my dad once told me he never should of had 5 kids...not so bad considering i was the "5 kid".....

My mom tells me on a regular basis that she loves me but she doesn't like me.

Oh, and that I'm chunky.

"get a job"

luv4all7 said:

my Dad doesn't say it, but I know that's how he feels... for you hon

"visual arts? you'll never amount to anything."
"if i can help it, i won't be at your wedding."

Nothing said, only what was done.

My mom said if it wasnt for my younger brother she would've up and left a long time ago without me and my oldest brother

She was upset when she said that and I dont think she meant it but

Well this is a cheery little thread!

luv4all7 said:

When I found out why my parents were divorcing my freshman year of high school and knew why (dad cheated) and I asked him why. His response.
"I can bullshit you all I want son, but i just love the pussy and your moms not giving me enough!"

SammiJ said:

oh wow

Natisse said:

Mom's rule.



... thanks

they both basically admitted to me once that they're convinced if they hadn't sent me to a private high school i would've ended up on drugs/pregnant/etc. that was a fun one.
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SammiJ said:

unfortunately because they ARE our Mum's they have the power to cut like a knife ...just remember she did bring you into the world sweetie and that you really would miss her if she was gone - trust me on that, really

Natisse said:

i know, and i love her to death... but she won't be there to give me away at my own wedding... out of 6 kids, only one is actually married, i'll be the 2nd, and the last...

and i thought i was going to make something for myself in school
it took a total of 9 major awards and a scholarship to make her see the same..

This shit is depressing

SammiJ said:

"making something of yourself" is all relative, hon ...for example, to me you HAVE made something of yourself I think you're an amazing young woman with a beautiful, bright future ahead of her (and no, I'm not just being nice ) if making something of yourself means wealth and career? ask yourself what your innermost priorities are... I'm willing to bet your happiness in the future will come from within and flow outwards like it is now

Natisse said:

thanks tisse

SammiJ said:

you're welcome hon I'm only speaking the truth

Natisse said:

and check your MySpace!! I looked at your profile today I'm sorry hon...

That if I kept doing "that", I would go blind.


Needless to say, I'm reading all these posts by running my fingers across the screen.
It's also why I try to stay away from the P&R forum.
All that political ranting & bible-quoting,
my computer can't handle that much braille.

Well, let’s see… that would have to be when mother dear told me she wasn’t my mother (insinuating that she was actually my stepmother) and to pack all of my shit, be out of her house by the time she gets out of the shower and she didn’t want to see any trace indicating that I was ever there and for dear ol’dad it has to be when he told me he believed the lie his mother told him (yes he knew it was a lie) and that I had to get the fuck out of his house.

SammiJ said:

They can be stubborn sometimes.. My Grandparents didnt approve of my Mum getting married to my Dad, but they have been married 38 years and proved her parents wrong, so I know Sammi, it may hurt at present, but if you truly believe and know you will are doing the right thing, and he is the man for you, your parents will come around in time

I had just dropped 20 pounds and my mom and i were talking. She told me I wouldn't make it in my field because I was too heavy. But you know, I guess I've gotten too old to give a shit when she trips. It's the whole control your reaction because you can't control the bullshit that comes out of her mouth.

But when I dropped that 50 pounds, she didn't have shit to say. It is what it is, no need to be pissed. You'll find that as you get older, you don't give a shit...that's to the young folk on the GD thread.

I've quite well in my field, by the way

Who are you?

CarrieMpls said:

same here.

my mother once unthinkingly called me an S.O.B. once. and i got in really big trouble when i agreed with her.

Anx said: