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JMG1 said:

You know what? Your comments are very insensitive and uncalled for.By using a racist,offensive phrase like "white trash",you are violating the new rules for posting.I'm sure the moderator will take appropriate action.

CarrieLee said:

A strong friendship/bond can overcome ANY circumstance. It appears that this is what the two of you have. So it will work out. I'm sure you'll be there for her.

Here's a quick little diversion that may cheer you up. The next time you're driving around, any time you make eye contact with someone, be it a person walking down the street or the person next to you at a red light, make a funny face at them.

Their reaction is often priceless. Many times they look violated, its hilarious and completely harmless.

Back to the subject tho, its tough when ur best friend settles down with a kid, its almost like youre having the kid yourself. In time (about 9 months or so) Im guessing your friend will start allocating time to "go out" again.

JMG1 said:

Get off my thread cow. MOOO

TheThoughtPolice said:

Indeed.

Thanks for the advice everyone. The shock is pretty much over now and I feel better. I'm just sad for her because I know she's not happy like she should be. I know everything will work out in the end.

CarrieLee said:

I say 'All is not lost'. Can understand your concerns for her. I was in a pretty much similar postion myself... not financially stable, a partner that didn't want to know, didn't do anything to help... in the middle of my Diploma to be a counsellor when I became pregnant. My family were also unsupportive. Y'know what? I can now live within my means... I let the Father of my son go and now, he is nearly two (my son, not his Dad!!!) we are getting things together again. I have finished my Diploma, am now a qualified counsellor and have decided to be beautifully independant of my family, who just aren't able to give to me in the way that I wanted them to. I can give to myself and feel empowered.

All is not lost!

JMG1 said:

LoL!

Wish we could turn that into REMOVED NASTY FLAMER, but that would be something of a flamewar...and we ain't having that.
But, it is not flaming to say I am REALLY tired of having to report.

And back to business, because I was reading this thread and got angry about some reamrks and had to do something before I posted.

Dear Sweet Carrie,

It is logical you're sad because HELL YEAH things are going to change. But, I guess you will love this kid alot cuz it is an extension of someone you really love.
And if she already has a kid and can still be your partner in crime, then I guess she is a kewl cat.
It is really good for you to worry about her and her kids future, but you have to let her live her own life. She is obviously doing just that.

And don't you just HATE it when your girlfriends settle down around you and start popping out babies?
Before you know it, it is all the talk about. I say; "Can't they just buy CATS?" Hehehe.

CarrieLee said:

Hon,
It'll be a big adjustment for all involved, but Jessie will come through. She's going to need you. When the baby is old enough you can take him/her on most of your adventures -- they sell Doc Martin's in baby sizes...
Good luck and keep us posted.