TMPletz said:

I agree about the size/cost doesn't matter part, but I just felt the need to say this

I don't like those rings with a tiny little solitaire diamond in them, that you can hardly see. I say diamond, I wouldnt like them no matter the stone. They're really little! I would rather have a ring with a bigger stone, I couldnt care less if its a real diamond or not. At the end of the day, Im the one whos gotta wear it forever! I'd rather have a massive aquamarine or pink topaz than an invisible diamond, for a fraction of the price. Why does it have to be diamond? Or is that the same as we *have* to get married in white? In a church?

But thats just me, and my preference!

susannah said:

Because it's a tradition, and a romantic one at that.

Now, I'm generally not all that traditional a girl, but there are certain things I get all girly for. A beautiful diamond ring is one of them.
I don't need one. And if I ever find anyone crazy enough to want to marry me and he doesn't have the funds for one, I'm not gonna cry over it. But it's a lovely tradition, although I agree it can get carried away sometimes.

I'm going to see Diamanda Galás. If she weren't playing, I'd most likely be doing nothing also.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Heck no! As long as my man does something that tells me he loves me, and was thinking of me, cost doesn't matter. With a man as forgetful as mine, anything with thought put into it scores serious points!

sextonseven said:

That is THE BEST Valentine's Day EVER!!!

My fuck buddy is getting a bottle of vodka and a blowjob.

Tom said:

hopefully you're not gonna give that all at the same time...it'd kinna sour the moment if he pukes on yer head.

Handclapsfingasnapz said:

kinky

Anx said:

there's probably porn based on that somewhere...

Handclapsfingasnapz said:

i actually had a friend once who got paid to do just that

damn i miss living in new york sometimes

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

applekisses said:

I did the same thing last year.

IrresistibleB1tch said:

Even your hand is sexy.

Stymie said:

Think of the things it can hold

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Is dude holding a guitar?

Stymie said:

Plucking it produces really magical sounds

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

I started to post the first thing that came to mind and decided against it.

To all the guys who have do deal with flipout cases tomorrow, good luck

applekisses said:

What, so what am I, chopped liver? Hmmmph.

SnakePeel said:

Of course not...you're the finest Pate.

I was just giving Richard a hard time.

applekisses said:

"I'm scratchy and itchy
And a little bit bitchy
And if I find scissors
I'll trim my friend Richie..."

SnakePeel said:

This song sounds very familiar

OK.....Now is the time to tell those Valentine let down/horror stories

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

I thought you'd NEVER ask.

Well I got flowers on TUESDAY nite.

And I thought, well thats not my ACTUAL Valentine.

So yesterday came. Nothing. We argued over nonsense most of the nite.

Then my emotional train wreck self put my head on the table and started BAWLING.

He was like WHAT?????

I was like, YOU DOING ALL THIS "all this bad stuff here" AND THEN YOU DIDN'T EVEN GET ME A VALENTINNNNNE" "CRY CRY CRY"

He was like, the flowers weren't good enough? You really huret my feelings. I didn't think Valentines day was a big deal to you.

Me "Well, just so ya know for next year IT IS!"