Married 24.5 yrs since age 28. Had 3 serious relationships when I was not ready to marry. Had several where the parting was mutual.
No crushes on orgers. When I describe someone as "hot" (ace, black adder) it's respect for the intelligent humor and what's going on from the neck up.
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i want to hit the reset button on my relationship history, because it's quite full but at this point in my life i feel like none of it matters and that whomever i'm with next, i want it to be 100% about THEM, with no junk from the past influencing it.

totally delusional, i know. but some people think delusional men are sexy.

3 really serious relationships.

I can't even remember the flings but I'd say 40 maybe?

no crushes on orgers currently, though I'm becoming better friends with a few that surprises me still.

Anx said:

totally

HereToRockYourWorld said:

Anx said:

Well, every relationship I have seems to be more about the past than the last one, so. . .I can only conclude that you should stay with your first love no matter what.

HereToRockYourWorld said:

By "you" do you mean Anx? Or do you mean everybody? Cause my first love was a cheating bastard!

CarrieMpls said:

Shoulda stayed with him! Because now you have to carry "cheating bastard" history through every relationship, picking up new damage and neuroses with each one . . . ugh. No matter how bad the first one is, you stay with 'em.

HereToRockYourWorld said:

I'll still take the former over the latter, thanks. He really was a dawg!

CarrieMpls said:

Suit yourself.

HereToRockYourWorld said:

FunkMistress said:

My first one decided that he really prefers to have sex with men, and shit, I STILL sometimes wish I'd followed my own advice.

One serious relationship that lasted around 11 years


here and theres


Currently humbled by the incredible woman I love right now.

jerseykrs said:

we noticed that she's keeping you away from here.....tell her to keep doing that!!!

One that lasted 20 years(married 17 of those years)

No

and oh HELL NO!

abierman said:

jerseykrs said:

really man, even Imago is changing through your seldom appearances.....he's now got the hots for 9s!!!

abierman said:

That motherfucker runs from orger to orger worse than me.

jerseykrs said:

Errrrr....no he ain't that bad

HereToRockYourWorld said:

Poppycock! We only carry the past into the present when we fail to take a moment to recover from the last..... souls are too likely to go from thing to thing.... or relationship to relationship..... if they would only take a moment to configure whom they are and what they need... To put down the past path and recieve the next.... One never gets a degree without first taking the time to study .. why is relating any different?... we fail because we fail to take the time to study..... ourselves

Muse2NOPharaoh said:

Wise words, madam.

You DO know I was kidding, right?

One serious relationship and one almost-serious relationship.

Well? Ummmm.... lots.... every relationship that gets to relationship status has been serious... but there have been many that don't get to relationship status.... ya know?
But I guess looking back- 3 very serious that didnt work out because I wasnt ready.
Probably hundreds of flings that might have worked if I was the slightest bit intrigued beyond a martini...
And one current very special that is working MUCH to my surprise. He is everything I always thought I didn't want... but he is suprisingly everything I need and want at the same time!!!! Hopefully he is the one!!!
YAY!!

abierman said:

Imago said:

ZombieKitten said:

I nearly responded with the same reply.

Fauxie said:

ZombieKitten said:

I don't care if he's crushing on you too, he's just gotta be crushing on me. It's like the only constant I have in my life and if it were to suddenly disappear I'd be lost in a swirling, confusing world of pure heterosexuality.

Fauxie said:

well, I don't really care who is crushing on me as long as it is somenody, how else am I going to measure my self-worth?