I dunno, but the older I get, the harder it is to adjust to changes. I think it was easier when I was younger. Does anybody else feel this way?

WHen it comes to things like mole removals and hair cuts, yes.

Imago said:

Silly.

No!!! I hate change.....I dont adjust well...

I'm not sure.

Nothing ever changes in my life.

My life changed for the better when SureThing laughed at me.

change can be hard, but it gets easier with time.

JDINTERACTIVE said:

Overall I adapt pretty well with changes I have no control over.
Changing my own habits, however, is next to impossible.

i generally hate it but then i get used to it and love it. sometimes.

CarrieMpls said:

same here.

CarrieMpls said:

I don't know what I'm talking about. I like to think I adapt well but some things are hard to let go of. I mean, the BIG changes. I don't do so well with those.

CarrieMpls said:

so you're changing your thoughts on this?

Some changes have been good, and I adjusted well to them. An example was when I switched jobs last summer. Other times changes have been bad, and I haven't adjusted to them at all. An example there would be when my dad died 9 years ago this summer. I'll never adjust to that change. I still have dreams every now and then where he's still alive.

IrresistibleB1tch said:

I don't know. I was just thinking about HUGE life changes, like my mom having cancer, my grandmother dying, losing love... I have a really, really hard time with those kinds of things. But changing jobs, moving, I love that kind of change.

CarrieMpls said:

i think everyone has a hard time with huge emotional changes such as someone being sick or passing away. I know that I do.

I'm also the biggest baby about losing love relationships. I have a hard time dealing with that, even when it's for the best.

CarrieMpls said:

i was just teasing...

but i think anybody would have a hard time with those kinds of things - it would be strange if you didn't.

Change has always excited me but as I get older I realize that I would like a little more stability and possibly a little less change once I figure out where I belong.
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Yes, very well. I had to adapt to change because my family moved a lot when I was a kid.

psychodelicide said:

yep

I don't adjust well to change at all... very strange coming from someone who's regularly had change in her life in huge ways since I was 5 years old

Well, yes I guess so. I've been travelling from place to place for quite a while now. Tomorrow I fly from Auckland to Santiago, Chile. Im a little apprehensive about the stigma attached to South American countries and I do wonder how I will adapt. I'm sure I will be fine I guess as long as I'm safe.

JDINTERACTIVE said:

You'll be great!

Good luck on the next leg of your journey.

Physically? Yes
Emotionally? Nope

I really like changes, I'm always sure what is around the corner will be better

yes i do. its nice to embark on something new. i think i'd go crazy if things stayed the same besides on a dark note sometimes there are things that you just can't control and its best to just accept it for what it is and move on.

The older I get, the easier it is..

It is an adventure to me.