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Reply #30 posted 01/08/07 10:59am

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Aww, that's so sad sad. I can imagine what you are going through, when my dog died many years ago I was devestated bawl. He was a member of my family and will always be.
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Reply #31 posted 01/08/07 11:14am

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pray rose My sympathies on your loss
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Reply #32 posted 01/08/07 11:43am

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Aww I'm so sorry to hear this. The death of a pet is so hard, but you need to cherish the time you had with him. You gave him a good life, a long one too! I hope it doesn't tarnish your feelings about maybe getting another dog someday. There are so many unwanted pets that need good homes and it sounds as if you could make another doggies day!

Hope you heal quickly from this loss. hug
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Reply #33 posted 01/08/07 12:04pm

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I'm sorry for your loss sad rose
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Reply #34 posted 01/08/07 1:00pm

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My sympathies, JediMaster. But rejoice for those who have reunited with the Force.

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Reply #35 posted 01/08/07 1:04pm

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Reply #36 posted 01/08/07 1:21pm

GangstaFam

Gosh. I don't know what to say. I know how bad it gets. Godspeed to your babe.
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Reply #37 posted 01/08/07 1:22pm

HamsterHuey

Also at a loss for words. Again, thanks for sharing your love for Hopkins with us.

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Reply #38 posted 01/08/07 2:09pm

JediMaster

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Thanks to everyone for responding. I truly appreciate all of your kind words. I apologize for not responding more quickly, and for not answering each one of you. Writing this up this morning really took it out of me. Just know that all of your thoughts and prayers truly mean the world to me.
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Reply #39 posted 01/08/07 2:25pm

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Reply #40 posted 01/08/07 4:09pm

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I am so very sorry for your loss. I have three dogs- only one lives with me now and not having the other two around everyday hurts but I cannot imagine the pain you are going through. Remember the love and companionship that was shared.

You gave your best friend the best life. You were both lucky to have one another and share such a special bond.


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Reply #41 posted 01/08/07 8:27pm

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Such a beautifully written tribute, JediMaster. I understand the sense that it is like losing a human part of the family when they leave us. The unconditional love they share every day is the most amazing thing. You've given us an exquisite glimpse of his spirit. I'll say a prayer for him tonight for a gentle journey and wish peace to you.
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Reply #42 posted 01/08/07 9:50pm

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bawl bawl That was beautiful. So sorry to hear about the loss of your dog, Hoppy. Animals become like family, and losing them is just like losing a family member. sad
RIP, mom. I will forever miss and love you.
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Reply #43 posted 01/09/07 12:15am

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I'm so sorry, my brother! If you've lost a son, I've lost a nephew...rose

Corgis are so smart, they're like little people. I love 'em too, but I've never had one of my own. How privileged you have been to care for Hoppy.

I finally put a memorial to my kitty cats in the garden. It took me a while to choose the right thing. You're right, not everyone will understand how it feels to lose a beloved pet, but plenty of us do 'cause we've had to go through the same. Recently I went to the animal shelter and still couldn't deal with the thought of another cat. In time...

Your quoted lyric is wonderful; SLB wrote it with Andy Warhol in mind...

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Reply #44 posted 01/09/07 1:21am

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sorry rose I still think about my cat Sammy ( of 8 years) a lot who died about 3 years ago.
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Reply #45 posted 01/09/07 4:32am

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My gosh. hug

Hang in there.
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Reply #46 posted 01/09/07 9:57am

Reincarnate

I'm so sorry. Losing a beloved one is hard. My dogs are part of my family and I grieve for them as I would any other family member. Remember the good times and take comfort in knowing that Hoppy knew he was loved.

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Reply #47 posted 01/09/07 1:37pm

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Thank you all, once again. I'm truly touched by the kind words and sympathy that have been expressed here. You are all wonderful, beautiful people to bring me such love and comfort.

A friend of mine, that I used to share an apartment with, sent me this sweet rememberance of Hoppy

Hoppy was very intelligent, not just for a dog, but any creature. Some might be surprised to hear me say this knowing that I think dogs, however lovable, are not the brightest creatures that Ma Nat has blessed upon us. Yes, this dog had more intelligence than most adults. Intelligence (my definiton): the ability to USE information learned and APPLY to individual situations that achieve maximum desired output with the least amount of risk to oneself and others.

