evenstar3 said:

Men are addicted to Vag, well straight men anyway If it's not porn, it will be another avenue. They will seek it out. The vagina is a blazing sun that attracts a straight man's heat seeking missle. They cannot help the trajectory of it. If you try and curb him, you're only pushing the button on the missle to fire sooner than it should. Let him get worked up and then bang the hell out of him

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Good Idea!!

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

evenstar3 said:

You weren't aware of your Novastar?

JustErin said:

yeah or if he tries to hide it despite knowing you like it.

evenstar3 said:

Yes, that's weird too.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

OMG!

evenstar3 said:

If you ever get another org account, it should be Novastar3 Vag, Vag, Vag!

so am i really the only one insecure about this?

My husband KNOWS better than to have me find that shit in my house.

SammiJ said:

No. you have practically the entire female race on your side It really doesn't have to be a big deal. men will look at porn and that doesn't mean he hates you or wants you to be freakin bimbo. He's with you isn't he? That is what really matters. harping on him about porn will drive him away. Now if he's getting really abusively freaky about it, then that is an issue. If he's looking it really doesn't have to be a big deal.

This sounds weird, but porn can get boring to me. I like to watch it once in a while cause then its exciting but for the most part, its all the same.

SammiJ said:

Didn't you at one point want to become a Suicide Girl?

SammiJ said:

I'm not insecure about it. I've got quite an ego, and there is only room for ONE woman in my home, period.

If he don't like it, he can get the hell out.

SammiJ said:

Once upon a time I was. When I was 17. I've told the story here once before, but I made my boyfriend at the time get rid of everything. And he told me he did. Then, months later, I found his stash. I made him rip up every magazine page into tiny pieces in front of me, I was so mad.
I was an insecure control freak at the time. But he'd also cheated on me and I hadn't kicked him out yet and it made me incredibly jealous. I didn't trust him with anything. ah youth.

Now? It doesn't bother me a bit. Porn is porn, and it almost worries me if a guy isn't into it in some aspect or another. It's not hurting anything and as long as the relationship is good and he's not choosing it over me, then all is good.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

He could even masticate the cucumber! cooked or raw...

karmatornado said:

Let's define "once in awhile".....

sextonseven said:

yeah but i don't consider (most of) that porn.

It got me in trouble recently. I didn't see the problem. I was open about it and it backfired.

SammiJ said:

I think most women feel the way you do about it.

JustErin said:

but apparently its a bad thing.

SammiJ said:

That is indeed porn. It may be mild, but it's porn.

I would be so jealous if I found out my guy was watching porn

SammiJ said:

Some people think so, others don't. You just do what you feel is right for you and don't worry about what others think about it. It's your relationship, you decide what works for you and what doesn't.

sextonseven said:

alright, well i never did it so

SammiJ said:

Who gives a crap what everyone else thinks. You need to do what YOU think is right.

My man would not be watching porn...

I don't get this. Guys are always thinking of other women when we're doing the nasty.

At least with pron, it's women we have no chance in hell of meeting as opposed to our girlfriends best friend and some such shit.

SammiJ said:

I would have renewed my account there if you did.

gemini13 said:

i dont know if it's right or wrong i just know that it makes me feel, or i guess seem, insecure.... i know he does anyway, he's in another country