gemini13 said:

and there it is.

SammiJ said:

Its all supa and dan's fault

SammiJ said:

But I was your friend just yesterday!

gemini13 said:

My dad was married for 30 years to my mom before he passed away. I used to sneak into his penthouse and playboy magazine stash--he had boxes of it.

I have friends who have been married to the same women since they were in their early 20's--they love porn. A few of them have been candid with me about women "they'd love to fuck". A few have gone to strip clubs with me. Now, bear in mind, none of their wives knew, and they ALL claimed to be happy with their relationships. One of them, did get divorced recently though.



Fact is, I may look like some kind of creep. And some folks are going to say that "oh no--not me", but it's not uncommon.

gemini13 said:

Ok, I get what you are saying.

Since we (not me in particular) can't possibly know what's going in the mind of your husband (which really is true), you (not you directly) couldn't possibly know anything about our supposed issues with commitment and what's going on in our heads.

JustErin said:

That's right. Believe it or not, lots of men in relationships have self control. If pussy were to fall out of the sky and in their lap, I'd bet a good 50% of them would turn it down because they were in a relationship.

DanceWme said:

Hey, I don't even bang chicks. I can't be my fault

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

aww, you still are, i know you're just helping me understand straight men



it's just really disapointing
like i knew a lot of this stuff already, but the more i read the thread, the more i learned, and now i'm just like

And at least you ladies are hearing more of the truth here than you would in real life. There are no consequences to admitting it here.

sextonseven said:

Wow, those are some great odds there. 50%! Yahoo!

Do you think the long-distance thing makes a difference? I say this because for several years I was back and forth between Thailand and the UK for 4 or 5 months at a time. As opposed to when I was single when I would have been checking out porn, all I could think of was my girl, so I didn't look at porn when I was back in the UK, but rather went on webcam, telephone etc. with her. I think since I've been living here permanently that has carried over somewhat.

I will say though, I was crazy about porn as a teen when I first had internet access, but after seeing everything there was to see, I pretty much just stored it in my mind. I don't check out girls here when I'm walking down the road or anything here either, but I do think about sex quite a bit. I just don't put specific people or faces in there (with the exception of my wife). As I said, I'd definitely find it weird thinking of another woman while actually making love to my wife.

sextonseven said:

for some reason i really dont buy that


... so i got trust issues

JustErin said:

Exactly!


This is more about personal insecurity than there being "something wrong with men."

Imago said:

this thread could potentially end relationships, or even prevent them from happening...

Fauxie said:

There is something wrong with you.

Imago said:

i think it's both, frankly.

i still havent had one actual reason for the fantasizing of other attainable women.. "that's just how men are" is never a good answer...

JustErin said:

He said Im the only one he thinks about day and night

Imago said:

Why am I the odd girl out in this thread?

Oh wait, I think evenstar feels somewhat the same as I do. Phew.

DanceWme said:

likely response... kick his ass!

JustErin said:

i guess you're just the girl every guy dreams of then innit?

innit edit.
[Edited 1/23/07 20:43pm]

SammiJ said:

Don't forget, evenstar is too!

SammiJ said:

yeah..he just wanted to go back to sleep
If he does, oh well. As long as im the only one he's sexin'


wait...I gotta call him back


No, let me stop

SammiJ said:

I hope not and doubt it will
Nobody takes me seriously anyways, and when they do, they normally assume I'm sooo far from reality or full of it, that they don't take much stock in what I say.

But I'm not stating "opinion". I'm being serious when I say men do these things TO VARYING DEGREES BASED ON THE GUY.

When I worked in Pricilla's Adult Boutique, the majority of my clients where middle aged couples looking to spice things up. I'd recommend a porn flick, some kama sutra oil, and maybe an adult toy--it was a perfectly healthy thing to do. Porn to me, isn't an unhealthy thing unless it's an addiction. I mean, it's not like going out and renting a hooker.

JustErin said:

of course.

DanceWme said:

Why are YOU bothering HIM when you want all the mens?

JustErin said:

i think we're just the ones who watch porn is all?

sextonseven said:

See? If he was insecure, he might consider her flirting a form of cheating.

evenstar3 said:

Probably. Watch it and enjoy it.

sextonseven said:

I dont want all the mens