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Reply #30 posted 09/11/02 12:31pm

CarrieLee

Aerogram said:

Speaking of that, I wonder how many straight gals would like to have a threesome with their hubby and a gay man. There's a classic gay porn movie from the 70's with a waitress playing peeping tammy on two gay truckers. smile


The other man doesn't have to be gay, right? I mean why not 2 straight guys and a girl? The men don't have to do anything to each other, just the girl.

I think I may like that. lol lol lol I like a little pampering...
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Reply #31 posted 09/11/02 12:35pm

Aerogram

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By the way, it is SO predictable that this thread is being threadjacked by straight guys fantasizing about lesbien sex. smile
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Reply #32 posted 09/11/02 12:43pm

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CarrieLee said:

Aerogram said:

Speaking of that, I wonder how many straight gals would like to have a threesome with their hubby and a gay man. There's a classic gay porn movie from the 70's with a waitress playing peeping tammy on two gay truckers. smile


The other man doesn't have to be gay, right? I mean why not 2 straight guys and a girl? The men don't have to do anything to each other, just the girl.

I think I may like that. lol lol lol I like a little pampering...


For Gawd's sake, I'm not talking about being boned in stereo... don't straightify it. I'm trying to find out if women could be curious about male homosexuality within the context of a threesome.
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Reply #33 posted 09/11/02 1:29pm

ian

CarrieLee said:


I went to a club in Providence and these 2 girls were dressed in Bondage gear, on leashes and spanking each other. Giggling and waiting for any man to pay attention to them so they could make out. barf They were just sluts!!! Drives me crazy.

way too much info I just gave, therefor I will edit!!
[This message was edited Wed Sep 11 12:24:12 PDT 2002 by CarrieLee]


Ah well that's nice ... people of a kinky persuasion seem to find it just as hard as gay people to "come out of the closet" sometimes it seems smile

But I take your point!
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Reply #34 posted 09/11/02 1:30pm

CarrieLee

Aerogram said:

CarrieLee said:

Aerogram said:

Speaking of that, I wonder how many straight gals would like to have a threesome with their hubby and a gay man. There's a classic gay porn movie from the 70's with a waitress playing peeping tammy on two gay truckers. smile


The other man doesn't have to be gay, right? I mean why not 2 straight guys and a girl? The men don't have to do anything to each other, just the girl.

I think I may like that. lol lol lol I like a little pampering...


For Gawd's sake, I'm not talking about being boned in stereo... don't straightify it. I'm trying to find out if women could be curious about male homosexuality within the context of a threesome.



eek Boned in stereo? eek lol

For the record I wasn't talking about any dp's...
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Reply #35 posted 09/11/02 1:31pm

CarrieLee

ian said:

CarrieLee said:


I went to a club in Providence and these 2 girls were dressed in Bondage gear, on leashes and spanking each other. Giggling and waiting for any man to pay attention to them so they could make out. barf They were just sluts!!! Drives me crazy.

way too much info I just gave, therefor I will edit!!
[This message was edited Wed Sep 11 12:24:12 PDT 2002 by CarrieLee]


Ah well that's nice ... people of a kinky persuasion seem to find it just as hard as gay people to "come out of the closet" sometimes it seems smile

But I take your point!



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Reply #36 posted 09/11/02 1:34pm

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ian said:

CarrieLee said:


I went to a club in Providence and these 2 girls were dressed in Bondage gear, on leashes and spanking each other. Giggling and waiting for any man to pay attention to them so they could make out. barf They were just sluts!!! Drives me crazy.

way too much info I just gave, therefor I will edit!!
[This message was edited Wed Sep 11 12:24:12 PDT 2002 by CarrieLee]


Ah well that's nice ... people of a kinky persuasion seem to find it just as hard as gay people to "come out of the closet" sometimes it seems smile

But I take your point!


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Reply #37 posted 09/11/02 1:57pm

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Then I got hit with a $270 fine (plus court costs) in Pittsburgh for making out with another guy in his car. No less than 5 cop cars surrounded us, I had to go to court over it, and they mailed a copy of the police report to my house complete with a description of the offense "with another man", which my parents would have easily seen had I not gotten the mail that day. I'm having a hard time believing this would have happened to me if it was a woman in the car.


Our cops hard at work, fighting crime... rolleyes

Here in Toronto, the cops raided a bathhouse last year. Just by chance rolleyes a lesbian group had rented the facilities and where having a gay ol' time. I guess the cops just happened to drop in on the only night where lesbians were there (there have been few raids on bathhouses since the early eighties, save for the infamous Bijou raid -- don't ask).
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Reply #38 posted 09/11/02 3:46pm

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Reply #39 posted 09/11/02 7:36pm

Aerogram

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Christopher said:

i agree homophobia is so gay!


ducks aaron


This sounds about right. It's been shown in laboratories that gay bashers strapped to a penile-o-meter react erotically to pictures of naked men more than non-bashing, self-described "straight" subjects.

