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how can you tell lust from love? serious question
I have always had trouble with these two I married someone I lusted after and grew to love him very much, but I think that was very lucky it turned out that way! | |
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i think lust dies eventually, it is someone u r smitten with
love is something else, on a different plain, on a level all on it's own [Edited 12/9/06 1:30am] | |
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I can't tell the difference most of the time. | |
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It 4:30 in the morning after having gotten back from the club, and the girl I'm seeing decides not to sleepover, I can't. | |
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AsianBomb777 said: It 4:30 in the morning after having gotten back from the club, and the girl I'm seeing decides not to sleepover, I can't.
can't what? | |
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missmad said: i think lust dies eventually, it is someone u r smitten with
love is something else, on a different plain, on a level all on it's own [Edited 12/9/06 1:30am] I don't know, it's been 12 years, the lust hasn't died off yet! | |
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love is a spiritual connection.
lust is not, in the end. simple as that. uh.... in my opinion. . [Edited 12/9/06 3:31am] | |
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ZombieKitten said: missmad said: i think lust dies eventually, it is someone u r smitten with
love is something else, on a different plain, on a level all on it's own [Edited 12/9/06 1:30am] I don't know, it's been 12 years, the lust hasn't died off yet! that because you love him, too. you can lust and love someone at the same time. at least that's what i think. | |
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mrdespues said: love is a spiritual connection.
lust is not, in the end. simple as that. uh.... in my opinion. . [Edited 12/9/06 3:31am] Oh I don't know about anything spiritual | |
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Love makes ur heart hurt
Lust doesnt | |
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Ex-Moderator | DanceWme said: Love makes ur heart hurt
Lust doesnt I don't know... I almost cried (well, I did tear up) looking at dresses I can't afford nor have anywhere to wear to yesterday. It makes my heart hurt to see such beautiful things and know I can't have them. I don't know if that's love or lust. Is it really lame to still want to be a princess when you grow up when you're 31? |
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DanceWme said: Love makes ur heart hurt
Lust doesnt Which one makes your stomach hurt then? You know, that awful empty draining pull when you think about someone...just cause you want them so badly? | |
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CarrieMpls said: DanceWme said: Love makes ur heart hurt
Lust doesnt I don't know... I almost cried (well, I did tear up) looking at dresses I can't afford nor have anywhere to wear to yesterday. It makes my heart hurt to see such beautiful things and know I can't have them. I don't know if that's love or lust. Is it really lame to still want to be a princess when you grow up when you're 31? | |
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susannah said: DanceWme said: Love makes ur heart hurt
Lust doesnt Which one makes your stomach hurt then? You know, that awful empty draining pull when you think about someone...just cause you want them so badly? U may have diarrhea | |
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CarrieMpls said: DanceWme said: Love makes ur heart hurt
Lust doesnt I don't know... I almost cried (well, I did tear up) looking at dresses I can't afford nor have anywhere to wear to yesterday. It makes my heart hurt to see such beautiful things and know I can't have them. I don't know if that's love or lust. Is it really lame to still want to be a princess when you grow up when you're 31? No! Carrie, you can be a Princess any time you like | |
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DanceWme said: susannah said: Which one makes your stomach hurt then? You know, that awful empty draining pull when you think about someone...just cause you want them so badly? U may have diarrhea | |
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susannah said: DanceWme said: U may have diarrhea Im sorry I know nuthin | |
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DanceWme said: susannah said: Im sorry I know nuthin Neither do I! I'm staying away from anything that hurts my head or my stomach in future. Unless his names Jack | |
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Ex-Moderator | susannah said: CarrieMpls said: I don't know... I almost cried (well, I did tear up) looking at dresses I can't afford nor have anywhere to wear to yesterday. It makes my heart hurt to see such beautiful things and know I can't have them. I don't know if that's love or lust. Is it really lame to still want to be a princess when you grow up when you're 31? No! Carrie, you can be a Princess any time you like I like you, you know. |
