What is that one thing you look for in a mate, that turns your humina humina into cotton candy?
[Edited 12/13/06 14:06pm]

Intelligence.

They have to be good at Sudoko.

Visually? A woman in glasses; gets me everytime.

StDrew said:

spun sugar and a blowdryer. does it every time.

I don't go around auditioning people for it, but a good threatening growl will do it. Please note I mean that from humans.

a mans hands
and the way their mouth curves when they smile
oh and stares

A guy has to:

1) He has to look like he can kick my ass.
2) Have a great sense of humor.
3) Have a nice butt (this cannot be negotiated)


That is all.

M

intelligence/a sexy voice always get my attention

evenstar3 said:

A pretty face, nice body and nice boobies. And their hair in a ponytail.

I am surprised no on else is mentioning looks. Let's be honest folks.

Spats said:

Thats cos we knew you would.

LleeLlee said:

Ew. Ow.

The look, touch, voice, delivery, confidence, intelligence laid back sexy seduction...the total package.

a guy who takes his life seriously. he knows when to be humorous, but he also knows when its time to be serious. if he has goals that he is working towards, and is looking for a mate who also has goals, then that is really attractive.

he has to know more about life than just playing video games and going out with his boys. there's nothing more unsexy than a guy who knows nothing about current events, but can make sense of lyrics written by Lil' Jon.

Voice, and...uh this is kinda weird but, scent, definitely.

FruitToAttractBears said:

u talking about their natural scent, or the kind of cologne that is worn? i think that's a sexy trait too, wearing the right cologne that is sexy yet not so strong that it stinks.

LordEvil said:

It nice if they like lots of

FruitToAttractBears said:

that's not weird at all, i do that too

it can me the weirdest things you know, like quite an innocent touch for example a brush against my collarbone, or a catch in his voice. A stranger will never do it. Having my hair brushed

Wow- that is a tough one. It changes for me and can be the most simple thing like the way he says my name or the look in his eyes when he knows I am getting excited over him. I also melt when a man makes some noise when he gets excited...

Dirty looks.
Voice.
Touch.

Spookymuffin said:

do you mean the "slow lingering glance up & down your body" type of look?

evenstar3 said:

That works, and the stare you catch women giving you too. Someone did that to me at oxford and I just stared right back...I can't fucking resist those looks...when girls look like they're considering it there and then..

evenstar3 said:

Or the "I need you right here, right now" look?

Spookymuffin said:

oh shit I do that all the time