I had boundaries when it came to the critters in the apartment. Upon arrival to the abode, Hoppy knew that he was not allowed in my room. The first time it happened, we had just settled in and Dave had come into my room. Hoppy, going where Dave does, came into my room without thinking any different and he was immiediately sent out. Being that my door was always open, he learned and remembered that the doorway was the off limits barrier. Anytime outside the bedroom, Hoppy was welcome to play with me, but he learned not to jump on me or sit in my lap unless called. He knew what I didn't like and he respected that. Just the same, I knew that Hoppy would get lonely and pout when Roxy was away, he was scared of loud noises and he loved to eat ice off the kitchen floor. He knew me as well as I knew him.

I observed his intelligence on numerous occasions, but there is one in particular that I will remember. Dave was out overnight one September evening. It was a very dark night as there were numerous thunderclouds and heavy rain, so it was very hard for the streetlights to even come throught the windows. I was in bed, and since Dave was away, I kept my door open. Hoppy had ventured into the living room and was very scared from the thunder that wouldn't stop. He laid at the doorway and would slowly nudge a couple of inches past. I calmly responded, with "Hoppy, out" (I had to enforce the boundaries because once an animal crosses a barrier, it seems to be no longer in place). Hoppy would just cry a little louder and creep in a couple more inches with each crashing thunderbolt. Again, but without raising my voice, "Hoppy, out". Eventually, Hoppy would creep what would be three feet into the doorway and lie at the foot of my bed. I knew how terrified he was of the storm, so I decided to risk my allergies for the night so the little guy could be close to a friend during a terrifying night. Here is where the intelligence comes in: he never tried to come into my room thereafter. He never even tried to come close to making me think he would cross that invisible barrier. He knew in that situation that I might bend, and he promised to himself and me that If he could stay in my room, he wouldn't ask to do it again. After a few months, I decided that the dogs could come in my room when called and he wouldn't enter unless called, unlike his housemate, Roxy, who took advantage of the lax policy and would enter at her own will, only to be reminded to leave unless warranted.

I was glad that Dave had called on me recently to feed the guys, while they were away. I was able to spend about fifteen to twenty minutes with the little guy in the back yard and it was easy to see that his body couldn't keep up with his spirit. My wife and I knew he didn't have much gas left in the tank and it made those few trips meaningful because I knew it would probably be the last I would have to play with the guy.

On the lighter side, I know that I was Hoppy's favorite. Refer to the couch incident of 1995 (this incident is probably another sign of his intelligence). Some will not know to what I am referring, but there are those who are in the know that are guffawing upon remembering the story, so we will leave it at that. We'll see ya later, little guy.
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Reply #48 posted 01/09/07 2:58pm

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I am sorry to hear it. hug
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Reply #49 posted 01/09/07 3:17pm

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So sorry for your loss hugs
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Reply #50 posted 01/09/07 6:34pm

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sorry for your loss
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Reply #51 posted 01/09/07 7:07pm

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Sorry to hear this. sad
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Reply #52 posted 01/10/07 12:35am

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so, let's hear about that couch incident...hmmm

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Reply #53 posted 01/10/07 12:53am

Teacher

Oh no, I'm so sorry to hear this. sad Hoppy was adorable and I enjoyed your threads about and with him a great deal. From one who still has the pain of four years ago when my Ollie passed away in fresh memory, if you need a shoulder I'm here.

Hoppy, rest in peace and chase squirrels every day all day. :bone:
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Reply #54 posted 01/10/07 5:55am

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Heiress said:

so, let's hear about that couch incident...hmmm

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Heh. Yeah, that is a pretty funny story. I'll try to get to that a little later.
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Reply #55 posted 01/10/07 6:47am

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Sad news. I still dream about my cat Koetie once in a while. She was 'kidnapped' from our garden by a bunch of children (of drunken parents) in the summer of 1996.

When I feel really sad, nothing can console me like a cat.
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Reply #56 posted 01/25/07 7:35am

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MarieLouise said:

Sad news. I still dream about my cat Koetie once in a while. She was 'kidnapped' from our garden by a bunch of children (of drunken parents) in the summer of 1996.

When I feel really sad, nothing can console me like a cat.


That is beyond sad. I've had a couple of animals from my childhood that disappeared, and in many ways that is worse than them dying. Not knowing for sure if they're okay is really tough.
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Reply #57 posted 01/25/07 9:04am

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I've just read the tribute by your friend which is really touching. Hoppy sounded like a really special friend.

Hope you're hanging in there.

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Couch incident? Sharing?
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Reply #58 posted 01/25/07 11:42am

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sj1600 said:

I've just read the tribute by your friend which is really touching. Hoppy sounded like a really special friend.

Hope you're hanging in there.

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Couch incident? Sharing?


I'm doing better. Adjusting to life without that furry face in it.

The "Couch Incident" thread will be forthcoming!
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