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PrintableBlackAdder7 said: mdiver said: Ok Chris here is one for you.
If you are such a big chelscum fan how come right now you are not glued to the TV,webcast or live score ?  i have to get an office with better privacy walls. Yes you do, on with the diagnosis!  Carpenters bend wood, fletchers bend arrows, wise men fashion themselves.
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karmatornado said: BlackAdder7 said: i have to get an office with better privacy walls. Yes you do, on with the diagnosis! do you feel you're going to bring any baggage from your parents relationship into any relationship you have?...it's interesting that you, like your mom..was cheated upon. that is a terrible thing to have happen | |
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BlackAdder7 said: karmatornado said: Yes you do, on with the diagnosis! do you feel you're going to bring any baggage from your parents relationship into any relationship you have?...it's interesting that you, like your mom..was cheated upon. that is a terrible thing to have happen Yes it is a terrible thing. But in hindsight it is a blessing. Better to have it happen before marriage then during the marriage. As far as baggage what do you mean? Elaborate please Carpenters bend wood, fletchers bend arrows, wise men fashion themselves.
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karmatornado said: BlackAdder7 said: do you feel you're going to bring any baggage from your parents relationship into any relationship you have?...it's interesting that you, like your mom..was cheated upon. that is a terrible thing to have happen Yes it is a terrible thing. But in hindsight it is a blessing. Better to have it happen before marriage then during the marriage. As far as baggage what do you mean? Elaborate please at a critical time in your life, your role model hurt your other role model. this was during a development phase of your adolescence. Perhaps subconsciously you might fear doing the same thing, or having the same thing done to you. Perhaps you didn't trust your fiance, which gave her reason to act out.. | |
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BlackAdder7 said: karmatornado said: Yes it is a terrible thing. But in hindsight it is a blessing. Better to have it happen before marriage then during the marriage. As far as baggage what do you mean? Elaborate please at a critical time in your life, your role model hurt your other role model. this was during a development phase of your adolescence. Perhaps subconsciously you might fear doing the same thing, or having the same thing done to you. Perhaps you didn't trust your fiance, which gave her reason to act out.. Wow pretty bold there. As far as the development phase i was in my high school years. Late teens. It sucked yes. But my whole thing is trust. My ex had many male friends, but I was cool with that cause I had female friends and her male friends were there long before me, but unfortunately she violated that trust. I don't have any fears of cheating, cause I know the repercussions. Perhaps fears of being cheated on, but if you live life in constant fear, much like the game of football, or any great literary figure it will do two things, 1)consume you 2) make you go insane. Slight and fleeting fear is good. Keeps you sharp. Constant fear is the devil Carpenters bend wood, fletchers bend arrows, wise men fashion themselves.
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karmatornado said: BlackAdder7 said: at a critical time in your life, your role model hurt your other role model. this was during a development phase of your adolescence. Perhaps subconsciously you might fear doing the same thing, or having the same thing done to you. Perhaps you didn't trust your fiance, which gave her reason to act out.. Wow pretty bold there. As far as the development phase i was in my high school years. Late teens. It sucked yes. But my whole thing is trust. My ex had many male friends, but I was cool with that cause I had female friends and her male friends were there long before me, but unfortunately she violated that trust. I don't have any fears of cheating, cause I know the repercussions. Perhaps fears of being cheated on, but if you live life in constant fear, much like the game of football, or any great literary figure it will do two things, 1)consume you 2) make you go insane. Slight and fleeting fear is good. Keeps you sharp. Constant fear is the devil the third consequence of living life in fear, is potential to get hurt. Your wide receivers might get clobbered after catching a pass if they feared getting hit, rather than lettin instinct guide them. lets talk about your fear of being cheated upon | |
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Where do you want to begin with the cheated on fear? Carpenters bend wood, fletchers bend arrows, wise men fashion themselves.
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karmatornado said: Where do you want to begin with the cheated on fear?
lets see if we can get rid of that fear | |
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BlackAdder7 said: karmatornado said: Where do you want to begin with the cheated on fear?
lets see if we can get rid of that fear Well the fear is not so much being cheated on, its the why did it happen to me and how can this be prevented. Carpenters bend wood, fletchers bend arrows, wise men fashion themselves.
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karmatornado said: BlackAdder7 said: lets see if we can get rid of that fear Well the fear is not so much being cheated on, its the why did it happen to me and how can this be prevented. why do you feel it happened? | |
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BlackAdder7 said: karmatornado said: Well the fear is not so much being cheated on, its the why did it happen to me and how can this be prevented. why do you feel it happened? In her words: You are too nice, I was afraid that you were the last man I would ever be with, I was wrong, I made a mistake. Carpenters bend wood, fletchers bend arrows, wise men fashion themselves.
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karmatornado said: BlackAdder7 said: why do you feel it happened? In her words: You are too nice, I was afraid that you were the last man I would ever be with, I was wrong, I made a mistake. those were her words. why do YOU [img]feel[/img] it happened? | |
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BlackAdder7 said: karmatornado said: In her words: You are too nice, I was afraid that you were the last man I would ever be with, I was wrong, I made a mistake. those were her words. why do YOU [img]feel[/img] it happened? cause she wasn't ready, and she is not the person I thought she was. Carpenters bend wood, fletchers bend arrows, wise men fashion themselves.
