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Reply #150 posted 12/19/06 8:38am

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i just find it confusing that some peeps who love animals don't feel the same about children confuse btw, it really doesn't matter as long as those who don't like kids don't have 'em. otherwise we end up with abused children who just may turn out to be messed up adults.
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Reply #151 posted 12/19/06 8:41am

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coolcat said:

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so you like everything/one? well good on you then, i guess you're better than the rest of us. rolleyes your statements on this thread have implied that those who don't like children may be socio-paths, anti-semites, racists, and lack the skills to interact with people outside of cyberspace, etc; so how is what you're doing (making judgements about a group of people--those who dislike children) any different than those who are generalizing that they dislike children (as a group)? not that i need to justify my opinions, but i've already explained why i don't like children, please don't assume anything else from that unless i have explicity stated my opinions on it.

what's that saying about not judging others again?


I think FlyAway makes a great point... Why is it acceptable to dislike children, and unacceptable to dislike some other group of people...


you don't find it hypocritical to say that you shouldn't dislike "any one group of people" but at the same time have no problem calling them sociopaths? as devotedpuppy and others have pointed out, no one here's saying they universally hate every last child. all that's being expressed is a preference not to be around kids or to have kids of their own. it's not some attack on children as a group of people, as it keeps being interpreted.
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Reply #152 posted 12/19/06 8:54am

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evenstar3 said:

coolcat said:



I think FlyAway makes a great point... Why is it acceptable to dislike children, and unacceptable to dislike some other group of people...


you don't find it hypocritical to say that you shouldn't dislike "any one group of people" but at the same time have no problem calling them sociopaths? as devotedpuppy and others have pointed out, no one here's saying they universally hate every last child. all that's being expressed is a preference not to be around kids or to have kids of their own. it's not some attack on children as a group of people, as it keeps being interpreted.


flyaway was refrencing a book, not calling anyone a sociopath...
the title of this thread is "I HATE children" NOT I dislike children or I don't want to have any children....
the thread is being interpreted for what it is...a HATE thread.
"not a fan" falloff yeah...ok
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Reply #153 posted 12/19/06 9:13am

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coolcat said:

DevotedPuppy said:



so you like everything/one? well good on you then, i guess you're better than the rest of us. rolleyes your statements on this thread have implied that those who don't like children may be socio-paths, anti-semites, racists, and lack the skills to interact with people outside of cyberspace, etc; so how is what you're doing (making judgements about a group of people--those who dislike children) any different than those who are generalizing that they dislike children (as a group)? not that i need to justify my opinions, but i've already explained why i don't like children, please don't assume anything else from that unless i have explicity stated my opinions on it.

what's that saying about not judging others again?


I think FlyAway makes a great point... Why is it acceptable to dislike children, and unacceptable to dislike some other group of people...



why isn't it acceptable to dislike children and like other groups of people?
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Reply #154 posted 12/19/06 10:39am

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coolcat said:



I think FlyAway makes a great point... Why is it acceptable to dislike children, and unacceptable to dislike some other group of people...


you don't find it hypocritical to say that you shouldn't dislike "any one group of people" but at the same time have no problem calling them sociopaths?



But isn't it just as hypocritical to judge a racist while saying that one should not judge people?


as devotedpuppy and others have pointed out, no one here's saying they universally hate every last child. all that's being expressed is a preference not to be around kids or to have kids of their own. it's not some attack on children as a group of people, as it keeps being interpreted.


If somebody said... I have a preference not to be around XXX... (insert some group of people for XXX... race, gender or sexuality). Would it be acceptable?
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Reply #155 posted 12/19/06 10:45am

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DevotedPuppy said:

coolcat said:



I think FlyAway makes a great point... Why is it acceptable to dislike children, and unacceptable to dislike some other group of people...



why isn't it acceptable to dislike children and like other groups of people?


