LleeLlee said:

huh?

Anx said:

haha! good one!

my dad always called me sopprot

ZombieKitten said:

whats that?

ZombieKitten said:

That's cute.

retina said:

My mom told me she loved me and that she would be back to get me so that I could come live with her in L.A. after she and my dad divorced.....

I was 5 years old, in the first grade....

...that was the last time I ever saw or heard from her.....not because she was dead (which I thought she was for about 20 years), but because life in L.A. was a bit more exciting than life in New Orleans.....

this thread reminds me how lucky i am. i can't think of anything. i'm sure they said little things that may have jabbed at the time, but nothing that stung enough to remember. my parents are extremely loving and supportive of all 3 kids and never played favorites. my family is very much in the minority in that we're really functional, get along, and all like each other.

madartista said:

great, makes me feel much better

SammiJ said:

SammiJ

Wishing you every happiness.

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Andrew, I'm so disappointed with you.

Anx said:

My dad told me I was useless once...but, then there were times he told me he was so proud of me.
My dad was Hungarian and had an awful, explosive temper...a raging bull...but, once he got it out he was sweet, gentle dad again. It was wrong of him to say what he did, but I've made peace.

IrresistibleB1tch said:

Good point IB

My dad said a lot of bad shit to me- like calling me stupid on a daily basis. He also did not show up to give me away when I got married but I learned at that point that I would not allow him to hurt me anymore. His problems were not with me- they were things that were going on within himself. So- I learned to let it go and decided if I ever had children that I would learn from my parents mistakes and short comings intstead of holding a grudge.

langebleu said:

thank you very much

I don't know the worst, but this comes to mind:

My mom tried to see if I could read the Silmarillion when I was 8 years old, saying "your brother read this when he was your age" (though in recent years I have learned my brother claimed to read much more than he actually did).

The book literally looked like a foreign language to me, and for a good 15 years I felt mentally inferior to my brother, even avoiding reading unless absolutely necessary.

Obviously she didn't mean anything, but it was definitely damaging.

I remember my parents telling me that I was a mistake.
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gemini13 said:

yes, that too

we always thought you'd get HIV just not this soon

my father: I will never 4get he said


" you're not my daughter anymore"

SammiJ said:

and that one back in the day and now

NAnomaly said:

awwwww

hmm...i think it was more what she DID 2 me rather than what she said 2 me, but she did really fuk me up in the head 4 a while when she called me a "n*gger" and basically told me i was never going 2 amount 2 anything because of it...in the back of my mind though, im like, "i wouldnt have come out 2 be a niglet if U hadnt slept with 1"...my mom really makes no sense sometimes

nothing, saying and doing not one god damn thing

I grew up a stutterer and my mom once imitated me when she got mad. I've never forgiven her for it. I expected that from the assholes at school but not from my mother.

My Dad has told me that I would never make it. While it didn't cut like a knife, it stung a bit. He didn't even have faith in me enough to make it... though I was a Daddy's girl. Though we haven't talked in years, I love him and wish him well, and one day I hope to miss him.

Let's see my step father called me a bitch, my step mother said I was evil like my mother, my father never said anything and my mom said if abortion had been legal in the 70's then I wouldn't had been born.....Which is why I made it a goal to tell my own children how wonderful,caring and that I have been truly blessed by them being in my life.

Well both my parents love me but once my mom was angry with me nad told me "you and your Prince please stop thinking of him all day and think something more serious"I was soooo angry

Shanti1 said: