God i have just had an awful phonecall.

A dear friend of mine gave birth to a baby girl this time last week with a normal delivery and no complications. As soon as the tiny soul was born the doc's realised there was an issue and she had to go to ITU.
Every time they tried to wean her from the life support the poor soul started to fade, they had no idea why or what was wrong.
Heidi was told it was not a matter of if but when. The hospital told her that she had no choice because the baby would never make it due to her lack of brain function.

The poor soul passed just now. She was less than a week old

Please say a small prayer for a devastated family and a baby never given the chance to be all she could be.



Be safe little one.

that has to be one of the hardest things in life to go through as a parent....

Dear God
If There Are Rocking Chairs In Heaven
Will You Save One Just For Me
I Want To Rock My Precious Baby
Who Went To Heaven Without Me
Will You Tell Him Please Don't Cry
That Mommy Will Soon Be On Her Way
After I Enter The Gates Of Heaven
That I'll Be There To Stay
Tell Him How Much I Want To Hold Him
So Gently Against My Breast
As He Takes His Little Head
And Snuggles Up Against My Chest
I Want To Stroke His Cheek
Just Like I Used To Do
And Tell Him One Last Thing For Me
That Mommy Says I Love You



You get get this poem, or others like it, with a memorial frame for the mother.

http://www.melindatanner....ychild.htm


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9 months of hopes and fears and anticipation

i hope they find peace and understanding after their pain

She is in a better place..

I can't even imagine.


M

words cannot describe.

I can't even imagine what that would be like.

OmG



My daughter is the greatest love of my life.

omg


orgnote.

Sorry to hear that,the family must be devestated. Prayers are with them.

thoughts and prayers brother.

prayers to all

she did what she was put here to do, that's how I look at these kinds of things. God bless.

for the little angel

I close my eyes
And imagine you're here
Did it all seem so hopeless
Given the chance
I would ask
Forgive me
I didn't do a thing to make you stay
I didn't say a word to make you stay
If I would have known
Could I have tried to make it easier
But I didn't do a thing
Or say a word
One word

And I don't know why you’re gone, now you’re gone
No beautiful goodbye
You will never leave my mind
And it turns out to be so much different than our dreams
Now you’re, you're a star in heaven

My thoughts unsaid
Stuck in my head
And it all feels so useless
Never forget to give all I have
Forgive me
I couldn't do a thing to make you stay
And I couldn't say a word to make you stay
If I could have known
Could I have tried to make it easier
But I couldn't do a thing
Or say a word
One word

And I don't know why you’re gone, now you’re gone
No beautiful goodbye

You will never leave my mind
And it turns out to be so much different than our dreams
Now you’re, you're a star in heaven

I am incredibly sorry to hear about this, friend.

Really, really awful news.

Be well.

mdiver said:

How sad! That is a parent's worse nightmare.

SureThing said:

OMG, that poem made me cry, it's beautiful.