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PrintableHereToRockYourWorld said: Handclapsfingasnapz said: i'm not even sure if i should listen to other people anymore at this point in time, as everybody's take on it is different. there's everyone else's relations, sure, but i really can't tell how i would feel. Nah, and the Mistress is right.  but i'm the kind of person who has to experience something on my own, as opposed to just experiencing it vicariously through other people. i can observe other people and listen to them, but up to a point. | |
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Handclapsfingasnapz said: HereToRockYourWorld said: Nah, and the Mistress is right. but i'm the kind of person who has to experience something on my own, as opposed to just experiencing it vicariously through other people. i can observe other people and listen to them, but up to a point. i think thats the only way anybody could learn  | |
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HereToRockYourWorld said: 
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Wait! True love is better than spaceships and money and DEFINITELY better than blue tights!  The Normal Whores Club | |
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brownsugar said: Handclapsfingasnapz said: but i'm the kind of person who has to experience something on my own, as opposed to just experiencing it vicariously through other people. i can observe other people and listen to them, but up to a point. i think thats the only way anybody could learn yeah...difference with me though is that i'm standing at the window and looking at everyone else and wondering if i wanna start tapping on it or not right now.  | |
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Handclapsfingasnapz said: brownsugar said: i think thats the only way anybody could learn yeah...difference with me though is that i'm standing at the window and looking at everyone else and wondering if i wanna start tapping on it or not right now. In my experience, it's more like something comes crashing out of that window when you're minding your own damn business, spraying glass and love juice everywhere and before you know it the love juice is all over you and there's nothing you can do about it.
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FunkMistress said: Handclapsfingasnapz said: yeah...difference with me though is that i'm standing at the window and looking at everyone else and wondering if i wanna start tapping on it or not right now. In my experience, it's more like something comes crashing out of that window when you're minding your own damn business, spraying glass and love juice everywhere and before you know it the love juice is all over you and there's nothing you can do about it.
thats pretty much it. but i hate things i have no control over. especially my feelings. i think it would be nice if we could turn them on an off i think. | |
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Handclapsfingasnapz said: HereToRockYourWorld said: Nah, and the Mistress is right. but i'm the kind of person who has to experience something on my own, as opposed to just experiencing it vicariously through other people. i can observe other people and listen to them, but up to a point. Gotcha. That's what Erin said, and I'm agreeing.  oh noes, prince is gonna soo me!!1! | |
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FunkMistress said: Handclapsfingasnapz said: yeah...difference with me though is that i'm standing at the window and looking at everyone else and wondering if i wanna start tapping on it or not right now. In my experience, it's more like something comes crashing out of that window when you're minding your own damn business, spraying glass and love juice everywhere and before you know it the love juice is all over you and there's nothing you can do about it.
Egggggzactly. oh noes, prince is gonna soo me!!1! | |
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FunkMistress said: HereToRockYourWorld said:
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Wait! True love is better than spaceships and money and DEFINITELY better than blue tights! Maybe.  oh noes, prince is gonna soo me!!1! | |
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Nope, never been in love. RIP, mom. I will forever miss and love you. | |
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HowComeYouDontCallme said: 25 years ago I met my first true love.. I was 16 and he was 18.. We dated for 11 months and then he broke up with me.
I was so sad..I loved him so much. I lost 10 pounds in 3 weeks and it took me 4 years to accept that he wasn't coming back to me.. The day he got married I accepted his love for another woman. But.. I could never forget him... I still loved him and he had a special place in my heart. But life went on... I moved to different places, got married .. had a son, got divorced.. I had some other love affairs.. but they never lasted. And 7 months ago.... He called me up!! My heart was beating in my throat.. I didn't know what to say.. OMG!!! (The last time I saw him( for about 20 seconds) was 16 years ago when his oldest daughter was born.) He told me he never forgot about me... that I had a special place in his heart What are the odds... We never knew this about eachother And now we are together again.. after 25 years..two adult people who once fell in love when they were teenagers..Two people with a lot of bagage and experience, Two people who never stopped loving eachother, Two people who discovered that they belong together! Madly in love... still... again! And we're gonna get married!! 
He asked me to be his wife!
[Edited 2/24/07 1:14am]  Aww, that's so sweet, I love hearing stories like that. It's almost like a story you read in one of those romance novels. Congrats!  RIP, mom. I will forever miss and love you. | |
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HowComeYouDontCallme said: 25 years ago I met my first true love.. I was 16 and he was 18.. We dated for 11 months and then he broke up with me.