Suppose somebody started a thread here saying "I Hate Women" or "I Hate Men"... would it be ok? I expect a lot of people would be extremely offended.
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Reply #156 posted 12/19/06 11:05am

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i just find it confusing that some peeps who love animals don't feel the same about children confuse btw, it really doesn't matter as long as those who don't like kids don't have 'em. otherwise we end up with abused children who just may turn out to be messed up adults.

I adore animals and always have. love I think they're just about the cutest things on earth, no matter what kind they are in fact.

Kids however, well, they just don't do anything for me. lol They never really have. I hardly ever look at a baby or little kids and think, "Oh what a sweetie!" I never want to hold them, and I really feel nothing for them. It's actually very odd for me sometimes though and I wonder why I'm so cold and indifferent to them. I just don't have any maternal instinct for little humans it seems. hmmm

I don't "hate" them though. I just don't feel anything for them. Having said that, we have been talking about having a baby soon. falloff God help me! lol I'm sure I would like my own kids though. biggrin
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Reply #157 posted 12/19/06 11:11am

coolcat

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Having said that, we have been talking about having a baby soon.


Why? I don't understand.
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Reply #158 posted 12/19/06 11:20am

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minneapolisgenius said:

brownsugar said:

i just find it confusing that some peeps who love animals don't feel the same about children confuse btw, it really doesn't matter as long as those who don't like kids don't have 'em. otherwise we end up with abused children who just may turn out to be messed up adults.

I adore animals and always have. love I think they're just about the cutest things on earth, no matter what kind they are in fact.

Kids however, well, they just don't do anything for me. lol They never really have. I hardly ever look at a baby or little kids and think, "Oh what a sweetie!" I never want to hold them, and I really feel nothing for them. It's actually very odd for me sometimes though and I wonder why I'm so cold and indifferent to them. I just don't have any maternal instinct for little humans it seems. hmmm

I don't "hate" them though. I just don't feel anything for them. Having said that, we have been talking about having a baby soon. falloff God help me! lol I'm sure I would like my own kids though. biggrin


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Reply #159 posted 12/19/06 11:22am

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coolcat said:

minneapolisgenius said:



Having said that, we have been talking about having a baby soon.


Why? I don't understand.

I don't think everyone has kids because they absolutely always wanted them their whole lives. rolleyes Sometimes, it's a more gradual desision. I used to think that whole "biological clock" thing was bullshit, but I'm beginning to think it may be true. I also think (I assume you're a man) that it's a very difficult decision for many women to make. Some women, especially alot of women I know personally, always said they'd never have kids and then they do. shrug That doesn't mean that they turned out to be a bad mother just because they didn't know for sure what they wanted at first. I suppose that's what will happen to me. I don't want to go my whole life without having any more family after me. As a dancer, the decision is even more difficult because you're always wondering if that means the end of your career for good. I also don't want to be 40 all of the sudden and realize that I "forgot" to have kids lol and suddenly want them.

Hell, my mother had all three of us kids in my family by "accident" WHILE on birth control the whole time. None of us were planned, and she turned out to be a great mother. Not overly doting or anything, and she also was never one to like other people's kids either, so i suppose that's where I get that attitude towards children myself. shrug I had the best childhood I could ever have asked for though.
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Reply #160 posted 12/19/06 11:24am

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minneapolisgenius said:

brownsugar said:

i just find it confusing that some peeps who love animals don't feel the same about children confuse btw, it really doesn't matter as long as those who don't like kids don't have 'em. otherwise we end up with abused children who just may turn out to be messed up adults.

I adore animals and always have. love I think they're just about the cutest things on earth, no matter what kind they are in fact.

