evenstar said:

I post pics all the time

stfu oddstar!!!

EVERYBODY LISTEN UP!!!


DONT TALK TO JERSEY. I REPEAT, DONT...TALK...TO...JERSEY!!!

DanceWme said:

uh oh...sounds like someone got a naughty orgnote!

DanceWme said:

uh oh...sounds like someone got a naughty orgnote!

evenstar said:

I know, it said "no"

jerseykrs said:

Mach said:

Well, yes you can say that you can't really trust anyone because you really have no idea what they will do. I'm not saying that there aren't people that would respect the privacy of others...it's just that there is no way to really know whether their word is genuine or not. Anyone can say the words.

That said, I don't live my life holding back because people might let me down. I just do what I wanna do and hope for the best, hope that my friends, etc. respect my wishes even if our relationships end.

That's all you can really do.

It's just sad and pathetic that some people are so immature and malicious.

JustErin said:

YOU can say that if it fits your life experience ...

I can say that I know many people ...that I have know for 35 yrs or more, that I DO trust and DO know what they would do ... yrs and yrs of friendship has shown me that their words are as strong as their actions. I do know their words are genuine, it's why we are still friends after 35 yrs

That is just my experience though

Mach said:

That's really not what I am talking about. I'm not saying that good, honest people aren't out there.

My experience for the most part is my friends (that I too have known for pretty much my whole life) are trustworthy but there is no way of really knowing for sure if they will be true to their word or not.

I put my trust into people but I know that there is definitely the possibilty that people will not be true to their word. I am just willing to take that risk. I can't predict the future, predict their actions, I can't read minds...yes, I can go by their past behaviour and make a judgement on that but really I feel that blindly believing that people will never, ever waver from their word would be very naive of me.

I have an acquaintance who is extremely upset as some nude pics of her taken by a former boyfriend have apparently popped up on the internet.

Here we go, why of why in the age of the world wide web would any woman with half a brain pose naked for pictures for boyfriends, lovers, whomever? She was clearly upset so I didn't want to berate her about this but, how dumb can she be?
First of all, most of my girlfriends are over 30 years old. I mean what the hell? We're not talking about some dim-witted teenie bopper here. She has children people. Do you know anyone who has done some stupid mess like this? I mean if I am with a man, he can SEE me naked but he ain't gonna take no souveniers or keepsakes, dig? Because all these men do is show that shit to their friends,even though they swear they won't. And if you break up, everybody will get a peek.Don't be foolish girls.

JustErin said:

true people can wig out at any time ! I am greatful that the handful of friends I trust, have not ( as of yet ! )

alwayslate said:

Women do it too.
I've seen pics of my friend's johnson on the net, his ex-girlfriend posted it stating it was way too small for her .....well you know.

Quit bashing the men. There are insensitive people in the world, blame the insensitivity.

You know, I would never ever ever knowingly allow a nude photo of me to be taken. at ALL. EVER.
I'm damn picky about clothed pictures being shown even to people close to me. Heck, I don't even want to see them.

HereToRockYourWorld said:

See, this is why someone must think of another route if they were to try and blackmail me cuz if someone even dared to start posting naked pictures of me, I'd beat their ass to the punch and post em myself!

I have an acquaintance who is extremely upset as some nude pics of her taken by a former boyfriend have apparently popped up on the internet.

Here we go, why of why in the age of the world wide web would any woman with half a brain pose naked for pictures for boyfriends, lovers, whomever? She was clearly upset so I didn't want to berate her about this but, how dumb can she be?
First of all, most of my girlfriends are over 30 years old. I mean what the hell? We're not talking about some dim-witted teenie bopper here. She has children people. Do you know anyone who has done some stupid mess like this? I mean if I am with a man, he can SEE me naked but he ain't gonna take no souveniers or keepsakes, dig? Because all these men do is show that shit to their friends,even though they swear they won't. And if you break up, everybody will get a peek.Don't be foolish girls.

I, personally, really do not think that a photograph is any worse than words. People are so hung up on the human body and sexuality that many think having that put on display is the ultimate sin. The issue here is not about what she did/said, it's about someone betraying her. She didn't do anything wrong by posing for those pics but if...say...her employer found out about this, she could probably be fired or something retarded like that...since again, sexuality is so taboo in America (yet shoved down our throats at every turn).

So basically the lesson here is never to trust anyone with anything that is personal to you because people act like idiots. How sad is that.

I just hate the way people treat each other in general, but especially when it comes to people they once cared about.

Doing something like that is just beyond immature. People need to grow the hell up.

JustErin said:

Here Here!!!

Now Pose 4 Me!!



Whap!

I don't think it makes the women look dumb at all. Having someone you once had a relationship with betray you like that is not a reflection on the person that was betrayed, it's a reflexion on the person that did the betraying.

It would be just as bad if he did something like blog about very personal, embarassing information she shared with him in trust. Would she be "a dumb girl" for sharing things like that as well?

The boyfriend just comes off as a pathetic loser to me.

I'll take this opp to say:

Anyone want any naked pics of me just orgnote, yeah?

'nite.

Spookymuffin said:

you're such a slut

evenstar3 said:

as if i'm serious.

Spookymuffin said:

ignore that last note of mine, then