I was so sad..I loved him so much. I lost 10 pounds in 3 weeks and it took me 4 years to accept that he wasn't coming back to me.. The day he got married I accepted his love for another woman. But.. I could never forget him... I still loved him and he had a special place in my heart. But life went on... I moved to different places, got married .. had a son, got divorced.. I had some other love affairs.. but they never lasted. And 7 months ago.... He called me up!! My heart was beating in my throat.. I didn't know what to say.. OMG!!! (The last time I saw him( for about 20 seconds) was 16 years ago when his oldest daughter was born.) He told me he never forgot about me... that I had a special place in his heart What are the odds... We never knew this about eachother And now we are together again.. after 25 years..two adult people who once fell in love when they were teenagers..Two people with a lot of bagage and experience, Two people who never stopped loving eachother, Two people who discovered that they belong together! Madly in love... still... again! And we're gonna get married!!
He asked me to be his wife!
[Edited 2/24/07 1:14am] must say...sounds promising to me in my situation. | |
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thedribbler said: All said and done (more than once) I think I actually prefer 2 b independant, but not closed off.
People grow, change and die, gradually or suddenly. Bottom line: Don't hold 2 tightly on2 anything, nothing belongs 2 anyone, not respecting this law leads 2 unnecessary pain and can leave u emotionaly crippled. O.O. - objective observation. class dismissed. Say something once, why not say it again? | |
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thedribbler said: thedribbler said: All said and done (more than once) I think I actually prefer 2 b independant, but not closed off.
People grow, change and die, gradually or suddenly. Bottom line: Don't hold 2 tightly on2 anything, nothing belongs 2 anyone, not respecting this law leads 2 unnecessary pain and can leave u emotionaly crippled. O.O. - objective observation. class dismissed. Say something once, why not say it again? i like that idea, but never seem to stick to it. silly attachments. | |
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brownsugar said: FunkMistress said: In my experience, it's more like something comes crashing out of that window when you're minding your own damn business, spraying glass and love juice everywhere and before you know it the love juice is all over you and there's nothing you can do about it.
thats pretty much it. but i hate things i have no control over. especially my feelings. i think it would be nice if we could turn them on an off i think. that's how it always is for me. i've had to be taught to turn stuff on and off though, it wasn't totally outta my own doing. | |
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FunkMistress said: Handclapsfingasnapz said: yeah...difference with me though is that i'm standing at the window and looking at everyone else and wondering if i wanna start tapping on it or not right now. In my experience, it's more like something comes crashing out of that window when you're minding your own damn business, spraying glass and love juice everywhere and before you know it the love juice is all over you and there's nothing you can do about it.
wait...what, kinna like this? 
but still, my way of looking at it is that love seems a lot like...say, getting tattooed or pierced. everybody's got a different pain threshold, so asking someone who's went under the needle "did that hurt?" ain't too much of help for somebody who's never gotten one done. the only way one would know for sure is that they go ahead and get it done themselves, as opposed to simply going on the usual "omgz, it hurt so much, i damn near passed out!" or "meh. not really"-type remarks. i'm not much of the asplodey-type anyway, so that may be why i'm going back and forth with all of ya'll. my mileage is gonna wind up varying anyhow. | |
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Handclapsfingasnapz said: FunkMistress said: In my experience, it's more like something comes crashing out of that window when you're minding your own damn business, spraying glass and love juice everywhere and before you know it the love juice is all over you and there's nothing you can do about it.
wait...what, kinna like this? Oh shit.  The Normal Whores Club | |
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FunkMistress said: 
another thing for me is that way before i came out, i really didn't care for going steady with anybody to begin with. i found the idea of the whole boyfriend-and-girlfriend and "crush" thing weird, so i didn't give a shit about love and its relations for a real long time. i missed out on a ton of shit when i was younger because of that...it helped in a lotta ways, but also hindered me too. | |
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I LOVE vodka. I mean, like, LOVE it. When its mixed perfectly, forget it!
I've also been in love and had it crush me. But its all worth it as I can see again. | |
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HowComeYouDontCallme said: 25 years ago I met my first true love.. I was 16 and he was 18.. We dated for 11 months and then he broke up with me.
I was so sad..I loved him so much. I lost 10 pounds in 3 weeks and it took me 4 years to accept that he wasn't coming back to me.. The day he got married I accepted his love for another woman. But.. I could never forget him... I still loved him and he had a special place in my heart. But life went on... I moved to different places, got married .. had a son, got divorced.. I had some other love affairs.. but they never lasted. And 7 months ago.... He called me up!! My heart was beating in my throat.. I didn't know what to say.. OMG!!! (The last time I saw him( for about 20 seconds) was 16 years ago when his oldest daughter was born.) He told me he never forgot about me... that I had a special place in his heart What are the odds... We never knew this about eachother And now we are together again.. after 25 years..two adult people who once fell in love when they were teenagers..Two people with a lot of bagage and experience, Two people who never stopped loving eachother, Two people who discovered that they belong together! Madly in love... still... again! And we're gonna get married!!
He asked me to be his wife!
