When I can shit how I normally do, on the carpet, and no one complains.

Oh wait...that's heaven.

SureThing said:

I mean..Im in the shower and he comes in and start using the bathroom and talkin..um..we are NOT married. Get the fuck out

pardonme4livin said:

!!!!!

DanceWme said:

That's just wrong... and makes me uncomfortable just to imagine....

fantasyislander said:

But what do you mean by "intimate"?

pardonme4livin said:

SureThing said:

Dani!!!

DanceWme said:

Oh that.

You'd hate me.

I totally invite whoever happens to be around in the bathroom to talk while I'm showering.


Ohhhhh, nevermind, I get it now, edit.
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SureThing said:

Me either!

My first (male) roommate would come in the bathroom and pee while I was in the shower. The first time he did it, he had to pee BADLY and we both kind of freaked out about it, but laughed later. But he was more like a brother to me anyway.

SureThing said:

CarrieMpls said:

That's even worse!

pardonme4livin said:

My shower curtain is dark blue with rubber duckies on it.

Your not seein through that shit.

JustErin said:

goddamn org hiccups!!


ok, what did i say... ?



some people are talking about farting in front of others and peeing while they're in the shower. but (for those who are talking about couples mode) once you have sex, isn't that as intimate as you can get? i mean, once that happens you should already be past the farting in front of others stage. right?

if you're just talking about friends, for me it's open-door peeing. i'm totally an open-door pee-er! when my close (female) friends are at my house and we're having a convo and i have to go bad, i'll just keep talking to you.

SureThing said:

I have x-ray vision....

fantasyislander said:

Nope. I simply don't do it. Around anyone. Ever. Seriously. I don't pee in front of anyone either. There are reasons bathrooms have doors.

There's nothing like the first time with a new partner. Why might that b? And definately no, sex is not the most intimate act.

CarrieMpls said:

Geez man.

The worst thing ever had to be, rite after we graduated one of my really good friends was in a bad car accident, and she was in the hospital for a long time.

Anyways, I had to wipe her ass once.


It's just a known thing.

Friends wipe friends.

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SureThing said:

Oh god...this is like my worst nightmare....if I am that bad off...please just let me die...

fantasyislander said:

My closest girls and I will pee, shower, brush teeth, change clothes, all without interrupting the flow of conversation for a second.

SureThing said:

Don't get me wrong, I know these things are a fact of life. And I have peed in front of people before (though, I think always while drunk ). I just prefer some things to be left alone.

As for the wiping of the ass, my own grandmother (who I was quite close with) was in a nursing home for a period as rehab when she'd fallen and hurt herself and as I was walking in to visit her she was in the bathroom all a mess, hadn't quite made it there in time. She wanted me to help clean her up. I simply couldn't. I got a nurse, despite her asking me repeatedly to help her myself. It's not something I'm proud of. But it's not something I see myself 'getting over' really either. I have a weak stomach and an insane sense of privacy about certain things.

CarrieMpls said:

well sure, if it's something you never do anyway that is different.

thedribbler said:

wow, this is definitely one attitude i don't agree with. but, i'm of the opinion sex between two people isn't just a casual thing. guess i'm a bit old-fashioned, huh?

FunkMistress said:

fantasyislander said:

I see what you mean.

Sex is not what I consider to be the closest form of intimacy.

And I am an open-door pee person only with my son around...otherwise, that bitch is shut and locked.

Woah, I totally pee in front of everyone, I thought everyone did.

Yeah, and I don't think sex is the most intimate thing either.

SureThing said:

seriously?? i mean, come on. especially if anything oral is involved.... once someone has licked you down there, or you've licked someone else, you really supposed to be embarrassed if they hear you fart??

fantasyislander said:

Well, I mean so many people have casual sex. Just to have that release, and it's not intimacy.

For me, kissing is more intimate, then actually having sex.

If I kiss someone, then it MEANS something.

I've had sex that hasn't meant anything.

SureThing said:

FunkMistress said:

same here.
Plus, my godson doesn't want to be without me for a minute (he's two) and he has to follow me into the potty...so I let him flush and tell him how important it is to wash your hands