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PrintableNAnomaly said: novabrkr said: Not really, perverts are always perfectly happy if they just get to exercise their perversive behaviour with someone (assuming the person really has a genuine fixed "perversion" and is not just looking for unusual things to spice up the sex life). The rest of men are always looking for other alternatives, and that means also considering other women as an option. The more "normal" the guy may seem the more normal behaviour it is for him to view women as a tradeable good (since they are not getting anything else than the "pure" woman in exchange, so they have to keep on looking unlike the pervert who doesn't even want to get rid of his perversion as it produces him happiness) Hey I mean, if your man wants to lick your toes while he is dressed up as a robot, I say do it. You will have yourself a life-long companion right there.   interestingYes very interesting. I really like spicy food. I mostly put Jalapenos on a lot of my food.
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Paradisekiss03 said: So I assume that if I am listening to a conversation of a man then he will do the same for me. I mean I do not like to jump to the quick conclusion that all men are perves, but since I am in a university then I don't know. [Edited 2/18/07 9:50am] You know, the concept isn't so unheard of...there are many many men who enjoy conversation with women...no strings, no ulterior motives....the problem comes in when previous experiences with some men casts us all in that bad light...since some guys feign paying attention as a means to an end, that must mean that all of us do so....personally, everyone should be judged on their own merits...if the bullshit meter goes off, then off they go... ...plus you have to gauge the surroundings...if you're in a club with a rep for being a meat market, then you realistically can't expect to be approached by anyone with long term prospects in mind...not saying that it CAN'T happen, but its not very likely....at the same time, you can't wear your previous relationship experiences as a bullet proof vest because that sabotages anything positive before you even get there..... the bottom line is that we're not all pervs....nor are we the last guy who fucked over you....so don't make us suffer for his crime...judge the conversation attempt on its own merits....if you're not interested, then say so...no need for nastiness, unless presented with it....if the guy gives you the creeps, then don't even entertain it....move on....say, "this was all shits and giggles, but I'm moving on"..... the lack of sincerity is a two way street because women are just as apt to sit there and suck drinks out of some guy who really thinks he's getting somewhere even though she has no intention of ever letting the clueless clod anywhere near her....or has so much emotional baggage that the poor sap has a better chance becoming a woman than getting with her.... He was like a cock who thought the sun had risen to hear him crow.
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reneGade20 said: Paradisekiss03 said: So I assume that if I am listening to a conversation of a man then he will do the same for me. I mean I do not like to jump to the quick conclusion that all men are perves, but since I am in a university then I don't know. [Edited 2/18/07 9:50am] You know, the concept isn't so unheard of...there are many many men who enjoy conversation with women...no strings, no ulterior motives....the problem comes in when previous experiences with some men casts us all in that bad light...since some guys feign paying attention as a means to an end, that must mean that all of us do so....personally, everyone should be judged on their own merits...if the bullshit meter goes off, then off they go... ...plus you have to gauge the surroundings...if you're in a club with a rep for being a meat market, then you realistically can't expect to be approached by anyone with long term prospects in mind...not saying that it CAN'T happen, but its not very likely....at the same time, you can't wear your previous relationship experiences as a bullet proof vest because that sabotages anything positive before you even get there..... the bottom line is that we're not all pervs....nor are we the last guy who fucked over you....so don't make us suffer for his crime...judge the conversation attempt on its own merits....if you're not interested, then say so...no need for nastiness, unless presented with it....if the guy gives you the creeps, then don't even entertain it....move on....say, "this was all shits and giggles, but I'm moving on"..... the lack of sincerity is a two way street because women are just as apt to sit there and suck drinks out of some guy who really thinks he's getting somewhere even though she has no intention of ever letting the clueless clod anywhere near her....or has so much emotional baggage that the poor sap has a better chance becoming a woman than getting with her.... Thanks for explaining. I really like spicy food. I mostly put Jalapenos on a lot of my food.
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reneGade20 said: oldpurple said: Hes trying not to look at your tits   What tits?!?! She's got tits?!?!?!  what you mean is Tits (in the Homer dreaming of beer way) | |
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JustErin said: Paradisekiss03 said: Why would a man hold eye contact with a woman during a conversation for more than an average eye contact holding time? Are men quick to assume that a woman is interested in him?
My experience has been that men that are really interested tend to be shy about making prolonged eye contact. Just my experience though. I am that way. | |
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jerseykrs said: JustErin said: My experience has been that men that are really interested tend to be shy about making prolonged eye contact. Just my experience though. I am that way. The Normal Whores Club | |
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FunkMistress said: jerseykrs said: I am that way.  FunkMistress!  | |
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jerseykrs said: FunkMistress said: FunkMistress!  The Normal Whores Club | |
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oldpurple said: reneGade20 said: What tits?!?! She's got tits?!?!?! what you mean is Tits (in the Homer dreaming of beer way) I was attempting not to notice them.....  trying to maintain eye contact.....
but in the immortal words of Pookie in New Jack City.... "...them shits be callin' me man....they be callin' me..." He was like a cock who thought the sun had risen to hear him crow.
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