The correct statement is that homophobes are so gay... homophobia is just ugly. smile
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Reply #40 posted 09/12/02 4:25am

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Christopher said:

ducks aaron


LoL, Just don't bend over!
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Reply #41 posted 09/12/02 5:05am

AprilMichelle

in response 2 carrie lee...i used 2 b engaged 2 a woman named raven and there is a good possibility of my becoming engaged 2 the man i'm seeing now...(not at the same time of course:) ) regardless of whether i had had a civil ceremony w/ Raven or a traditional marriage w/ Anthony...either one would make me happy...i see myself settling down w/ a certain type of person...if that person is male or female is irrelevant...just as long as i love who they are...as far as kids go, i want only 1 if any at all...i worked daycare 4 two years and now i hate children...lol
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Reply #42 posted 09/12/02 9:57am

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Natasha said:

Was it Hard for you to Come Out as a Gay person? What were your Experiences and do you feel Bias or have you been a Victim of a Bias Crime?


Coming out was painless but I waited until I got the hell out of Texas just in case...lol...but I live in Los Angeles now and I swear to God every other man is gay out here...man it's this fun playground out here...unfortunately not many gay Prince fans...the gay community out here has low standards in music...do I really need to here a sped up remix version of fucking Celine Dion every time I wander into a bar in West Hollywood?
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Reply #43 posted 09/12/02 10:25am

CarrieLee

AprilMichelle said:

in response 2 carrie lee...i used 2 b engaged 2 a woman named raven and there is a good possibility of my becoming engaged 2 the man i'm seeing now...(not at the same time of course:) ) regardless of whether i had had a civil ceremony w/ Raven or a traditional marriage w/ Anthony...either one would make me happy...i see myself settling down w/ a certain type of person...if that person is male or female is irrelevant...just as long as i love who they are...as far as kids go, i want only 1 if any at all...i worked daycare 4 two years and now i hate children...lol



Thanks April, you sound like a sweet person. You just love everyone!!! lol kiss
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Reply #44 posted 09/12/02 11:28am

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"Thanks April, you sound like a sweet person. You just love everyone!!! lol kiss[/quote]


but then again so do you! lol
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Reply #45 posted 09/12/02 11:29am

CarrieLee

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"Thanks April, you sound like a sweet person. You just love everyone!!! lol kiss


but then again so do you! lol



Yeah if you don't give me a hard time, and in your case, YOU DO!!! lol

Just kiddin, I do love ya Sag! But your use of quotes suck!


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Reply #46 posted 09/12/02 11:36am

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CarrieLee said:

sag10 said:

"Thanks April, you sound like a sweet person. You just love everyone!!! lol kiss


but then again so do you! lol



Yeah if you don't give me a hard time, and in your case, YOU DO!!! lol

Just kiddin, I do love ya Sag! But your use of quotes suck!


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Yes, I see what you mean, about the use of quotes..thanks for pointing that out.

And do remember who started giving who a bad time, heh!
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Reply #47 posted 09/12/02 11:38am

CarrieLee

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Yes, I see what you mean, about the use of quotes..thanks for pointing that out.

And do remember who started giving who a bad time, heh!




YOU!!! lol

Awww Sag!!! Come here and gimme a hug! hug
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Reply #48 posted 09/12/02 11:50am

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CarrieLee said:

sag10 said:

Yes, I see what you mean, about the use of quotes..thanks for pointing that out.

And do remember who started giving who a bad time, heh!




YOU!!! lol

Awww Sag!!! Come here and gimme a hug! hug


hrmph that was mighty kind of you!
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Reply #49 posted 09/12/02 11:53am

CarrieLee

sag10 said:

CarrieLee said:

sag10 said:

Yes, I see what you mean, about the use of quotes..thanks for pointing that out.

And do remember who started giving who a bad time, heh!




YOU!!! lol

Awww Sag!!! Come here and gimme a hug! hug


hrmph that was mighty kind of you!


Ok here fine, take THIS! fart

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Reply #50 posted 09/12/02 4:24pm

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CarrieLee said:

sag10 said:

CarrieLee said:

sag10 said:

Yes, I see what you mean, about the use of quotes..thanks for pointing that out.

And do remember who started giving who a bad time, heh!




YOU!!! lol

Awww Sag!!! Come here and gimme a hug! hug


hrmph that was mighty kind of you!


Ok here fine, take THIS! fart

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Oh girl, you make me laugh! hug
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Reply #51 posted 09/12/02 4:38pm

AprilMichelle

why thank u carrielee...~blushing~...u must b quite sweet yourself hug
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Reply #52 posted 09/12/02 8:36pm

tommyalma

I have a friend who came out to another one of my friends, that he only knows through me, but hasn't come out to me yet.


