applekisses said:

and those of us who like pretty can't always agree on what pretty is, thank god!

Spats said:

Although you are clearly a parody with intention.... what you just wrote is as much crap as not. Some require that true, I for one do not.... that in and of itself keeps me single.. I just want someone to move me... and that on a far different level. Looks are fleeting at best and more often then not deceptive... I am far more attracted to the offbeat..... or in the greater world opinion "the off beat" which in my view is the on-track.
Ill never fit into the ideal ( so to speak) and I really don't give a shit..... I am generally very satisfied with me...I am just seeking the one who doesn't need me to be some sort of ideal to pacify his own ego or lack there of....
Most on point:
To take note is natural... to ogle and loose your senses is

Muse2NOPharaoh said:

What do you mean by "A parody with intention"??

I don't think looks are fleeting. People who are good looking, are usually that way until they are middle aged. That is still quite a long time. Ideally i would like to meet a woman that moves me but i don't think it's possible for a woman to move me. It hasn't happened yet.

Spats said:

what was her tits like?

evenstar3 said:

True some guys are attracted to plain janes for whatever reason and some people are attracted to homely people. But i could never go there.

Spats said:

noooo what i was trying to get across is that (for example) my friend and i can look at the same guy and she'll think he's hot while i'd never consider him to be such. it doesn't make him not attractive to her, only to me.

oldpurple said:

She was wearing a sweater and coat so i couldn't tell. Even if she had great boobies, her big nose would distract me from that. I love boobies but the face has to be pretty first. I have seen women who had killer boobies but their face ruined everything. It was such a waste of a good set of boobies.

evenstar3 said:

Another thing to go along with that is, I can find a guy very hot and good looking and just not be attracted to them. Attraction really is so much more than physical appearance. I'll just consider them nice to look at, but not someone I would actually want to be with and me not being attracted to them does not make them any less good looking to me.

Perhaps some people have a hard time seperating physical beauty and attraction but I don't.

Spats said:

Dude, you need to post a picture of yourself. Everyone wants to see what "I only dateb pretty girls" looks like.

BTW, are you stringing someone else along for a New Year's Eve date?

evenstar3 said:

Another thing to go along with that is, I can find a guy very hot and good looking and just not be attracted to them. Attraction really is so much more than physical appearance. I'll just consider them nice to look at, but not someone I would actually want to be with and me not being attracted to them does not make them any less good looking to me.

Perhaps some people have a hard time seperating physical beauty and attraction but I don't.

1sexymf said:

Can i post a pic of when i was a kid? What's wrong with only dating pretty girls??

Stringing someone else along??? Anyways, Thanks for reminding me. I had forgotten that it's almost a year since the plain jane coffee shop girl asked me out for New Years and i rejected her. I didn't enjoy going in there anymore after that because she barely said two words to me anymore. Some women don't take rejection very well.

Spats said:

I didn't say anything was wrond with dating pretty girls
And no kiddie pictures - recent ones only.
And the girl from the coffee shop has a right to be offended. You didn't outright reject her. You told her you "Might" go to a party with her when you knew you had no intention of going. You should have just told her no when she asked.

1sexymf said:

Wow, you have a good memory. Yeah, but she didn't know that i had no intention in ever going. And the fact that a bunch of people here were encouraging me to go for whatever reason made me think about it for a short time.

If i post a recent photo then my privacy is gone for good.

Some women don't take rejection very well.

Spats said:

Nor do some men, it seems. Doesn't feel good, does it?

People scrutinize one another, be the scrutinizing sexual, competitive, curious or appreciative, and it is a base human reaction to have one's eye drawn towards that which one finds aesthetically pleasing. Unfortunately, some of us haven't quite yet figured out how respect and propriety play into the equation.

What I personally find to be truly attractive in terms of the physical can be described by the Japanese term Wabi Sabi. The 'imperfect' is what, for me, gives depth and beauty and therefore draws my interest. Generally speaking, 'perfection' in physical appearance fails to move me in any deeper sense beyond merely a superficial appreciation of the craftmanship.

TMPletz said:

The babe rejected me but she called back and I rejected her in return so it sorta erases me getting rejected.

TMPletz said:

The babe rejected me but she called back and I rejected her in return so it sorta erases me getting rejected.

Spats said:

No it doesn't. You lashed out at her for getting rejected by rejecting her yourself. That doesn't erase anything. On the contrary, it just escalates the issue.

TMPletz said:

Exactly. I can not for the life of me understand how anyone could not see this.

1sexymf said:

Wow, you have a good memory. Yeah, but she didn't know that i had no intention in ever going. And the fact that a bunch of people here were encouraging me to go for whatever reason made me think about it for a short time.

If i post a recent photo then my privacy is gone for good.

Scarlett Johanssen --great body, face , lips. But when she speaks it all goes down hill.

Has anyone else realized that the people you're physically attracted to tend to have some of the same traits, even though that's not what you're consciously looking for? For example, in my mind I think I have a thing for eyes, but I seem to always think guys with fuller lips are hot for some reason. Weird!

Has anyone else realized that the people you're physically attracted to tend to have some of the same traits, even though that's not what you're consciously looking for? For example, in my mind I think I have a thing for eyes, but I seem to always think guys with fuller lips are hot for some reason. Weird!

evenstar3 said:

Yeah, I have. It's weird. I didn't notice though until a friend pointed it out to me when we were talking about ppl we'd be attracted to.