Illustrator said: Y'know, y'all here talk big,
but honestly, how many of you can actually fit a whole clique in your mouth? My jaw unhinges so it's likely that I can 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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SexOnWheels said: isn't it true that in any setting, work, school, internet chat rooms, whatever you prefer, certain people seem to "stick together"? there are people you get along with, and people you don't. so, if someone doesn't agree with someone you get along with, or one of your friends, isn't it natural to "side" with your friend? and if that is the case, would that qualify as a "clique"?
there was a woman who used to work here where i work, and another co-worker and i disliked her intensely. were we said to be a "clique"? not officially. but were we? probably. interesting discussion! I see what you are saying but people are acting like I'm Molly Ringwald in Breakfast Club when clearly I am Michael Anthony Hall! 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: SexOnWheels said: isn't it true that in any setting, work, school, internet chat rooms, whatever you prefer, certain people seem to "stick together"? there are people you get along with, and people you don't. so, if someone doesn't agree with someone you get along with, or one of your friends, isn't it natural to "side" with your friend? and if that is the case, would that qualify as a "clique"?
there was a woman who used to work here where i work, and another co-worker and i disliked her intensely. were we said to be a "clique"? not officially. but were we? probably. interesting discussion! I see what you are saying but people are acting like I'm Molly Ringwald in Breakfast Club when clearly I am Michael Anthony Hall! you cunt. | |
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purplerein said: SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: I see what you are saying but people are acting like I'm Molly Ringwald in Breakfast Club when clearly I am Michael Anthony Hall! you cunt. Well! 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: SexOnWheels said: isn't it true that in any setting, work, school, internet chat rooms, whatever you prefer, certain people seem to "stick together"? there are people you get along with, and people you don't. so, if someone doesn't agree with someone you get along with, or one of your friends, isn't it natural to "side" with your friend? and if that is the case, would that qualify as a "clique"?
there was a woman who used to work here where i work, and another co-worker and i disliked her intensely. were we said to be a "clique"? not officially. but were we? probably. interesting discussion! I see what you are saying but people are acting like I'm Molly Ringwald in Breakfast Club when clearly I am Michael Anthony Hall! Which people? Name names! Haha! | |
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FruitToAttractBears said: SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: I see what you are saying but people are acting like I'm Molly Ringwald in Breakfast Club when clearly I am Michael Anthony Hall! Which people? Name names! Haha! I don't believe in causing trouble 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: SexOnWheels said: isn't it true that in any setting, work, school, internet chat rooms, whatever you prefer, certain people seem to "stick together"? there are people you get along with, and people you don't. so, if someone doesn't agree with someone you get along with, or one of your friends, isn't it natural to "side" with your friend? and if that is the case, would that qualify as a "clique"?
there was a woman who used to work here where i work, and another co-worker and i disliked her intensely. were we said to be a "clique"? not officially. but were we? probably. interesting discussion! I see what you are saying but people are acting like I'm Molly Ringwald in Breakfast Club when clearly I am Michael Anthony Hall! see, now, i would have said emilio estevez.... anthony michael hall was too.... "virginal". | |
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Illustrator said: CarrieMpls said: You don't walk over to a group of gay men and yell, 'hey fag!'. You don't call women 'cunts'. & you don't tug on Superman's cape. what about pulling the mask offa ole lone ranger?? | |
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Ex-Moderator | SexOnWheels said: Illustrator said: & you don't tug on Superman's cape. what about pulling the mask offa ole lone ranger?? I don't know, but you don't mess around with Jim either. |
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CarrieMpls said: SexOnWheels said: what about pulling the mask offa ole lone ranger?? I don't know, but you don't mess around with Jim either. do you think he's related to leroy? | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: CarrieMpls said: oh, here we go again.
I just think it's hilarious that people think I'm in a clique when clearly I am not why even bother to worry about it? either they are your friend or not-thats all that matters they'll get over it. | |
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brownsugar said: SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: I just think it's hilarious that people think I'm in a clique when clearly I am not why even bother to worry about it? either they are your friend or not-thats all that matters they'll get over it. You're part of the clique you know 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: People accuse me of being in a "Clique" and I always crack up because I am friends with so many different people here, many of which would never be assumed to belong to a "clique". I don't believe in cliques and I am friends with anyone who is friendworthy. I just think when people start throwing that word around, they really want to belong to something
I thought you were talking about "Cunt". I'm sooo disappointed. | |
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dseann said: SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: People accuse me of being in a "Clique" and I always crack up because I am friends with so many different people here, many of which would never be assumed to belong to a "clique". I don't believe in cliques and I am friends with anyone who is friendworthy. I just think when people start throwing that word around, they really want to belong to something
I thought you were talking about "Cunt". I'm sooo disappointed. Hey, I've been called worse! If you wanna run with the vag, go for it 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: dseann said: I thought you were talking about "Cunt". I'm sooo disappointed. Hey, I've been called worse! If you wanna run with the vag, go for it you...you...religious right winger you! | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: brownsugar said: why even bother to worry about it? either they are your friend or not-thats all that matters they'll get over it. You're part of the clique you know oh really? do you know how long i've been a nerd and cast to the side?!!! people need to get over themselves. | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: dseann said: I thought you were talking about "Cunt". I'm sooo disappointed. Hey, I've been called worse! If you wanna run with the vag, go for it Are jealousy and envy related because I would think the term envy would be more applicable in this case. The "outside" person really isn't being resentful about your allegiance, they're upset about the exclusion and are hoping to get "in". Does that make any sense to you? | |