Kids however, well, they just don't do anything for me. lol They never really have. I hardly ever look at a baby or little kids and think, "Oh what a sweetie!" I never want to hold them, and I really feel nothing for them. It's actually very odd for me sometimes though and I wonder why I'm so cold and indifferent to them. I just don't have any maternal instinct for little humans it seems. hmmm

I don't "hate" them though. I just don't feel anything for them. Having said that, we have been talking about having a baby soon. falloff God help me! lol I'm sure I would like my own kids though. biggrin


I was exactly like that before I had a child. didn't care to hold one or watch anyone else's kids, never really thought they were cute...kinda thought they were sticky and noisy and often gritted my teeth in the stores when one was screaming....
also didn't have an overwhelming feeling that I didn't want any of my own...so I hesitantly decided that I couldn't NOT have a child and wonder my whole life if I should have...so we did. And I gotta say...it's the BEST thing in the world to me. My son, is my love! mushy he melts my heart and always will.
I do look at children completely differently now, I see the absolute helplessness in them and the utter sweet innocence that makes them so "cute"
I'm positive that when you do have a baby, you'll be a GREAT mom and will love every minute of it. biggrin don't get me wrong...it's a hard job too and sometimes love doesn't come immediately but...it will and it gets easier by the day. at least for me it did.
good luck biggrin
"not a fan" falloff yeah...ok
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Reply #161 posted 12/19/06 11:33am

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Shorty said:

minneapolisgenius said:


I adore animals and always have. love I think they're just about the cutest things on earth, no matter what kind they are in fact.

Kids however, well, they just don't do anything for me. lol They never really have. I hardly ever look at a baby or little kids and think, "Oh what a sweetie!" I never want to hold them, and I really feel nothing for them. It's actually very odd for me sometimes though and I wonder why I'm so cold and indifferent to them. I just don't have any maternal instinct for little humans it seems. hmmm

I don't "hate" them though. I just don't feel anything for them. Having said that, we have been talking about having a baby soon. falloff God help me! lol I'm sure I would like my own kids though. biggrin


I was exactly like that before I had a child. didn't care to hold one or watch anyone else's kids, never really thought they were cute...kinda thought they were sticky and noisy and often gritted my teeth in the stores when one was screaming....
also didn't have an overwhelming feeling that I didn't want any of my own...so I hesitantly decided that I couldn't NOT have a child and wonder my whole life if I should have...so we did. And I gotta say...it's the BEST thing in the world to me. My son, is my love! mushy he melts my heart and always will.
I do look at children completely differently now, I see the absolute helplessness in them and the utter sweet innocence that makes them so "cute"
I'm positive that when you do have a baby, you'll be a GREAT mom and will love every minute of it. biggrin don't get me wrong...it's a hard job too and sometimes love doesn't come immediately but...it will and it gets easier by the day. at least for me it did.
good luck biggrin

Exactly! nod I know they annoy me now, but I'm sure I won't keep that attitude with my own. Although, it's all too true that some people DO though. I hope I'm not one of those people. disbelief

I always remember my mom saying, "Yeah, I never really cared for other peoples' kids, but YOU guys were always just so cute!" lol At which I would always roll my eyes because I couldn't imagine ANY kids being cute. Not even me when I was little. lol

And thanks though. nod
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Reply #162 posted 12/19/06 11:36am

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What is it with people and their kids lately everwhere I look there is idiot child doing some annoying idiotic thing. It use to be children were seen and not heard, now everything is "what about the children" "no child left behind" its ridiculous. I go to a nice resturant and some kid is making so much noise I can't talk to my date. I go to a movie (and I don't see any PG stuff) and some kid is so loud I can't hear the film. I'm on a plane child and if it is not next to me its in the seat ahead of me with its head turned backwards like Regan in the Exorcist stairing at me. I have a joke with my friends that I could go to a topless bar and there would a child sitting behind me.


I am willing to bet some unsuspecting adult way back when thought the same thing when you were having your temper tantrum or just crying in public! stfu

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Reply #163 posted 12/19/06 12:32pm

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LordEvil said:

What is it with people and their kids lately everwhere I look there is idiot child doing some annoying idiotic thing. It use to be children were seen and not heard, now everything is "what about the children" "no child left behind" its ridiculous. I go to a nice resturant and some kid is making so much noise I can't talk to my date. I go to a movie (and I don't see any PG stuff) and some kid is so loud I can't hear the film. I'm on a plane child and if it is not next to me its in the seat ahead of me with its head turned backwards like Regan in the Exorcist stairing at me. I have a joke with my friends that I could go to a topless bar and there would a child sitting behind me.


