Anx said:

I go to the gym, and I go right up to the tv, and change the channel. i look around to see if anyone notices me. usually i get alot of eye contact. as an alternative, i move the fan from where ever it may be, to another place. I wait for someone to say something but they usually don't.

Anx said:

maybe thats why

purplerein said:

i think he's visited the org, because i haven't seen him in a couple of months.

Anx said:

he's interested in you

I find women are very aggressive when flirting with the same sex, in my experience anyway.

They made it very clear. It always seemed to happen in the bathroom of some club too.

purplerein said:

he's interested in having lotion put in the basket

Anx said:

JustErin said:

"Isn't it romantic..."

WillyWonka said:

That's hot.


(I FLIRTED in a coffeehouse today! I never flirt! And I think she flirted back, but I can't tell for sure. )

JustErin said:

Tell me more.

I can usually tell but it's more of a feel kinda thing. Eye contact, physical contact, over compensation for anything are all signs.

It just sux that we have to play games when it comes to showing that we're interested.

Apples, give him a compliment and see how he reacts, it's a give away. The other thing is to engage in any physical contact, a brush of the arm, a touch of the shoulder and watch the reaction.

Slave2daGroove said:

I don't even know how to read the reactions.

I wish someone was interested in me!

Unfortunately I'm really bad at noticing if someone is interested in me... I can only name one instance when I know a girl clearly wanted to have sex with me.... except I figured that out when it was too late.... I had ignored all the signs she was giving me, stuff like: "Hey I don't wanna go to that party... Can't we just go somewhere else..." "Wanna come outside for a walk?" .... I only was fully aware of her intentions the day after when her friends were looking for her after last night's partying.... and they quizzed me about where she was.... I think I was a bit too negative that night, thinking she was just being friendly (and on top of that, REALLY really drunk).... I guess I'm just clueless when it comes to women and their "mixed signals"

bucketofbouncyballs said:

OK.... I just looked at your profile pic and if that is you in that pic, I bet there are hundreds, if not thousands of guys out there that might be interested in you.... Surely there must be guys in your area interested in dating you, you just might be clueless about if they're REALLY interested..... Still, we guys tend to be more obvious when it comes to showing our interest in the opposite sex....

bucketofbouncyballs said:

applekisses said:

A lot of smiles = giveaway, an abnormal amount of shyness when there's no reason = giveaway, just asking questions about him as a person and seeing if he "lights up" when giving answers = giveaway, any kind of blushing (turning red for no reason) = giveaway.

Oh yeah, talk about another guy being cute to him and if he gets cold or acts like you are talking about nail polish colors, maybe a little giveaway.

Nothing beats just talking about things in common or learning about him as a person. If he asks questions back or is engaged is general personal conversation, that's another good sign.

bucketofbouncyballs said:

Whatever! I just want to know how big of a stick you use to beat the guys off of your little 19 year-old-cute-self

Slave2daGroove said:

Thanks, Chris...I can be a total dork when it comes to these things

applekisses said:

being single for a long time fucks with your head, always go back to the basics. If you think this guy is cute on the outside, find out about the inside next. My major rule of thumb is let his actions speak. If he says he cares about people and then treats the intern like garbage, then there you go.

Slave2daGroove said:

I dated a guy once who did just that...he prided himself on being a good person and then was torturing the waiter when we went out for dinner with his family the first time. He was so rude!

I agree, telling if a guy is either interested in your or just wants to fuck you is very hard to tell.

nowdays guys will say and do anything to get women to fuck either on the first night, or the first couple of weeks...after that if you still haven't given it up to him, the nice personality will fade, the phone calls will slowly ween down, and next thing you know, you have just been passed over because you wouldn't drop your drawers for him.

its a damn shame how pathetic SOME guys are who go to such great lengths to even hide their true personality in order to get a woman into bed.

but if the guy truly likes you, he'll stick around long enough to want to spend time with you and act interested in getting to know you more. Always pay attention to actions more so than words. a guy's true actions will most of the time give you a good idea of his true intentions.

Slave2daGroove said:

Is this enough of a hint for you:

NDRU said:

me too

brownsugar said:

I think women can also flirt with other women in a non sexual way, I mean flirting in itself is sexual, but they do it in a way that is not so much "I want you," but more, "I think youre attractive." Its more playful. Maybe flirting is the wrong to word to use, maybe its called something else, I dont know. Female bonding , that doesn't sound right somehow. Maybe, "appreciation of the same sex in a non sexual manner that illicits much smiling and being nice to complete strangers." hehe.

Dont you think?

Yep, I can. I can sense when a guy is staring at me, but he does not dare to tell me so. Another clue for me is when they start acting goofy around me.

ZombieKitten said:

I see male orgers all over the world raising their clubs
[Edited 12/11/06 15:12pm]

LleeLlee said:

yes. that i recognize

Stymie said:

There's a difference between a hint and just saying, "Hey, I want to fuck the hell out of you!"

I enjoy either,

Slave2daGroove said:

Okay Chris.

I WANT TO FUCK THE HELL OUT OF YOU!!!!