I really don't have a type but I've always been attracted to men that are unusual and not afraid to be themselves...someone who is strong minded and confident in what they believe in is a HUGE turn on. Someone who is not afraid of being misunderstood by staying true to themselves.

Also he can't be intimidated by a strong, bright, independent woman because that is me! I appear very shy and quiet and I am but when people get to know me they know that I am pretty stong willed deep down...chavanistic men irritate me beyond belief.

I tend to fall for the charmers. The ones who tell me what I want to hear. And of course he must be intelligent and make me laugh. As for looks, I generally like the dark hair, dark eyes thing, though there's a certain shade of blue eyes that makes me melt. And anyway, it's how he looks at me, not the color of his eyes that gets me. He has to have a sense of style. And have a compatible taste in music.
I also have a habit of falling for men I can't really have, for whatever reason. Someday that will change.
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Somebody with a pulse. Or even without. Desperate times.

Spiritual
Smart
GREAT Sense of humor
Sexy
a dash of arrognance
focused
intropective
caring
attentive

I go for the brown/darker skinned brothas that are quite understated and yet classy in their appearance. I don't like a lot of jewerly. A very nice watch is good enough. Maybe a nice ring as well, maybe. No bling AT ALL. I don't care for red, purple, electric blue suits unless your name is Prince.

Now if you're the boho type, a little more jewerly is fine and more color is ok.


oh yeah...you must be heterosexual too.

crazy.








easy helps too

my usual profile - and to be really honest, i don't seek this out - is as such:

tall
skinny
pale
short hair/no hair
alternative-y
doesn't own a car
not a native state resident
big reader
introverted
funny

i might make a couple of little tweaks to that list, but for the most part if this is what attracts itself to me, then i'm pretty much cool with that.

Anx said:

You just described me when I was sick with bronchitis


grammar edit
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AsianBomb777 said:

AsianBomb777 said:

Anx said:

AsianBomb777 said:

Anx said:

AsianBomb777 said:

damn it

AsianBomb777 said:

Cloudbuster said:

you DID say you like 'em with a pulse. or without.

AsianBomb777 said:

Anx said:

Yeah, but if it's you it's def gotta be without.

Cloudbuster said:

i was kinda hoping you'd take "over my dead body" as a come-on.

Anx said:

IrresistibleB1tch said:

You just described me when I'm high.

AsianBomb777 said:

funny?

jerseykrs said:

smelling.

Anx said:

my type are very tall lithe women living in the south who enjoy wine, dogs, and ::shudder:: Ralph Nader

purplerein said:

"lithe"?!?!

IrresistibleB1tch said:

purplerein said:

emm said:

It's true. You would be amazed how many women have "daddy issues". It's creepy. You'll find women who did not get enough attention from daddy and go out looking for a man to be her daddy. Or you'll find women who were very close to her daddy and look for a man just like him. Creepy either way.