applekisses said:

Maybe this is something that having kids changes about you... perhaps I'm missing the 'mother' gene.


Frankly, I don't even want to change my nieces and nephews diapers. I don't babysit.

CarrieMpls said:

Not every female is an uber-nurturer/asswiper type. Even after having kids. It's one of those silly things that we're told we're "supposed" to be, but that's bunk.

I happen to be a nurterer/asswiper myself, but don't tell anyone, I have a goddamn rep!

SureThing said:

i think this is so sad. and it makes me even sadder that people refer to it as "casual" sex. when all the things that can come from sex are considered, including physical and emotional things, sex should NEVER be casual. (IMO)
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fantasyislander said:

Yes, that is exactly why it would be embarrassing. If an old man farts in the street you don't have to worry about it since you're never going to go anywhere near his asshole. But if you or your partner farts, the area down there that was once associated only with sex, will now be associated with stinky fumes too. Not the sexiest combination, I'd say.

retina said:

i don't forget where pee comes from when i'm down there. and it's not like i'm talking about farting DURING sex. (that, i think, would be embarrassing, but i'd probably laugh it off and the embarrassment would "hopefully" pass after a bit) you KNOW what that area is used for. what difference does it make?

fantasyislander said:

Well, with that I agree.

But it doesn't mean it doesn't happen. People need to have sex.

fantasyislander said:

Why is it sad?

Maybe you are confusing so called casual sex with promiscuity. Just because one believes that sex is not the most intimate thing a couple can do doesn't mean that they are giving it up here, there and everywhere.

Sex is still something meaningful to me, it's just not the way I show love to someone.

I agree with Dani, kissing is much more intimate for me...but sex is always meaningful to me. Meaningful in the sense that it serves a purpose, and sometimes that purpose is simply the need for a sexual release.

You's are all fucking gross.

Oh, and the oral sex thing.

I think giving a guy oral is not all that intimate. But a guy going down on a girl is pretty inmtimate.

(I think, I'm pretty sure) 3 guys have gone down on me in my life.

The first, was the first guy I was ever with.
(And I even remember what song was on the radio. It was Mariah Carey's remake of "I can't live". )

The secong was a guy I was engaged to.

The third was my husband.


No, wait there WAS 4, the fourth I'd rather forget though.

JustErin said:

i guess i just don't think sex SHOULD be casual. of course, i'm talking in a perfect world where everyone has found their soulmate and they have wild passionate fulfilling sex every night (or as often as they want). of course, i realize this world is FAR from perfect. as far as just the sexual release goes, i can do that myself.

SureThing said:

I actually AGREE with you!

jerseykrs said:

Wtf?

That's the dumbest thing ever. It's exactly the same.

JustErin said:

Nevermind too easy edit
(making fun of him, not u erin edit)
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JustErin said:

I understand that point too, I'm just saying in my mind. Relax canadian bacon.

JustErin said:

It is the same, but I think I can understand the perception.

FunkMistress said:

I don't think so.

A lot of guys will get in, but won't go down.

Seriously.

(Oh and make it 5, I'm so forgetful)

jerseykrs said:

Did
you
just
call
me
fat?????

x 100 million

JustErin said:

no way, I love bacon!!

SureThing said:

Any guy that dares to tell me that me drooling on his knob is anything less than him dining out a Chez Erin will get a punch in the kidneys.

JustErin said:

It's true though.

I bet most girls have suck double the amount of dicks than have had guys eat them out.

JustErin said:

AMEN!!

SureThing said:

Really?

Straight girls are crazy.

SureThing said:

Double?? More like quadruple.

That's right. I'm saying many chicks are BJ whores.

FunkMistress said:

Or slutts.

I just re-read that, and it came out pretty bad.

Yeah, I think so though.

JustErin said:

Yeah, and I don't know about you.

But the FIRST BJ I gave, was farrrrr from meaningful.

Awwww, but the first time I got some, was sooooo cute.

MIGUELGOMEZ said:

This really did start out political

I tend 2 think of my pecker, among many other things, as a priceless tongue massager.
I find that a lot of girls don't like head, whereas most fellas seem 2 find it an important part of the relationship.

JustErin said:

SureThing said:

Really?

OK, that's weird to me.

CarrieMpls said:

Really?
I'm gonna ask around now.