Can you tell if someone fancies you or are you totally blind to the ways?

i have no idea.

in fact, the strange weekend i had reflects the fact that i neve have any clue. sometimes i think that a guy likes me but then he does something and i'm not so sure he likes me and then i decide that he doesn't like me and then it turns out he does like me.

fuck it. i have studying to do. i should just date my notes and outlines.

not really. someone usually has to tell me

I try to avoid relationships, principally because I suck at them, and I never make any moves out of fear of being wrong.

I just always assume that everybody is up for it, until I'm proven wrong.

Took me 4 months to realise Jon fancied me. I thought he was just being friendly Am usually good at that kind of stuff too.

ellieadore said:

He's just a very friendly guy. I dont think he fancies me though.

Yeah. They tend to send me the meatspin link repeatedly.

2the9s said:

what's the meatspin link?

JasmineFire said:

You're such a sweet kid.

Ask Dan to give you the link.

JasmineFire said:

do NOT click on it. you don't want to know

oh shit. now i'm scared.

Yes, if they wanna just 'hook up'.

But I can't tell if someone I get involved with actually really cares about me or not.

Sometimes it's obvious and sometimes it's not. Just make sure they are sincere and are not playing mind games.

In person: when I'm being looked at, up and down neck to toes in a lustful manner which says "I want your body". (freaked me out, as I'm married and don't play around and gave no indication of such)
or: being stalked in Target. I thought the guy was security and confused about thinking I shoplifted? Everywhere I went he was in an isle nearby and watching me. When I left I made sure he didn't follow me.
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Depends on how obvious they are about it but generally no

JasmineFire said:

whatever link Dan sends u...no matter what it says. Dont click it

DanceWme said:

luv4u said:

Would u believe he got me with that Evangelical church thread

Sometimes I can tell. Usually I need it pointed out to me, though. The flirting leading up to it all can be fun, but I'm never sure of intentions until it's said. I think I sometimes have a hard time believing someone would actually fancy me.
That's lame, I know.

"Me" um not so much so!

I never know. I'm horrible at interpreting body language and subtle hints. I wish people would just out and say what they want.

What's even worse though is I've currently got someone sending me very mixed messages, so naturally that's put my poor lil mind into a tailspin.

Well, hope constantly clouds that area of perception.

And, dang, if women don't just like to play games like they're all interested when they find out you're dating someone...

But, I digress.

*ahem*

Sometimes.

Oh yes I can tell, the look tells it all. Like they want to eat you with their eyes.

No.

But I usually can tell when they don't like me when they take out a restraining order.

veronikka said:

Then when you take them up on it, they don't know what to do with you....
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the master was pretty casual at first when we met, I thought he was after my flatmate at first and I didn't really care. He called me at work 2 days later, which was a feat in itself since he would have had to do a bit of sleuthing to find me, so that is how I realised the extent to which I was his fancy.

ThreadBare said:

I think it happened tonight.