I always have trouble knowing for sure. I'm just not good at it...anyone else have this problem?

no way. i'm completely awful at it & a friend usually has to clue me in.

someone usually has to break it down for me.

in small words.

Anx said:

I.....like.....you

Yeah.

I have had problems in the past with knowing a woman was interested in me. And then my friends start elbowing me, telling me that the girl was interested me. But most times it's been because women are not that good at letting a guy know they want them. They put out mixed signals.etc.

Yes, I can.

Unless they're stalking me and I have no idea they exist.

DanceWme said:

to be really honest, visual prompts and short instructional films usually get the point across to me better than anything. the last person i dated had a nice color coded visio flowchart which was very helpful in getting us to third base.

Anx said:

offering to have sex with me is the first sign.

haven't had any sorta experience in that yet, so i dunno.

purplerein said:

no subtle hints before then?

I was at a sports event recently ...

and someone I have known for a long time was standing next to me, leaned over and said something quietly into my ear



I just had to share that with someone and this thread seemed the place to do it

Mach said:

Were you shocked?

applekisses said:

VERY ... very

I told TR and he laughed

hell no, I'm clueless

jerseykrs said:

i suppose i should stay the hell away from these kinna threads till i get a girlfriend or something.

Handclapsfingasnapz said:

Handclapsfingasnapz said:

I'm sure there are people who are interested in you...you just have no clue like the rest of us.

I tend to pass it off as someone just being friendly. For the most part, I'm not expecting it so someone would have to make it really obvious for me.

applekisses said:

not really, i don't get out much as it is.

TMPletz said:

A lot of women think being friendly is enough to let the guy know. But it's not because there are women who are just be friendly because they like you just as a friend.

jerseykrs said:

Here you go.

I don't like you in that way.

JustErin said:

I so loathe you.

Cloudbuster said:

They usually have to outright tell me and even then sometimes I don't really believe them.

Although other times I can guess pretty well. So I'm not always completely clueless.
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I thought I was the only one like that. But by far I think its worse to think that everyone is into you or that you are hot shit when you are not. I know someone like that. A male can just say hello and she acts like they asked her on a date

irrisistableB said:

I have outright said to a woman's face "don't flatter yourself hon, I was just being nice"

I hate stuck up c u next tuesdays.

jerseykrs said:

I'm still having a hard time getting over that.

*sniff*