emm said:

Good advice.

Oh, and sex toys: yay! Start with something playful. For something absolutely basic, I like the Kamasutra Honeydust stuff. Comes with a little duster thing to brush it on to your sweetie's body. It's fun. And it tastes good.

irrisistableB said:

I wonder if I can get off work early to go shopping...

GottaLetitgo said:

that's when you look them square in the face and say "this is important to us. thank you for giving us this much needed time together" and don't let them make you push your sex life to the back burner

GottaLetitgo said:

What a shame. Talk to her about how you feel. Tell her how much you miss being intimate with her and how you just can't get her out of your mind.

Make it less about just wanting more sex and more about wanting more sex with her and I think she'll be very receptive.

JustErin said:

afternoon quickie screams "i want sex"
night away so you can both relax says "i want you"

GottaLetitgo said:

i think "adam and eve" have alot of selections and or product reviews on the subject of "sex toys " .. not that i would know anything about them or how they work ...

SnidelyWhiplash said:

They all do come with instruction manuals, right?

my "gut" as far as the instuction manual is probably something saying like .... "put this baby on her nanooo nanooo and watch her erupt in spontaneous combustion !!! " ... and ... well ... it may not be exactly how "she " might describe how she likes to use it ...

just invite a third person over and have a 3 way

Tom said:

well said

Tom said:

Sunset Thomas will not return my calls.

emm said:

Fucking hell. I'm such a prude.

emm said:

Wow, that looks complicated.

emm said:

That looks like fun...

Oh man, I thought for a minute that this was what you decided on as a gift for your pets.

2the9s said:

First off.....YAY for sex toys.....loads of fun in the right hands....

Secondly, instead of buying some elaborate, 10hp outboard motor-powered vibe or some other shit, finding out one of her simplest turn-ons, say having you brush her hair or a body rub with a fragrant lotion or oil, would probably be a better way to go.....of course, a feather, a blindfold, and a soft leather cat o' nine tails won't hurt, either.....

GottaLetitgo said:

And my friends wonder why I emphatically state that I'll never get married.

JustErin said:

Oh my god.

Dude, talk to your woman and then take her to the toy store and the two fo you shop together.

Stymie said:

Thats a great idea....just be prepared for the shock when her tastes go far beyond what you expected....

and my two words.....Rabbit Vibe....

reneGade20 said:

My two words: Pocket Rocket.

Stymie said:

two more words....FUN TIME!!!

reneGade20 said:

We could do this all night.

Stymie said:

well I'd be game for that, but its 3:40 am in Iraq and I'm going to bed....

reneGade20 said:

Yay.
Flavored lubricants. You can get warming lubes, too.
Rabbit vibrator. Has multiple adjustments for speed, and vibration of rabbit ears, depending on sensitivity.
Butt plug or rectal vibrator. The vibrator is narrow and adjusts to curve she wants.
Men options..there's a round cock ring that has a vibrator at the top that's in the perfect spot for the clitoris. (Hope I'm not too detailed)
If you enjoy rectal sex she can also use a vibrator in the vagina for extra stimulation.
Sexy clothes go a long way garter belt and stockings crotchless panties. etc.
Take her to a sex store and see what's available.
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