novabrkr said:

That's funny.

Illustrator said:

I think it's possible for others but not so much for me.


If you get a haircut I don't like, I'll dump your ass so fast, you'll see skid marks.

Imago said:

Dude, you've never liked my hair cut so I know you lie.

Fauxie said:

oh lawd, I forgot to apply physics


For every bad hair cut there is an opposite and equal good nappy dugout.


(yes, I'm going to take this nappy dugout running gag and stretch that bitch out like my momma's meatloaf).

Imago said:

I don't know about all that. I'm just hoping 'meatloaf' isn't a euphemism and that you weren't a large baby.

MickG said:

....you've been down that road before..haven't you??

MickG said:

I disagree.

CarrieMpls said:

Love is living, active and needs maintenance...

hisfan4ever said:

No, I haven't

I'm just really smart.

My love relationship are what I make them.

I'm not stupid. I don't go blindly into the unknown.

I see everything, and then I make my choices.

Anx said:

I think that you can but I don't think that it will be the same kind of love all your life. My best friend Teddy is now that, but he started out as the boy I was in love with for 10 years or so. Then, my ex Christian and I started out as friends and it grew to somebody else. If he hadn't been such a fucking asshole, I would prolly have loved him forever. Teddy, him I WILL love forever though.

Call me in forever and i will confirm or deny this idea.

MickG said:

I what you say!



btw how are you?

I'll let you know when I actually love someone

EverSoulicious said:

aww.. lol

what's cool is when you do and you're actually with them...

I think you can..sometimes that one person just gets in you and you never want to let go. With all his faults, he is the one.

BlueOrchid said:

ThreadBare said:

true....



To answer the question...yeah I think you can, like others here said it's a choice.

Sweeny79 said:

but you cant turn love on and off like a light switch.. if you love someone, then you just do.. you love them.. you cant decide to unlove them.. for me that doesnt work

REDFEATHERS said:

I think what the people that said that it's a choice mean is this...

In a long term realtionship there are many many many times when you can walk away from it, but you can make the choice to remain because things pass, and with work things get better.

Love isn't only a noun. It's a verb too.

I think you are talking about the noun, the emotion, and others are talking about the verb, the choice to stick it out when the going gets rough or boring.

Sweeny79 said:

Oh I completely understand..

REDFEATHERS said:

Your new avi is nice, are they your shoes?!

REDFEATHERS said:

I know you do. You're pretty smart Red.

Love them? Yes. Stay IN LOVE with them? Very rare.

Sweeny79 said:

I am just putting ideas forward so I can get replies from all different angles

..and thank you Sweeny
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REDFEATHERS said:

That's what the org is for, well that and sex threads.

Sweeny79 said:

hell yeah!

MickG said:

That's a good perspective to have when it comes to a relationship, too bad sometimes things aren't always as they appear ( or people) for that matter. But I am glad you are one of those ppl to take the overall picture into consideration instead of just "blindly" hoping things will work, it can save one alot of heartache in the end..