I am willing to bet some unsuspecting adult way back when thought the same thing when you were having your temper tantrum or just crying in public! stfu

evilking

In the spirit of the season,
I would like to quote Capt. Stubing of Love Boat fame once said,
"When it come's to the problems of the world,
children or not the problem.
They are the answer."

Getting frustrated with children is a sign of lack of patience on the side of the frustratee. I'ts an expectation that these kids should have the wisdom that can only result from living more years of life experience fart (oops.....sorry...) & that is available only to adults.

As a adults, we all have the wisdom that accumulates with the fart amount of time that we as individuals have been on this Earth. But fart we are also provided with fart the choice to utilize that wisdom or not. fart(geez...redface) Allowing impatience to lead one's opinions,decisions & therefore fart your actions is choice not to use one's wisdom. fart

It's a decision to act with an immaturity that fart suprpasses or at least, equals the immaturity of the child.

Now, if you'll excuse me,
there's a gopher who's head keeps popping out.
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Reply #164 posted 12/19/06 12:35pm

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Illustrator said:

DexMSR said:



I am willing to bet some unsuspecting adult way back when thought the same thing when you were having your temper tantrum or just crying in public! stfu

evilking

In the spirit of the season,
I would like to quote Capt. Stubing of Love Boat fame once said,
"When it come's to the problems of the world,
children or not the problem.
They are the answer."

Getting frustrated with children is a sign of lack of patience on the side of the frustratee. I'ts an expectation that these kids should have the wisdom that can only result from living more years of life experience fart (oops.....sorry...) & that is available only to adults.

As a adults, we all have the wisdom that accumulates with the fart amount of time that we as individuals have been on this Earth. But fart we are also provided with fart the choice to utilize that wisdom or not. fart(geez...redface) Allowing impatience to lead one's opinions,decisions & therefore fart your actions is choice not to use one's wisdom. fart

It's a decision to act with an immaturity that fart suprpasses or at least, equals the immaturity of the child.

Now, if you'll excuse me,
there's a gopher who's head keeps popping out.


okay i didn't read all of that but i just could'nt deny those farts drool
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Reply #165 posted 12/19/06 12:44pm

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brownsugar said:

Illustrator said:


In the spirit of the season,
I would like to quote Capt. Stubing of Love Boat fame once said,
"When it come's to the problems of the world,
children or not the problem.
They are the answer."

Getting frustrated with children is a sign of lack of patience on the side of the frustratee. I'ts an expectation that these kids should have the wisdom that can only result from living more years of life experience fart (oops.....sorry...) & that is available only to adults.

As a adults, we all have the wisdom that accumulates with the fart amount of time that we as individuals have been on this Earth. But fart we are also provided with fart the choice to utilize that wisdom or not. fart(geez...redface) Allowing impatience to lead one's opinions,decisions & therefore fart your actions is choice not to use one's wisdom. fart

It's a decision to act with an immaturity that fart suprpasses or at least, equals the immaturity of the child.

Now, if you'll excuse me,
there's a gopher who's head keeps popping out.


okay i didn't read all of that but i just could'nt deny those farts drool

Coincidently
in my household,
we affectionately refer to farts as "brown sugar".
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Reply #166 posted 12/19/06 12:45pm

brownsugar

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brownsugar said:



okay i didn't read all of that but i just could'nt deny those farts drool

Coincidently
in my household,
we affectionately refer to farts as "brown sugar".


isnt that special batting eyes
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Reply #167 posted 12/19/06 12:56pm

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Getting frustrated with children is a sign of lack of patience on the side of the frustratee.
and

It's a decision to act with an immaturity that fart suprpasses or at least, equals the immaturity of the child.

