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PrintableCarrieMpls said: AsianBomb777 said:  I still think of Byron everytime I see Frylock.  I think of Byron every time I think of fast food in general...or indigestion.  | |
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ZombieKitten said: retina said: I doubt it. If I did that, I would just be sweeping it under the rug. But who knows, maybe the new love crushed the old one. Or maybe you just have a really big rug.   or maybe I didn't really have very strong feelings for him in the first place? It all happened in a very short time.
so when you sweep it under the rug, do you mean that later on, when you are lonely, you think about that person and feel regret and longing? Yeah. Usually I just keep walking on the rug until one day - WOOOSH! - I step on the wrong spot and it all comes flying out from underneath. So I usually try to keep the floor under the rug clean instead. | |
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AsianBomb777 said: Anx said: yeah. i've been infatuated with people before, but i knew that the situation would be really uneven if i took the risk of letting myself indulge in those feelings any more than just enjoying a crush on someone i find dreamy. other times, when i've felt signals coming back at me, i run 'em over like a mack truck.
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I didn't have to. I never meet any women that i could ever see myself loving. | |
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Spats said: I didn't have to. I never meet any women that i could ever see myself loving.
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ZombieKitten said: retina said: I think some people can do it. They sort of stop themselves in the middle of the process and rein in their feelings somehow. I've never figured out how to do it though.
it really helps if you DON'T tell the other person how you feel about them. Like I know this guy told me when he looked at me he got butterflies and I was thinking "oh SHIT!!!!!" cause I felt the same, but he really wasn't right for me, so I told him I didn't feel the same way, which was a complete lie, but I think it helped. Booooo!!!!! Liar.  | |
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live4lust said: ZombieKitten said: it really helps if you DON'T tell the other person how you feel about them. Like I know this guy told me when he looked at me he got butterflies and I was thinking "oh SHIT!!!!!" cause I felt the same, but he really wasn't right for me, so I told him I didn't feel the same way, which was a complete lie, but I think it helped. Booooo!!!!! Liar.  boo yourself | |
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Spats said: I didn't have to. I never meet any women that i could ever see myself loving.
you're in your late twenties, right? i can't fathom living my whole life and never feeling that way about someone...what a bleak existence  | |
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ZombieKitten said: Did you ever manage it? How?
First of all, your story brought back memories of an Australian I met in Glasgow many years ago (if the girl who sang Crowded House songs with me on the way back to the youth hostel's out there, holla!). But anyhoo... I do it all the time. How? I don't believe in the concept.  | |
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evenstar3 said: Spats said: I didn't have to. I never meet any women that i could ever see myself loving.
you're in your late twenties, right? i can't fathom living my whole life and never feeling that way about someone...what a bleak existence It's not my fault. There is not much to choose from here. Toronto's quality of women is pretty bleak. | |
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evenstar3 said: Spats said: I didn't have to. I never meet any women that i could ever see myself loving.
you're in your late twenties, right? i can't fathom living my whole life and never feeling that way about someone...what a bleak existence That's because you're not a sociopath. | |
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Ace said: ZombieKitten said: Did you ever manage it? How?
First of all, your story brought back memories of an Australian I met in Glasgow many years ago (if the girl who sang Crowded House songs with me on the way back to the youth hostel's out there, holla!). But anyhoo... I do it all the time. How? I don't believe in the concept. the concept of  ?
maybe you never fell in love yet? To really do it you need to be pretty open to it and want it. If you don't want it, maybe you never let it happen? | |
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I'm more interested in how to fall out of love. | |
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ZombieKitten said: Ace said: First of all, your story brought back memories of an Australian I met in Glasgow many years ago (if the girl who sang Crowded House songs with me on the way back to the youth hostel's out there, holla!). But anyhoo... I do it all the time. How? I don't believe in the concept. the concept of ?
maybe you never fell in love yet? To really do it you need to be pretty open to it and want it. If you don't want it, maybe you never let it happen? but would you want it to happen if you didn't want it? oh my god, we sound like a celine dion/peter cetera duet.  | |
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JustErin said: evenstar3 said: you're in your late twenties, right? i can't fathom living my whole life and never feeling that way about someone...what a bleak existence That's because you're not a sociopath. Excuse me???  | |
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Spats said: evenstar3 said: you're in your late twenties, right? i can't fathom living my whole life and never feeling that way about someone...what a bleak existence It's not my fault. There is not much to choose from here. Toronto's quality of women is pretty bleak. oh jesus. would you just go to new york or l.a. or wherever already and just realize that people really aren't that different?  | |
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Spats said: JustErin said: That's because you're not a sociopath. Excuse me??? Excuse me? Was I talking to you? | |
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JustErin said: evenstar3 said: you're in your late twenties, right? i can't fathom living my whole life and never feeling that way about someone...what a bleak existence That's because you're not a sociopath.  true. | |
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ZombieKitten said: Ace said: First of all, your story brought back memories of an Australian I met in Glasgow many years ago (if the girl who sang Crowded House songs with me on the way back to the youth hostel's out there, holla!). But anyhoo... I do it all the time. How? I don't believe in the concept. the concept of ?