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karmatornado said: BlackAdder7 said: those were her words. why do YOU [img]feel[/img] it happened? cause she wasn't ready, and she is not the person I thought she was. Because she wasn't the person you though she was, she cheated..?...elaborate please | |
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BlackAdder7 said: karmatornado said: cause she wasn't ready, and she is not the person I thought she was. Because she wasn't the person you though she was, she cheated..?...elaborate please I thought she was forever and ever amen. She seemed to be the good church going type. Schoolteacher like me. Even disposition. A whole hell of a lot cleaner and a better scheduler than me. So it was a dream match. After 4 years of dating I thought I knew her better. Guess not.  Carpenters bend wood, fletchers bend arrows, wise men fashion themselves.
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karmatornado said: BlackAdder7 said: Because she wasn't the person you though she was, she cheated..?...elaborate please I thought she was forever and ever amen. She seemed to be the good church going type. Schoolteacher like me. Even disposition. A whole hell of a lot cleaner and a better scheduler than me. So it was a dream match. After 4 years of dating I thought I knew her better. Guess not. perhaps you didn't have intimacy in your relationship. perhaps she didn't feel comfortable confessing fears and thoughts to you | |
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BlackAdder7 said: karmatornado said: I thought she was forever and ever amen. She seemed to be the good church going type. Schoolteacher like me. Even disposition. A whole hell of a lot cleaner and a better scheduler than me. So it was a dream match. After 4 years of dating I thought I knew her better. Guess not. perhaps you didn't have intimacy in your relationship. perhaps she didn't feel comfortable confessing fears and thoughts to you you people are  the best rule of thumb, any time, any situation, is trust no one  | |
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XxAxX said: BlackAdder7 said: perhaps you didn't have intimacy in your relationship. perhaps she didn't feel comfortable confessing fears and thoughts to you you people are the best rule of thumb, any time, any situation, is trust no one excuse me Ms XxAxX...your appointment is for Thursday, not tuesday. | |
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BlackAdder7 said: karmatornado said: I thought she was forever and ever amen. She seemed to be the good church going type. Schoolteacher like me. Even disposition. A whole hell of a lot cleaner and a better scheduler than me. So it was a dream match. After 4 years of dating I thought I knew her better. Guess not. perhaps you didn't have intimacy in your relationship. perhaps she didn't feel comfortable confessing fears and thoughts to you I can't speak on her behalf only mine. This is about me remember. She seemed to be pretty blunt in our conversations. Carpenters bend wood, fletchers bend arrows, wise men fashion themselves.
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karmatornado said: BlackAdder7 said: perhaps you didn't have intimacy in your relationship. perhaps she didn't feel comfortable confessing fears and thoughts to you I can't speak on her behalf only mine. This is about me remember. She seemed to be pretty blunt in our conversations. are you saying that in the 4 years you were together, she told you fears and issues she had...? | |
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BlackAdder7 said: karmatornado said: I can't speak on her behalf only mine. This is about me remember. She seemed to be pretty blunt in our conversations. are you saying that in the 4 years you were together, she told you fears and issues she had...? Yeah, one of the fears she had was that I would never ask her to marry me and she wanted that more than anything. I did and look what happens! Carpenters bend wood, fletchers bend arrows, wise men fashion themselves.
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XxAxX said: you people are the best rule of thumb, any time, any situation, is trust no one you're right. 
i do trust a few people, it's just a scary thing because of what placing your trust in someone entails (i.e., they can hurt you, etc). [Edited 1/2/07 14:02pm] | |
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... [Edited 1/2/07 13:58pm] lalala hehehe | |
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miho9000 said: I'm still a kid. Seriously...I haven't gotten through middle school yet. Serious...
how did you wind up in a therapy session? | |
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I guess this is free for all group therapy. I don't mind I'm comfortable sharing things.  Carpenters bend wood, fletchers bend arrows, wise men fashion themselves.
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BlackAdder7 said: miho9000 said: I'm still a kid. Seriously...I haven't gotten through middle school yet. Serious...
how did you wind up in a therapy session? Why not? It's free isnt it? lalala hehehe | |
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karmatornado said: I guess this is free for all group therapy. I don't mind I'm comfortable sharing things.
this is my diagnosis. you have repressed anger towards your father, mother and women in general. I feel you need 5 days a week therapy. Please take this prescription for Prozac and have it filled asap. | |
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BlackAdder7 said: karmatornado said: I guess this is free for all group therapy. I don't mind I'm comfortable sharing things.
this is my diagnosis. you have repressed anger towards your father, mother and women in general. I feel you need 5 days a week therapy. Please take this prescription for Prozac and have it filled asap. Wow lets see if I can keep up this schedule! Not a big fan of drugs!Carpenters bend wood, fletchers bend arrows, wise men fashion themselves.
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