Spats said:

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The only cities with bigger populations in North America are New York, L.A. and Chicago.

Spats said:

http://www.elmerolsenmode...ale&page=1

The only cities with bigger populations in North America are New York, L.A. and Chicago.

Ace said:

let me save spats the trouble of responding-

but they're all taaaaken that's why they don't throw themselves at my feet!

Ace said:

i think it's possible for some couples to share an entire lifetime without even getting that deep into their own desires and wants. i think some people have entire lifetimes they'll never visit, simply due to how they've been raised and because of the expectations placed on them. and really, truly, i think many of these people are genuinely happy, and they truly enjoy having a marriage because it's necessary in order to build a family, and that's what you're supposed to do, so don't go questioning it.

and really, that's not completely as fascist and pathetic as it looks plunked out in an internet forum. it's just a different way of looking at life and love and relationships.

what's more, this model i'm attempting to describe, i think has more to do with following generations of tradition than it does with trying to emulate fictional relationships passed on by the mass media.

i'm not saying this is an ideal state of marital bliss, but i do believe it exists, and if the happiness is real, i would consider it to be valid "love".

Spats said:

http://www.elmerolsenmode...ale&page=1

The only cities with bigger populations in North America are New York, L.A. and Chicago.

Spats said:

The hot ones, we do.

And yes, nerds can be very physically good looking too. A nerd is not so much about their looks, like in the movies.

It's the "geeky" things they are into.

Spats said:

Dude, you do not know what most women want. There are at least a billion of us on the planet. How do you even fix your mouth to say you know what most of us want?

I for one want a house husband.

I want to pursue a man and have him stay home, raise the kids, cook, clean and iron.

Ace said:

let me save spats the trouble of responding-

but they're all taaaaken that's why they don't throw themselves at my feet!

JustErin said:

Most nerds are not good looking.

Spats said:

So.incredibly.clueless.

Pretty much every hot, even considered "bad boy" guy I have dated was into so called "nerdy" stuff.

Hot, tough guy on the outside, total nerd on the inside.

JustErin said:

You have strange taste in men then.

JustErin said:

You have strange taste in men then.

Spats said:

normality is so utterly overrated.

Spats said:

Hot, intelligent, confident and aggressive.

Ya, being into that is certainly strange.

Ace said:

Yeah but they don't have anywhere near the biggest population of hot women. You should know that. Don't you live here??

evenstar3 said:

Whatever you say. But most nerds are funny looking. Watch any show on Star Trek and Stars wars fans. Did you ever see that segment on Conan hung out at a Stars Wars Premiere. That nailed it. Most look like that.

Spats said:

If you think this is hot:



then, yes, you might think that.

Curious, Spatzowitz: if your bitch is that all of the "hot" women here are taken, what makes you think you'll have better luck in New York or L.A.?

Spats said:

i love "nerdy" guys. tons. so do lots of other women. so

Spats said:

spats and stereotypes go together like Prince and teeny heeled boots.

evenstar3 said:

I had to change my pocket protector when I read that.

evenstar3 said:

Yes, but stereotypes exist for a reason.

evenstar3 said:

Yes, but stereotypes exist for a reason.

Spats said:

so do plenty of people who defy them! done and done!

Ace said:

And don't you like what's her name who looks like a teenage boy? Portman??

Because there are tons more hot women in those cities. Especially LA. Just the odds.

evenstar3 said:

His answer to everything is, "they're in the minority, you're in the minority, minority, minority, minority!!!"

Spats said:

You can't tell yourself not to be in love any more than you can tell yourself to be in love with someone when you're not. You can only decide what your actions will be.

Anx said:

how come you are so smart mister!

if someone started a 'who loves nerdy men?' thread, i bet spats would be surprised.

(inspired by evenstar's post in the lust and love thread)

I had this housemate I knew in the biblical sense, and I knew he was moving away in the next month, so I said to myself I won't fall in love with him cause it's not really convenient. (He asked me to move with him, but I really didn't know him well enough.)

Anyway, on the last day I realised that I was so in denial, but I kept my feelings to myself and never told him. 12 years later I still dream about him. I cried my eyes out for about a day and then got back on my horse.

Did you ever manage it? How? Or is it really impossible?