maybe you never fell in love yet? To really do it you need to be pretty open to it and want it. If you don't want it, maybe you never let it happen? I thought I was "in love" lots of times when I was younger. I don't believe in "romantic love" now that I'm older. It's a good campaign, though. Moves a lot of product. Lets people impose meaning on our meaningless existence...opiates the masses... The dudes who invented that and religion should get lifetime achievement Clios.  | |
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Anx said: ZombieKitten said: the concept of ?
maybe you never fell in love yet? To really do it you need to be pretty open to it and want it. If you don't want it, maybe you never let it happen? but would you want it to happen if you didn't want it? oh my god, we sound like a celine dion/peter cetera duet.
OK, I mean he has never let it happen because on some level he doesn't want it to. Which is kind of the answer to this whole question - HOW DO YOU DO THAT! | |
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JustErin said: Spats said: Excuse me??? Excuse me? Was I talking to you? You just said that someone who could go without loving someone for that long was a sociopath. | |
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Ace said: ZombieKitten said: the concept of ?
maybe you never fell in love yet? To really do it you need to be pretty open to it and want it. If you don't want it, maybe you never let it happen? I thought I was "in love" lots of times when I was younger. I don't believe in "romantic love" now that I'm older. It's a good campaign, though. Moves a lot of product. Lets people impose meaning on our meaningless existence...opiates the masses... The dudes who invented that and religion should get lifetime achievement Clios. i ssssorta agree with you (not that it matters, i know) - i believe in the practicalities of finding a lifetime partner, and if that person happens to be someone you have an affinity for and with whom you can engage in some interests and hopefully on some occasions have sex with, then you can call it 'love' or 'aunt mabel' for all i care. it's a good thing to have. but i know what you mean. fuck zales. | |
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Spats said: JustErin said: Excuse me? Was I talking to you? You just said that someone who could go without loving someone for that long was a sociopath. No, I didn't. I said she wasn't a sociopath. Now run along. | |
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evenstar3 said: Spats said: It's not my fault. There is not much to choose from here. Toronto's quality of women is pretty bleak. oh jesus. would you just go to new york or l.a. or wherever already and just realize that people really aren't that different? I can't afford to move there. And It's not easy for a Canadian to move to the states and work there, etc,. I am pretty much stuck here with the slim pickings. | |
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Spats said: evenstar3 said: oh jesus. would you just go to new york or l.a. or wherever already and just realize that people really aren't that different? I can't afford to move there. And It's not easy for a Canadian to move to the states and work there, etc,. I am pretty much stuck here with the slim pickings. at least they're slim and that's your type, isn't it? | |
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Ace said: ZombieKitten said: the concept of ?
maybe you never fell in love yet? To really do it you need to be pretty open to it and want it. If you don't want it, maybe you never let it happen? I thought I was "in love" lots of times when I was younger. I don't believe in "romantic love" now that I'm older. It's a good campaign, though. Moves a lot of product. Lets people impose meaning on our meaningless existence...opiates the masses... The dudes who invented that and religion should get lifetime achievement Clios. If you are in love, you know it. You don't look back on it and THINK you might have been in love. don't you think you are a bit cynical though in the business you're in? - you are selling the product all right
so "romantic love" is when you really like each other and want to be together forever? as opposed to I love my mother? I'm so confused!!! | |
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Anx said: Spats said: I can't afford to move there. And It's not easy for a Canadian to move to the states and work there, etc,. I am pretty much stuck here with the slim pickings. at least they're slim and that's your type, isn't it? 
and spats- just VISIT or something. duh. | |
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JustErin said: Spats said: You just said that someone who could go without loving someone for that long was a sociopath. No, I didn't. I said she wasn't a sociopath. Now run along. You were indirectly saying i was one. | |
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Anx said: Spats said: I can't afford to move there. And It's not easy for a Canadian to move to the states and work there, etc,. I am pretty much stuck here with the slim pickings. at least they're slim and that's your type, isn't it? Yes, but not slim and ugly. | |
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JustErin said: Spats said: Excuse me??? Excuse me? Was I talking to you? 
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