P.S. I thought "making out" meant kissing, too.
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Reply #53 posted 09/13/02 12:19am

endorphin74

I started coming out the summer after my 10th grade year. I went to a stupid suburban High School, so it wasn't fun. But, I was a "freak" already, so I did have a number of supportive friends. Also, I had it REALLY easy cos in my family, my dad is gay as are both of my sisters. Then we have my weird, straight mom. We don't know where we went wrong with her! smile

Also, I was the youngest, so my mom was broken in by the time I came out. It took her 12 hours to get over being pissed and then giving me the "do what you have to do to be happy, just be safe" speech.

The best part about coming out...Violett finally quit hitting on me! lol

Seriously, though, Violett ROCKED and became "faghag" extraodrinaire by 12th grade. She was always helping us poor suburban gay boys make our way to MPLS and find some fun.

It didn't take me long to realize, though, that being gay was one tiny part of what makes me who I am. Gay people who hate straights and refuse to do anything in "the straight world" drive me up a friggin wall.

In MPLS, I'll have much more luck finding good dance music at 1st Ave (which is basically 'straight') than any of our gay bars...

Work wise, I've lived in Uptown since I was 17, so I've always worked in "friendly" environments. Now, I work at the MN AIDS project and also in adult foster care for people with AIDS. So (obviously) I have no problem being out there!

It does shock me, which is good, when I leave the city. For so many years I've lived and work in completely friendly environments. So, I forget what it's like to get the looks or the snide comments while walking down the street. It's so frustrating that even in our age, it cans till be so difficult for people to "come out"

I'm rambling now...
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Reply #54 posted 09/13/02 1:22am

MightBQueen

CarrieLee said:

AprilMichelle said:

I came out as bisexual at 14...my friends and family were supportive but reactions of others were amazingly hateful. I was jumped at school 2wice and got in so many fights 2 defend myself i was thrown out and forced 2 attend an alternative high school...i lived in a small town at the time and i had obscenities spray painted on my home and (later on) my car smashed and the word "dyke" burned in2 my lawn...when i contacted local police i was told that "my kind" were "instigators" who "asked for it" and "deserved what they got"...i've since moved and i'm desperately saving 2 go back 2 my home...manhattan,NYC...the reactions are less severe but still incredibly rude w./ comments like
1."you are 2 pretty and feminine 2 b gay...u must really like men and r just confused"
2."I thought u ppl hit on straight girls 2...that u wanna get in2 every1's pants
3. (the ubiquitous) "you're going straight 2 HELL!"
in an odd but but related observation i find that straight ppl are wary of me bcause i date women but lesbian have chasticed me 4 looking"2 feminine and straight looking" and because i date men...w/ ppl of both orientations telling me 2 choose a side and make up my mind...as if my sexuality was any more of a choice than theirs...i don't get it at all


Wow this is a tough one. I don't really understand the whole bi-sexual thing either. I'm not judging or flaming you, don't get me wrong. But do you have a preference? Would you rather end up getting married to a man and having children or be with a woman the rest of your life?

Some girls give the whole bi-sexual thing a bad name. Most of them are doing it for attention because they like how a lot of guys get off on 2 women together. That, I think, just sucks.



women are, by nature, more prone to be attracted to each other than men, i think.

anyway, i know a few women who, becuz they hadn't acknowledged (at least to themselves) that they had lesbian feelings for other women, caused a LOT of problems for everyone around them... "know thyself."
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Reply #55 posted 09/16/02 4:27pm

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The best part about coming out...Violett finally quit hitting on me! lol

Seriously, though, Violett ROCKED and became "faghag" extraodrinaire by 12th grade. She was always helping us poor suburban gay boys make our way to MPLS and find some fun.


Okay, Okay. Its true. redface Maybe I had and enncy benncy crush on my endo. ( thats the person, not the herb eek Although I may have had a crush there too at one point or another. smile lol
HOWEVER, I do not accept being called the faghag of y'all !! I am more of a fruit fly, and you know it !! wink
If y'all dont know the difference, well its simple. All faghags secretly wanna sleep with their gay boyfreinds. Fruit flys just pleasantly buzz about. biggrin
I did and still love all my gay freinds. And I have watched many, many of them come out of the closet. To other freinds, and to family memebers.
I had one freind whos mother, who looked exactly like tammy fae, actually chase me up the stairs with a gun, because she thought I was bi-sexual, and she felt that it was MY fault that her son was gay. rolleyes
anyway, I know how difficult the road can be...and I envy anyone who goes through it, or is currently going through it.
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Reply #56 posted 09/16/02 11:22pm

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endorphin74 said:

Then we have my weird, straight mom. We don't know where we went wrong with her! smile


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Reply #57 posted 09/17/02 12:33am

FuNkY

I'm 19 and gay... anything wrong? LOL
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Reply #58 posted 09/17/02 8:49am

endorphin74

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I am more of a fruit fly, and you know it !! wink
If y'all dont know the difference, well its simple. All faghags secretly wanna sleep with their gay boyfreinds. Fruit flys just pleasantly buzz about. biggrin
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I heart fruit flies!

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Reply #59 posted 09/18/02 4:25pm

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this thread is so gay
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