[Edited 2/24/07 1:14am] Wow..sounds like me and my hubby now...We too were high school sweethearts, I 15, him 18. We met and dated for a while in high school, then we broke up, he married and I just accepted that as a sign. Bare in mind this was the first person that I ever truely loved. So I accepted the cards that were dealt and went on with my life. I eventually married, twice actually, but always felt that there was something missing with my previous marriages, then in the middle of my second divorce I was online and ran into my ex ( now hubby) in a chat room ( of all places). It had been 17 years since we had even spoken to each other! I foun out he was divorced too and we immediately set a date to get together and go out again. After that weekend back together, we knew the love we once shared had never really left either one of us. Within the next 3 months I moved in with him, we were married within a year and have been happy ever since. We'll be celebrating our 4th wedding anniversary in Oct.of this year. So yes I believe true love does exist.  ...best of luck to you both.[Edited 2/26/07 12:03pm] Because of God..we 2 r 1~~Darren & Suzyn forever
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hisfan4ever said: HowComeYouDontCallme said: 25 years ago I met my first true love.. I was 16 and he was 18.. We dated for 11 months and then he broke up with me.
I was so sad..I loved him so much. I lost 10 pounds in 3 weeks and it took me 4 years to accept that he wasn't coming back to me.. The day he got married I accepted his love for another woman. But.. I could never forget him... I still loved him and he had a special place in my heart. But life went on... I moved to different places, got married .. had a son, got divorced.. I had some other love affairs.. but they never lasted. And 7 months ago.... He called me up!! My heart was beating in my throat.. I didn't know what to say.. OMG!!! (The last time I saw him( for about 20 seconds) was 16 years ago when his oldest daughter was born.) He told me he never forgot about me... that I had a special place in his heart What are the odds... We never knew this about eachother And now we are together again.. after 25 years..two adult people who once fell in love when they were teenagers..Two people with a lot of bagage and experience, Two people who never stopped loving eachother, Two people who discovered that they belong together! Madly in love... still... again! And we're gonna get married!!
He asked me to be his wife!
[Edited 2/24/07 1:14am] Wow..sounds like me and my hubby now...We too were high school sweethearts, I 15, him 18. We met and dated for a while in high school, then we broke up, he married and I just accepted that as a sign. Bare in mind this was the first person that I ever truely loved. So I accepted the cards that were dealt and went on with my life. I eventually married, twice actually, but always felt that there was something missing with my previous marriages, then in the middle of my second divorce I was online and ran into my ex ( now hubby) in a chat room ( of all places). It had been 17 years since we had even spoken to each other! I foun out he was divorced too and we immediately set a date to get together and go out again. After that weekend back together, we knew the love we once shared had never really left either one of us. Within the next 3 months I moved in with him, we were married within a year and have been happy ever since. We'll be celebrating our 4th wedding anniversary in Oct.of this year. So yes I believe true love does exist. ...best of luck to you both.
[Edited 2/26/07 12:03pm] i love these stories!! There is no perfect place
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fantasyislander said: hisfan4ever said: Wow..sounds like me and my hubby now...We too were high school sweethearts, I 15, him 18. We met and dated for a while in high school, then we broke up, he married and I just accepted that as a sign. Bare in mind this was the first person that I ever truely loved. So I accepted the cards that were dealt and went on with my life. I eventually married, twice actually, but always felt that there was something missing with my previous marriages, then in the middle of my second divorce I was online and ran into my ex ( now hubby) in a chat room ( of all places). It had been 17 years since we had even spoken to each other! I foun out he was divorced too and we immediately set a date to get together and go out again. After that weekend back together, we knew the love we once shared had never really left either one of us. Within the next 3 months I moved in with him, we were married within a year and have been happy ever since. We'll be celebrating our 4th wedding anniversary in Oct.of this year. So yes I believe true love does exist. ...best of luck to you both.
[Edited 2/26/07 12:03pm] i love these stories!! I love them 2!!! Specially because they make me feel that I can b 2gether with my man 4 a long, long time. 'Cause people r like: "U're so young, what do U know." 
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I don't care That much about these stories. | |
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thedribbler said: I don't care That much about these stories.
funny, i was thinking the same thing about you.  There is no perfect place
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fantasyislander said: thedribbler said: I don't care That much about these stories.
funny, i was thinking the same thing about you. string him up. i'll get my knife. | |
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12FU said: fantasyislander said: funny, i was thinking the same thing about you. string him up. i'll get my knife.
err, i mean.  now now, that wasn't nice.There is no perfect place
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fantasyislander said: 12FU said: string him up. i'll get my knife.
err, i mean. now now, that wasn't nice.so? the motivation was there. | |
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12FU said: fantasyislander said:
err, i mean. now now, that wasn't nice.so? the motivation was there. Oh, look the thought police!! The Americans r coming! Run! | |
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thedribbler said: 12FU said: so? the motivation was there. Oh, look the thought police!! The Americans r coming! Run! a thought has to be there to police. with you it's more like a dead donkey with fuckin' flies around it. | |
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