Ever watch Super Nanny? neutral We all know that there are some horrible kids out there and equally as horrible (or just clueless or lazy) parents of these kids. We, the viewers of shows like this, and in real life, often look on in horror at the antics of some of these kids. omg disbelief When you see behavior like that, it's perfectly normal to get annoyed or frustrated with both the parents AND the children.
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Reply #168 posted 12/19/06 1:32pm

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minneapolisgenius said:

coolcat said:



Why? I don't understand.

I don't think everyone has kids because they absolutely always wanted them their whole lives. rolleyes Sometimes, it's a more gradual desision. I used to think that whole "biological clock" thing was bullshit, but I'm beginning to think it may be true. I also think (I assume you're a man) that it's a very difficult decision for many women to make. Some women, especially alot of women I know personally, always said they'd never have kids and then they do. shrug That doesn't mean that they turned out to be a bad mother just because they didn't know for sure what they wanted at first. I suppose that's what will happen to me. I don't want to go my whole life without having any more family after me. As a dancer, the decision is even more difficult because you're always wondering if that means the end of your career for good. I also don't want to be 40 all of the sudden and realize that I "forgot" to have kids lol and suddenly want them.

Hell, my mother had all three of us kids in my family by "accident" WHILE on birth control the whole time. None of us were planned, and she turned out to be a great mother. Not overly doting or anything, and she also was never one to like other people's kids either, so i suppose that's where I get that attitude towards children myself. shrug I had the best childhood I could ever have asked for though.


Ok. That's cool. hug
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Reply #169 posted 12/19/06 1:43pm

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coolcat said:

DevotedPuppy said:




why isn't it acceptable to dislike children and like other groups of people?


Suppose somebody started a thread here saying "I Hate Women" or "I Hate Men"... would it be ok? I expect a lot of people would be extremely offended.


People tend to be very quick at equating the dislike of children to racism, which I think is off base and is just a spin to start a lot of grandstanding and actually skirt the issue.

I'm doing a side job right now that is focusing on the hiring practises of certain companies, and most human resource centers are very aware of race and religion, but judge more based on appearance and we have found that overweight people and bald people have a tougher time trying to get a job even if they are quailified.

So to everybody that wants to call us racists because we don't like children and don't want expensive meals and movies ruined by them, you better check yourselves because i bet most of you crying "racist" judge people based on how they look as well as some of you might even be in the position to hire somebody.
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Reply #171 posted 12/19/06 1:56pm

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Reply #172 posted 12/20/06 11:20am

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okay that is just wrong falloff
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Reply #173 posted 12/20/06 11:25am

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LordEvil said:

coolcat said:



Suppose somebody started a thread here saying "I Hate Women" or "I Hate Men"... would it be ok? I expect a lot of people would be extremely offended.


People tend to be very quick at equating the dislike of children to racism, which I think is off base and is just a spin to start a lot of grandstanding and actually skirt the issue.

I'm doing a side job right now that is focusing on the hiring practises of certain companies, and most human resource centers are very aware of race and religion, but judge more based on appearance and we have found that overweight people and bald people have a tougher time trying to get a job even if they are quailified.

So to everybody that wants to call us racists because we don't like children and don't want expensive meals and movies ruined by them, you better check yourselves because i bet most of you crying "racist" judge people based on how they look as well as some of you might even be in the position to hire somebody.
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aside from that, many people who have children you can catch saying out thier own mouths at sometime or another, that they wished they didnt have them. And they truely mean this.
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Reply #174 posted 12/20/06 2:23pm

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brownsugar said:

Illustrator said:


Coincidently
in my household,
we affectionately refer to farts as "brown sugar".


isnt that special batting eyes

nod
Sometimes we try to guess whether the end result was granulated or powder.
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Reply #175 posted 12/20/06 2:24pm

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brownsugar said:



isnt that special batting eyes

nod
Sometimes we try to guess whether the end result was granulated or powder.


powder drool
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