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JustErin said: CarrieMpls said: 
Of course, I'm not orgnoting anyone about anything. That's how tired of it I am.  All sides. The topic's been done to death and will be done to death till the day I die. If not here, then somewhere else.
So I just can't care anymore. What exactly is needing to be "argued" here or in notes anyway? The only thing I saw even slightly offensive was the "rhino" comment. That's not even about weight, that's just about being mean to someone in general. And of course, Surething calling me names...but I am used to that. Maybe argued isn't the best in this instance. Talked about, even? |
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CarrieMpls said: JustErin said: What exactly is needing to be "argued" here or in notes anyway? The only thing I saw even slightly offensive was the "rhino" comment. That's not even about weight, that's just about being mean to someone in general. And of course, Surething calling me names...but I am used to that. Maybe argued isn't the best in this instance. Talked about, even? Ok, I guess so. 
I think it's all really silly. | |
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SureThing said: Imago said: I say 99% freeeeekaaaaayyyy. . Guys who say they dig fat girls, just can't get with a skinny girl. That seems a little silly and mean spirited to me...just my opinion. | |
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Tyra is NOT fat. Anyone whom thinks she is needs a head examination. | |
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applekisses said: SureThing said: . Guys who say they dig fat girls, just can't get with a skinny girl. That seems a little silly and mean spirited to me...just my opinion. Ya, that's a tad harsh. | |
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applekisses said: SureThing said: . Guys who say they dig fat girls, just can't get with a skinny girl. That seems a little silly and mean spirited to me...just my opinion. .....maybe THIS is why I don't get along with girls. 
But seriously, yeah, that did come out mean, I guess. I find it mean and hurtful, when people talk about how gross, skinny girls are. Just defense I guess. But hey, I can admit when when I'm wrong.  | |
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SureThing said: applekisses said: That seems a little silly and mean spirited to me...just my opinion. .....maybe THIS is why I don't get along with girls.
But seriously, yeah, that did come out mean, I guess. I find it mean and hurtful, when people talk about how gross, skinny girls are. Just defense I guess. But hey, I can admit when when I'm wrong. Then you see that none of it is ok...we've got to stop judging people exclusively on their looks. At any rate, you've gotta admit...the bigger girls get the brunt of it. | |
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applekisses said: SureThing said: .....maybe THIS is why I don't get along with girls.
But seriously, yeah, that did come out mean, I guess. I find it mean and hurtful, when people talk about how gross, skinny girls are. Just defense I guess. But hey, I can admit when when I'm wrong. Then you see that none of it is ok...we've got to stop judging people exclusively on their looks. At any rate, you've gotta admit...the bigger girls get the brunt of it. I personally don't judge on looks alone. Bigger girls getting the brunt of what? Ridicule? I'm not sure I agree on that. And if it is true, it's not me. I DO know this though, if I was getting made fun of for something, and it was actually BOTHERING me, I'd do something about it. | |
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SureThing said: applekisses said: Then you see that none of it is ok...we've got to stop judging people exclusively on their looks. At any rate, you've gotta admit...the bigger girls get the brunt of it. I personally don't judge on looks alone. Bigger girls getting the brunt of what? Ridicule? I'm not sure I agree on that. And if it is true, it's not me. I DO know this though, if I was getting made fun of for something, and it was actually BOTHERING me, I'd do something about it. didn't you just admit that your earlier comment was inappropriate?  | |
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IrresistibleB1tch said: SureThing said: I personally don't judge on looks alone. Bigger girls getting the brunt of what? Ridicule? I'm not sure I agree on that. And if it is true, it's not me. I DO know this though, if I was getting made fun of for something, and it was actually BOTHERING me, I'd do something about it. didn't you just admit that your earlier comment was inappropriate? Yeah. Now what? | |
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SureThing said: applekisses said: Then you see that none of it is ok...we've got to stop judging people exclusively on their looks. At any rate, you've gotta admit...the bigger girls get the brunt of it. I personally don't judge on looks alone. Bigger girls getting the brunt of what? Ridicule? I'm not sure I agree on that. And if it is true, it's not me. I DO know this though, if I was getting made fun of for something, and it was actually BOTHERING me, I'd do something about it. From your previous comments on feeling hurt by jokes made at skinny girls expenses...does this mean you'll be on a crash weight gain diet? 
And yes, I was talking about ridicule. I know people also make jokes at skinny girls expenses, but I do think society does tend to focus on making the fat girl the brunt of the joke most of the time. It's just more common. | |
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SureThing said: IrresistibleB1tch said: didn't you just admit that your earlier comment was inappropriate? Yeah. Now what? well, you just said "it's not me". maybe i misunderstood what you meant by that. | |
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applekisses said: SureThing said: I personally don't judge on looks alone. Bigger girls getting the brunt of what? Ridicule? I'm not sure I agree on that. And if it is true, it's not me. I DO know this though, if I was getting made fun of for something, and it was actually BOTHERING me, I'd do something about it. From your previous comments on feeling hurt by jokes made at skinny girls expenses...does this mean you'll be on a crash weight gain diet? No, it doesn't. Being made fun of for that bohters me, but not because I'm thin. It's because I work pretty fuckin hard to be thin, and to get ridiculed for it is bullshit. I'd rather enjoy eating fucking Fettucine Alfredo for lunch like everyone else, but I WORK on myself, because I LIKE being thin. So for someone to make fun of that, yes, it bothers me. And yes, I was talking about ridicule. I know people also make jokes at skinny girls expenses, but I do think society does tend to focus on making the fat girl the brunt of the joke most of the time. It's just more common.