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CarrieMpls said: susannah said: No! Carrie, you can be a Princess any time you like I like you, you know. I like you too! Was your party last night or tonight? Time differences confuse me | |
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Ex-Moderator | susannah said: DanceWme said: Love makes ur heart hurt
Lust doesnt Which one makes your stomach hurt then? You know, that awful empty draining pull when you think about someone...just cause you want them so badly? awww... I have gotten physicaly ill and thrown up all night from crying so hard before over someone. And yes, I'm well aware of the awful stomach pangs. You physically hurt from the want. Yeah, I know. |
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Ex-Moderator | susannah said: CarrieMpls said: I like you, you know. I like you too! Was your party last night or tonight? Time differences confuse me It's tonight! And I think I finally have my outfit together! yay! |
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CarrieMpls said: susannah said: I like you too! Was your party last night or tonight? Time differences confuse me It's tonight! And I think I finally have my outfit together! yay! what does your outfit look like? description please! | |
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ZombieKitten said: missmad said: i think lust dies eventually, it is someone u r smitten with
love is something else, on a different plain, on a level all on it's own [Edited 12/9/06 1:30am] I don't know, it's been 12 years, the lust hasn't died off yet! You're very lucky. That kind of love is extremely rare! | |
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CarrieMpls said: susannah said: Which one makes your stomach hurt then? You know, that awful empty draining pull when you think about someone...just cause you want them so badly? awww... I have gotten physicaly ill and thrown up all night from crying so hard before over someone. And yes, I'm well aware of the awful stomach pangs. You physically hurt from the want. Yeah, I know. I havent been sick from crying, but I've stopped eating for days because of endless butterflies (although that part was actually fun), and yeah, those pangs. Man, theyre bad! Like I said, no more stomach, mind or tear duct affecters please! I want an easy life from now on! | |
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CarrieMpls said: susannah said: I like you too! Was your party last night or tonight? Time differences confuse me It's tonight! And I think I finally have my outfit together! yay! Yay! I hope you have a great time! Take plenty pics! | |
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To me Love is blinding you can look over faults and bad habits when you are in love. Lust is highly intoxicating for me but as soon as there is a let down I am out. Don't take life too seriously, noone gets out alive. | |
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Ex-Moderator | JasmineFire said: CarrieMpls said: It's tonight! And I think I finally have my outfit together! yay! what does your outfit look like? description please! ok, I first went all over trying to find another mrs santa dress, but to no avail. I even looked for either a red or black velvet dress to trim up myself and make festive but that didn't work either. So instead, I'm going for a winter theme. I have this skirt (for some reason I can't get the image to work, but you can see it here: http://www.target.com/gp/...B000IEXDAW and the picture doesn't quite do it justice. It's all silvery-shiny fun. Then I'm wearing a basic black top, long sleeves, tshirt-necked and I'm making a big chunky necklace out of Xmas decoration stuff I found. There's this 'garland' of silver and frosted silver balls and little clear beads and I'm tying this silver glittery snowflake ornament in the middle for a big charm. It's gonna be a little obnoxious but oh so campy and fun. All with black tights and black boots to my knees with silver buckles on them. |
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CarrieMpls said: ok, I first went all over trying to find another mrs santa dress, but to no avail. I guess there's always next year. | |
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CarrieMpls said: JasmineFire said: what does your outfit look like? description please! ok, I first went all over trying to find another mrs santa dress, but to no avail. I even looked for either a red or black velvet dress to trim up myself and make festive but that didn't work either. So instead, I'm going for a winter theme. I have this skirt (for some reason I can't get the image to work, but you can see it here: http://www.target.com/gp/...B000IEXDAW and the picture doesn't quite do it justice. It's all silvery-shiny fun. Then I'm wearing a basic black top, long sleeves, tshirt-necked and I'm making a big chunky necklace out of Xmas decoration stuff I found. There's this 'garland' of silver and frosted silver balls and little clear beads and I'm tying this silver glittery snowflake ornament in the middle for a big charm. It's gonna be a little obnoxious but oh so campy and fun. All with black tights and black boots to my knees with silver buckles on them. i'm in love with your outfit! i'm about to do some online shopping of my own... | |
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