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dseann said: SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: Hey, I've been called worse! If you wanna run with the vag, go for it Are jealousy and envy related because I would think the term envy would be more applicable in this case. The "outside" person really isn't being resentful about your allegiance, they're upset about the exclusion and are hoping to get "in". Does that make any sense to you? You're right. Envy is the correct word to use in this case...Supa you betta edit! | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: People accuse me of being in a "Clique" and I always crack up because I am friends with so many different people here, many of which would never be assumed to belong to a "clique". I don't believe in cliques and I am friends with anyone who is friendworthy. I just think when people start throwing that word around, they really want to belong to something
i think it has to do with a lot of factors, including where you live, what your interests are, what your personality is like, who you're drawn to, what age you are, what sensibilities you have, blah blah blah. i think some scenes and communities are harder to crack than others, and sometimes i think you just have to radiate your own sense of 'scene' and if you're strong enough in who you are, people will gravitate to you sooner or later. i think cliques exist, but i don't believe in them as something that has any kind of exclusive currency. | |
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FruitToAttractBears said: dseann said: Are jealousy and envy related because I would think the term envy would be more applicable in this case. The "outside" person really isn't being resentful about your allegiance, they're upset about the exclusion and are hoping to get "in". Does that make any sense to you? You're right. Envy is the correct word to use in this case...Supa you betta edit! Thank you, Thank you! | |
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dseann said: SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: Hey, I've been called worse! If you wanna run with the vag, go for it Are jealousy and envy related because I would think the term envy would be more applicable in this case. The "outside" person really isn't being resentful about your allegiance, they're upset about the exclusion and are hoping to get "in". Does that make any sense to you? now there's an interesting aspect of this discussion to investigate... what if it's NOT resentment about exclusion, but rather the allegiance factor? i mean, what if others in the supposed "clique" have wronged the outsider in some way? as i mentioned before if you side with the person who did the wronging does that mean you and this person are in a clique? and in that case, would it be envy? or rather just a general "i hate you all" to the wronging person and the one who sides with them? something like this happened where i work and i'm SO GLAD that bitch is gone!! | |
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SexOnWheels said: dseann said: Are jealousy and envy related because I would think the term envy would be more applicable in this case. The "outside" person really isn't being resentful about your allegiance, they're upset about the exclusion and are hoping to get "in". Does that make any sense to you? now there's an interesting aspect of this discussion to investigate... what if it's NOT resentment about exclusion, but rather the allegiance factor? i mean, what if others in the supposed "clique" have wronged the outsider in some way? as i mentioned before if you side with the person who did the wronging does that mean you and this person are in a clique? and in that case, would it be envy? or rather just a general "i hate you all" to the wronging person and the one who sides with them? something like this happened where i work and i'm SO GLAD that bitch is gone!! So, the bitch was being a cunt about your clique? It happens. And, yes that was an interesting twist to the discussion. I do understand all the scenarios. | |
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dseann said: SexOnWheels said: now there's an interesting aspect of this discussion to investigate... what if it's NOT resentment about exclusion, but rather the allegiance factor? i mean, what if others in the supposed "clique" have wronged the outsider in some way? as i mentioned before if you side with the person who did the wronging does that mean you and this person are in a clique? and in that case, would it be envy? or rather just a general "i hate you all" to the wronging person and the one who sides with them? something like this happened where i work and i'm SO GLAD that bitch is gone!! So, the bitch was being a cunt about your clique? It happens. And, yes that was an interesting twist to the discussion. I do understand all the scenarios. nice use of descriptive words no, the bitch was just being a bitch. myself and my coworker both hated her and basically tried to avoid contact with her. did that make us a clique? i guess so. wow, semi-intelligent discussions! i'm starting to like GD. | |
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the Clique of DOOM doesn't condone this thread. | |
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SexOnWheels said: dseann said: So, the bitch was being a cunt about your clique? It happens. And, yes that was an interesting twist to the discussion. I do understand all the scenarios. nice use of descriptive words no, the bitch was just being a bitch. myself and my coworker both hated her and basically tried to avoid contact with her. did that make us a clique? i guess so. wow, semi-intelligent discussions! i'm starting to like GD. | |
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I'm totally jealous, clicky.
Your voice hasn't tickled my ear in ages. This one's for you. | |
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I thought you meant "cunt".
Let me just speak up on your behalf: Folks, Richard is my friend, and I assure you, no clique will have me. So, bugger off! oh noes, prince is gonna soo me!!1! | |
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dseann said: So, the bitch was being a cunt about your clique? ...or maybe a clique about his cunt? Okay, that really makes no sense. I just like it that everyone is flinging cunt around here so freely! Do not hurry yourself in your spirit to become offended, for the taking of offense is what rests in the bosom of the stupid ones. (Ecclesiastes 7:9) | |
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IrresistibleB1tch said: i wouldn't join any clique that would have me for a member.
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Here is my 2 cents about cliques here on the org. There are always going to be a few people in every social enviornment that will hang out with people just like themselves for many reasons. Some immediately conclude that since they don't interact with everyone just themselves they are a "clique".For example here there may be a group of gay orgers who are friends, orgers that post in a particular section only ect ect....they can be seen as a "clique". By pure definition that is what it is...I think too when threads that are made by someone with a group of friends here and all their friends take part in said thread reinforces that.
With that said the people complaining need to stop reading the threads or start one with your group of friends. If you don't have friends here to do that with then make some...its not hard. The time spent complaining about it you could have made a friend or 2. And to be honest the org for example is not eveyone's cup of tea...go find another forum that is more suited to your interests or a real life crew to hang with. I never understand complaining about it unless the clique in question is being obnoxious about it. clever clever quotation - attention getting quote - sad yet witty remark - look at me! Im deep quote- song lyric about my ex cause that bitch stole my mp3 player! - line from movie I liked - Prince lyric - not very clever sig mocking other sigs | |
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