Like, I said, I'm not sure if I agree with you on this. Everyone gets made fun of. And the ones that don't get made fun of are hated by the ones woh ARE getting made fun of, and it's a vicious cycle. Like, I said, if something bugged me, I'd change it. | |
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IrresistibleB1tch said: SureThing said: Yeah. Now what? well, you just said "it's not me". maybe i misunderstood what you meant by that. Oh yeah, that. Good point IB.  | |
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SureThing said: IrresistibleB1tch said: well, you just said "it's not me". maybe i misunderstood what you meant by that. Oh yeah, that. Good point IB. so what are you going to do about it? | |
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IrresistibleB1tch said: SureThing said: Oh yeah, that. Good point IB. so what are you going to do about it? I'm not gonna say it again.
Jeeeeez, don't you have a dog to groom or something?  | |
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SureThing said:[quote] applekisses said: No, it doesn't. Being made fun of for that bohters me, but not because I'm thin. It's because I work pretty fuckin hard to be thin, and to get ridiculed for it is bullshit. I'd rather enjoy eating fucking Fettucine Alfredo for lunch like everyone else, but I WORK on myself, because I LIKE being thin. So for someone to make fun of that, yes, it bothers me. And yes, I was talking about ridicule. I know people also make jokes at skinny girls expenses, but I do think society does tend to focus on making the fat girl the brunt of the joke most of the time. It's just more common.
Like, I said, I'm not sure if I agree with you on this. Everyone gets made fun of. And the ones that don't get made fun of are hated by the ones woh ARE getting made fun of, and it's a vicious cycle. Like, I said, if something bugged me, I'd change it. Like I said...you like being thin and if someone makes fun of it it bothers you...well, I like being curvy, 5'9", having an hourglass figure and a 40DDD rack and I work out and count calories to keep it...some people consider that "fat"...and when people make fun of it, it bothers me. But, I ain't changing anything, because I like me...and I've worked hard to get there but, that doesn't change the fact that it still bothers me when people are made fun of or judged exclusively for how they look. | |
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SureThing said: IrresistibleB1tch said: so what are you going to do about it? I'm not gonna say it again.
Jeeeeez, don't you have a dog to groom or something? | |
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applekisses said: SureThing said: I personally don't judge on looks alone. Bigger girls getting the brunt of what? Ridicule? I'm not sure I agree on that. And if it is true, it's not me. I DO know this though, if I was getting made fun of for something, and it was actually BOTHERING me, I'd do something about it. From your previous comments on feeling hurt by jokes made at skinny girls expenses...does this mean you'll be on a crash weight gain diet?
And yes, I was talking about ridicule. I know people also make jokes at skinny girls expenses, but I do think society does tend to focus on making the fat girl the brunt of the joke most of the time. It's just more common. I am skinny myself and people make comments about my weight quite often, but these comments are not mean. They just doubt that I eat enough and am not on a constant diet. I don't know if they really believe that I eat a lot and I am just lucky to not gain weight easily. It's going on my nerves someone as I like the way I look and I don't want others to tell me what I should look like. But know one ever has made any comment about my weight (or lack of ) that was hurtful. When I was a kid I was a bit overweight for some time and I remember quite well how it felt when people were making stupid remarks about my weight. So of course it's the "fat" people that are ridiculed a lot more .With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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Serious said: applekisses said: From your previous comments on feeling hurt by jokes made at skinny girls expenses...does this mean you'll be on a crash weight gain diet?
And yes, I was talking about ridicule. I know people also make jokes at skinny girls expenses, but I do think society does tend to focus on making the fat girl the brunt of the joke most of the time. It's just more common. I am skinny myself and people make comments about my weight quite often, but these comments are not mean. They just doubt that I eat enough and am not on a constant diet. I don't know if they really believe that I eat a lot and I am just lucky to not gain weight easily. It's going on my nerves someone as I like the way I look and I don't want others to tell me what I should look like. But know one ever has made any comment about my weight (or lack of ) that was hurtful. When I was a kid I was a bit overweight for some time and I remember quite well how it felt when people were making stupid remarks about my weight. So of course it's the "fat" people that are ridiculed a lot more . how about a Sachertorte eating contest then?! | |
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SureThing said:[quote] applekisses said: No, it doesn't. Being made fun of for that bohters me, but not because I'm thin. It's because I work pretty fuckin hard to be thin, and to get ridiculed for it is bullshit. I'd rather enjoy eating fucking Fettucine Alfredo for lunch like everyone else, but I WORK on myself, because I LIKE being thin. So for someone to make fun of that, yes, it bothers me. And yes, I was talking about ridicule. I know people also make jokes at skinny girls expenses, but I do think society does tend to focus on making the fat girl the brunt of the joke most of the time. It's just more common.
