Cloudbuster said:

Probably. Ive never been in a relationship with them but I still love them so much after a number of years.

I've been loving Alyssa Milano for YEARS.

jerseykrs said:

who is she? your ex-wife?

REDFEATHERS said:

she's my FUTURE ex-wife, she just doesn't know it yet.

if a person deserves that kind of devotion, then i say yes, sure, it's not that difficult at all. what is difficult is finding the person worthy of that kind of investment.

yes

Yes, of course. That's what real love is all about.

REDFEATHERS said:

Yes but it takes hard work

I have hope this is possible, but love in any lasting capacity takes day to day work...so far so good.

REDFEATHERS said:

Isn't that what true love is?

sure -- it's a choice, but both gotta be willing 2 do the work.

yes.

Definitely

AndGodCreatedMe said:

Cloudbuster said:

Co-sign.

Only if your match.com profile matches adequately enough with the other person's profile.

novabrkr said:

omg, my friend tried to get me to do match.com.

To me if you build a relationship on basic things you share in common and friendship, of course you can love the same person forever. At a certain age the relationship isn't based on looks so then what do you have?

CarrieMpls said:

my friend is a member

I hope so...

I don't think so.

Marriage is "til death do you part."

I've always interpreted this as
after both parties die,
God willing,
one of 'em is probably going to Hell.

Hell probably!

I would like to find out

Guess you have to wait for the "forever" to decide.

xplnyrslf said:

It could delve into a "mutual understanding" type of love forever.....I can see where the perpetuality can get complex....

Sometimes when grown-ups say forever they mean 'a very long time'.

WillyWonka said:

you know i went to the states and back again and still haven't had a wonka bar

suchs questions aren't very well thought about.

If love isn't forever, was it ever love?

I'd say no.

Maybe you "loved" a person for what You choose to believe they were, but in the end your illusion couldn't stand against the winds of reality, but you never really loved that person at all.

Love? Yes. Relationships? No.