it's a true diagnosis.
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Reply #83 posted 03/01/07 11:56am

Anx

CarrieMpls said:

Anx said:

are there pro-gymorexia sites? or is there even really such a thing as gymorexia?


I think that's Gymnasuimia. confuse


i can't even pronounce that word so if people have that disorder it's their own problem and i'm not getting in it. hmph!
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Reply #84 posted 03/01/07 11:57am

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sad not thrilled that you seem to know so much about this surething
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Reply #85 posted 03/01/07 11:57am

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SureThing said:

sextonseven said:



I agree that if the site is trading tips on how to support your disorder then it's counterproductive. Alcoholics don't give advice about sneaking a drink when no one is looking at AA meetings, right? But I'm the person that thinks all smokers should go to hell so what do I know? shrug


Well, no, but they have a place to go and talk, and if they want to relapse and go out for a drink that is on them.

Some of the sites are for support some aren't and admittedly aren't before you even ENTER, and some are a haven to promote the disease but disguised as a support in recovery.

Read the opening page of this one.

http://www.bluedragonfly.org/


Ya'know it says all the right things, but then there is a really glamorous looking photo of a thin woman right above it all so the message to me is mixed. confused
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Reply #86 posted 03/01/07 11:58am

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I want to shake those sick bitches. HARD lol
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Reply #87 posted 03/01/07 11:58am

SureThing

Imago said:

CarrieMpls said:



I think that's Gymnasuimia. confuse



It's a form of "Exercise Bolemia"


Believe it or not it's a true diagnosis.



Go to pro ana nation, that is the most informed site there is.

Dan is rite.

People excercise to the point way beyond exhaustion instead of purging.
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Reply #88 posted 03/01/07 11:58am

CarrieMpls

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Anx said:

CarrieMpls said:



I think that's Gymnasuimia. confuse


i can't even pronounce that word so if people have that disorder it's their own problem and i'm not getting in it. hmph!


OR their damned websites! hmph!
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Reply #89 posted 03/01/07 12:00pm

Anx

SureThing said:

Imago said:




It's a form of "Exercise Bolemia"


Believe it or not it's a true diagnosis.



Go to pro ana nation, that is the most informed site there is.

Dan is rite.

People excercise to the point way beyond exhaustion instead of purging.



can't the gym owners just throw them out?
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