i just prefer to hug, period.

I think I go right also. But it kinda depends.

Handclapsfingasnapz said:

what about an unexpected peck on the cheek? when that happens to me, i have typically already moved on toward the person's ear, and kissing them there just adds a whole different level to the exchange...

CarrieMpls said:

depends on what?

I go in fast and low.

UGH GAWD!!!!!
Don't EVEN fall into that trap IB.
UGH.

This one time when I was really young, I don't know, I must have been in science class or something, and the teacher was saying how everyone JUST BREATHES without thinking about it, yanno, we just do it.

So of course, I START THINKING about it. And it became a THING where like I MADE myself breathe. IN and OUT IN and OUT.

Now do it.

It gets old huh?

So STILL to this day, every so often I DO the breathing thing whenever I am reminded, (like by this thread) and then the breathing DOESNT come natureal, it becomes a chore.

Your doing it rite now aren't you?

Its ANNOYING isn't it?



UGH!


So anyway, don't fall into the trap, of UNNATURAL hugging.

DONT DO IT!

IrresistibleB1tch said:

Like, if it's a really tall guy, then I'm all about the middle, under the chin. Or if hugging goodbye while seated in a car, that can always be awkward.

Oh, how interesting. I'm gonna be watching for huggers all the time now.

I'm not a touchy feely person myself so I don't hug people (just my son, of course).

2the9s said:

My fave is always gonna be the under the arms boob grab hug. Usually does the trick

I hug everyone I love. Friends, family, it's an italian thing I think.


Off topic, but you should have seen the body language from my ex wife when Erin hugged her. Fucking HILARIOUS.

CarrieMpls said:

tall guy hugs! my favorite!

and yeah, car hugs stink.

jerseykrs said:

I will bet that was beautiful mate, nice one Erin

mdiver said:

PRICELESS, Candie stuck her hand out to shake her hand.
[Edited 3/1/07 6:38am]

JustErin said:

let me know what you find! i need to get ready for proper huggage when we finally move to ( <- wishful thinking)

i don't know. i'm left handed. i probably hug everyone as if i hate their guts. oopsies

mdiver said:

you'd be pulling back a bloody stump, my friend!

hugs are goooood

jerseykrs said:

there's a long story there well beyond some body language, methinks!

Anx said:

there's rehab for that, i hear.

jerseykrs said:

OKay ... I can not incorperate the thought that there is negitive energy in a hug period

IrresistibleB1tch said:

Obviously not the first time i meet you

IAintTheOne said:

left or right? (i don't want to mess up, yanno! )

IrresistibleB1tch said:

i very rarely get kisses on the cheek, nor do i kiss anybody.

Mach said:

Sometimes there is.

I hug everyone too, but like, when its the inlaws or sometimes my mom there is DEF negativity in it.



And IB, I'm doing this new thing, where I don't hold stuff in. I confront my feelings, and then calmly make them known.

Well, I couldn't help but notice that you responded to everyone in the thread but me. That hurt my feelings.

IrresistibleB1tch said:

i personally think i give good hug. i didn't know about all this right/left code of honor stuff. i need to start dating a right handed person so i can make them hug all my friends and family members for me and nobody will be offended. he can hug my mom and i can say "oh, that's from both of us."

Mach said:

i know - seems weird. she said the hug to their right is negative energy. i can't imagine having put out a boatload of negativity over the years...

IrresistibleB1tch said:

whatever flips ya skirt