I think it happened tonight.

JDINTERACTIVE said:

Someone fancied you and you couldn't figure it out?

CarrieMpls said:

I invited her out for a drink whilst we were watching the 'Lord of the Rings'. She got severely drunk the night before though apparently so she declined. Although she followed me out when I went for a cigarette. I thought it might have progressed but no joy.

I hate girls.

JDINTERACTIVE said:

Here's hoping Carnivale is more promising for you, eh?

CarrieMpls said:

I dont know. Where are the sweet ones?

JDINTERACTIVE said:

Stay away from the sweet ones. They're only trouble.

If I have an idea they do, I pretend they dont really fancy me..

REDFEATHERS said:

Why?

I have trouble in that department.

veronikka said:

Then when you take them up on it, they don't know what to do with you....
[Edited 2/4/07 23:32pm]

Usually yes. And when they do fancy me, it's usually for the wrong reasons.

retina said:

Like what?

JustErin said:

Well, take last Saturday for example. I was waiting to get into a nightclub with some friends, and then suddenly I feel something hitting me hard in the back. It turns out it's the rearview mirror of a taxi that pulls up to the club. I get pissed off of course and hit the side of the taxi (quite lightly) to show I'm annoyed with what he did.

Then the driver hops out and yells at me that I was standing in the way and what the hell am I hitting his taxi for? So I yell back "Well you can't hit me with your car just because you think I'm in your way, you stupid fucking moron!". This made him look scared and he got back in the car and drove off, without saying a word. Right after that we got in without lining up since one of us was a VIP.

Anyway, inside I suddenly get lots of attention from women, some of them smiling, others complimenting me on how I "won" the staring contest etc. WTF is that all about? If they want to talk to me then that's great, but I don't want it to be because the taxi incident and VIP lane thing has tickled their screwed up and misguided primal instincts.

retina said:

You might see it as these women just want some kind of thug, I see it as these women probably just find a guy that will stand up for himself attractive. It's not like you did anything wrong, you were just not putting up with some idiot.

Can you tell if someone fancies you or are you totally blind to the ways?

JustErin said:

I know, but why can't they give me similar appreciation if I say something smart or nice? It's always the tough guy stuff that gets them going.

retina said:

Because people in general usually need something to get noticed, to have them stand out in a crowd. You got noticed because a scene happened. If you had done something extremely nice for someone, for everyone to see...I bet you would have received the same kind of attention from women.

JustErin said:

My experience says otherwise, but I hope you're right when it comes to some women at least. I don't want to give up completely on their ability to get their priorities straight when it comes to men.

retina said:

I'm clueless anyway so I probably should not have said anything.

JustErin said:

Well, take last Saturday for example. I was waiting to get into a nightclub with some friends, and then suddenly I feel something hitting me hard in the back. It turns out it's the rearview mirror of a taxi that pulls up to the club. I get pissed off of course and hit the side of the taxi (quite lightly) to show I'm annoyed with what he did.

Then the driver hops out and yells at me that I was standing in the way and what the hell am I hitting his taxi for? So I yell back "Well you can't hit me with your car just because you think I'm in your way, you stupid fucking moron!". This made him look scared and he got back in the car and drove off, without saying a word. Right after that we got in without lining up since one of us was a VIP.


Anyway, inside I suddenly get lots of attention from women, some of them smiling, others complimenting me on how I "won" the staring contest etc. WTF is that all about? If they want to talk to me then that's great, but I don't want it to be because the taxi incident and VIP lane thing has tickled their screwed up and misguided primal instincts.

JustErin said:

I know, but why can't they give me similar appreciation if I say something smart or nice? It's always the tough guy stuff that gets them going.

Can you tell if someone fancies you or are you totally blind to the ways?

retina said:

I bet you looked HOT all riled up.....how were you dressed??
[Edited 2/5/07 17:23pm]

xplnyrslf said:

Black coat and a dark grey skull cap.

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