While I was single, I used to say that I wanted a moody guitar player with dark hair and soulful eyes, who would sit in the corner and quietly strum his guitar. Well, I got EXACTLY what I wanted, and let me say that you should be careful what you wish for! The moodiness is no picnic!

i really don't have a "type". i find it akin to pidgeonholing people.

Handclapsfingasnapz said:

this is true but the older i get the more sure i am of what i want in a man. so every thing is not set in stone but those things are important. i also like to add respect. if i'm not respected i aint' havin it.

and Char!!! whats with all of these 'love' topics? what goin on witcha girl?

I wouldn't say I have a "type" per se but I do tend 2 go 4 the younger 1's (18 and Over, please). I'm a sucker 4 blue eyes, usually brunette or red heads. With boys, I don't care 4 nilly queens. I live drama-free and work hard 2 keep it that way, so that's an important trait 4 a potential mate 2 share. But the MOST important things an ideal mate would have r:

INTELLIGENCE
CLASS
Confidence
Mature, when it's called 4
Immature, when it's called 4
Must have sense of humor.

Yeah, that's about it.

brownsugar said:

i dunno...i've never gone out with anyone so i haven't thought too deeply of "types". the idea of it all still bugs me--respect and intelligence is a definite given, but everything else...?

Handclapsfingasnapz said:

well the more experience you have with it, the more you'll know what you want

brownsugar said:

Exactly and you usuallly find that you are attracted to (generally) the same kinds of people.

brownsugar said:

people seem to like these topics!

ZombieKitten said:

yeahhhh okayyyy

brownsugar said:

what do you think of the notion that we end up with men like our fathers??

emm said:

i think it applies sometimes. i think that goes both ways.

Handclapsfingasnapz said:

brownsugar said:

right?



My type?

Gosh...

2the9s said:

ThreadBare said:

how long is it gonna take you?

emm said:

For the most part it's true.

Not physically like them, though!

JustErin said:

Those are fab &
Honest
Loyal

SHANNA said:

Yes, definitely those too.

If I could find all that, in a package I am also physically attracted to, I would be a very happy girl.

JustErin said:

I've been attracted to men who've reminded me of my father, as well as physically.

JustErin said:

It's hard. Always possible.

physically fit, eats healthy & exercises
intelligent and curious about the world
responsible
simple, non-materialistic outlook
kind to others
loves nature
loves God

Naughty eyes
Enamoring smile.
Cock sure. This is not a sexual reference, weird enough.

For the rest, I have no type. Be they tall or not, atlethic or not, black, blonde or whatever.

Confident (not cocky)
Funny
Tender
Passionate
Intelligent
Unagressive
Tall
Not too good-looking (I like character and kindness in a face rather than classic good looks)
I quite like "chunky" or big
Kind nature
Honourable/good moral values
No issues/baggage
A contributor to society rather than a user.

I've ended up with a slim, short guy. But he's funny, albeit moody (which I can't abide), intelligent and kind - so I guess those are the things that are most important to me from the above list.

personality wise...

most importantly has to TRULY love and be there for me, and if not then be honest enough to tell me and let go
confident - but not overly so
Intelligent
have a sense of humour about themselves and the world
honest and sincere
open and caring

Physically...

my taste is extremely varied I'm an absolute sucker for blue eyes and blonde hair though always have been - think Bret Michaels from Poison
but, in all honesty, I can be attracted to so many different looking guys I don't have one "type" really

strong
loving
sincere
real
hard working
motivated
funny
genuine
fit

I like them

Without arms
Horribly Scarred
and Young.

Personality wise, the less they say the better.

ReturnofDOOK said:

ReturnofDOOK said:

Otherwise it would just be Dan, right?