Like, I said, I'm not sure if I agree with you on this. Everyone gets made fun of. And the ones that don't get made fun of are hated by the ones woh ARE getting made fun of, and it's a vicious cycle. Like, I said, if something bugged me, I'd change it. Everyone and I mean everyone gets made fun of. Whether it be looks, personality, intelligence or lack there of, race, socioeconomic background, whatever. The problem as I see it is that there are many people who think that it's not ok to make fun of one thing and yet it's ok to ridicule someone about something else they either don't agree with or don't like. | |
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applekisses said: SureThing said: applekisses said:
Like, I said, I'm not sure if I agree with you on this. Everyone gets made fun of. And the ones that don't get made fun of are hated by the ones woh ARE getting made fun of, and it's a vicious cycle. Like, I said, if something bugged me, I'd change it. Like I said...you like being thin and if someone makes fun of it it bothers you...well, I like being curvy, 5'9", having an hourglass figure and a 40DDD rack and I work out and count calories to keep it...some people consider that "fat"...and when people make fun of it, it bothers me. But, I ain't changing anything, because I like me...and I've worked hard to get there but, that doesn't change the fact that it still bothers me when people are made fun of or judged exclusively for how they look.Apples, I'm a little unsure what your getting at here? As far as I know, ppl with hour glass figures don't get made fun of. They're all the rage. Congrats though. You'll be getting plenty of orgnotes for posting your bra size.  | |
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IrresistibleB1tch said: Serious said: I am skinny myself and people make comments about my weight quite often, but these comments are not mean. They just doubt that I eat enough and am not on a constant diet. I don't know if they really believe that I eat a lot and I am just lucky to not gain weight easily. It's going on my nerves someone as I like the way I look and I don't want others to tell me what I should look like. But know one ever has made any comment about my weight (or lack of ) that was hurtful. When I was a kid I was a bit overweight for some time and I remember quite well how it felt when people were making stupid remarks about my weight. So of course it's the "fat" people that are ridiculed a lot more . how about a Sachertorte eating contest then?! I don't think I would win that as I eat very slowly. But I can eat all day long if I want to, so maybe that gives me a little bit of a winning chance  . I hope you are talking about Sachertorte mit Schlag (Sahne)  .With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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SureThing said: applekisses said: Like I said...you like being thin and if someone makes fun of it it bothers you...well, I like being curvy, 5'9", having an hourglass figure and a 40DDD rack and I work out and count calories to keep it...some people consider that "fat"...and when people make fun of it, it bothers me. But, I ain't changing anything, because I like me...and I've worked hard to get there but, that doesn't change the fact that it still bothers me when people are made fun of or judged exclusively for how they look.Apples, I'm a little unsure what your getting at here? As far as I know, ppl with hour glass figures don't get made fun of. They're all the rage. Congrats though. You'll be getting plenty of orgnotes for posting your bra size. Not so much...still considered "plus-size" not "paris-size"
And, my bra size isn't a big deal around here anymore...I've been on and off this site for 10 years now...it's old news | |
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Serious said: IrresistibleB1tch said: how about a Sachertorte eating contest then?! I don't think I would win that as I eat very slowly. But I can eat all day long if I want to, so maybe that gives me a little bit of a winning chance . I hope you are talking about Sachertorte mit Schlag (Sahne) .not a big fan of the Schlag - you can have all of mine! | |
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applekisses said: SureThing said: Apples, I'm a little unsure what your getting at here? As far as I know, ppl with hour glass figures don't get made fun of. They're all the rage. Congrats though. You'll be getting plenty of orgnotes for posting your bra size. Not so much...still considered "plus-size" not "paris-size"
And, my bra size isn't a big deal around here anymore...I've been on and off this site for 10 years now...it's old news Well, I htink most of us will agree that Paris isn't very attractive, body wise. | |
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IrresistibleB1tch said: Serious said: I don't think I would win that as I eat very slowly. But I can eat all day long if I want to, so maybe that gives me a little bit of a winning chance . I hope you are talking about Sachertorte mit Schlag (Sahne) .not a big fan of the Schlag - you can have all of mine! Deal  . Can't wait to finally meet you  .With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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Serious said: IrresistibleB1tch said: not a big fan of the Schlag - you can have all of mine! Deal . Can't wait to finally meet you . we'll have a blast!! | |
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SureThing said: applekisses said: Not so much...still considered "plus-size" not "paris-size"
And, my bra size isn't a big deal around here anymore...I've been on and off this site for 10 years now...it's old news Well, I htink most of us will agree that Paris isn't very attractive, body wise. There is such a small percentage of people who fit into the "perfect" cateory...we can just all do the best with what we have...and I don't think anyone should be ridiculed for that. My last boyfriend's father hated me because I wasn't "athletic" enough...so he didn't think I was good enough for his son. Do you have any idea how that hurt? | |
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