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Thread started 10/18/02 12:06pm

AbucahX

STARING AT A WOMAN WHEN SHE'S BREAST FEEDING IN PUBLIC...IS THIS A NORMAL INSTINCT FOR A MAN?

First of all let me state this: I am not a horny or perverted type of guy.

Last week, I was standing near a bench at the park watching kids play baseball. My friend nudged me on my arms and motioned me to look at a woman sitting on the bench. At my surprise, I saw a woman holding a baby with her breast out breast feeding this baby. I caught myself staring at this woman breast and I couldn't look away. The woman caught me staring at her and I immediately told her "I'm sorry" and she smiled and said "that's okay". I felt like a pervert or something when I drove back home. I've seen plenty of breasts in my life so this is not like it was my first time seeing breasts. It felt like a instinct for me to look at the woman breasts. Was I at fault for looking at the woman? Or was she at fault for breast feeding in public? Have anyone here ever been in that situation?
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Reply #1 posted 10/18/02 12:08pm

CarrieLee

Men love boobies whether someone is breast feeding or flashing. Either way they are going to stare. You're normal!

Errr...straight men I meant!
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Reply #2 posted 10/18/02 12:10pm

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AbucahX said:

First of all let me state this: I am not a horny or perverted type of guy.

Last week, I was standing near a bench at the park watching kids play baseball. My friend nudged me on my arms and motioned me to look at a woman sitting on the bench. At my surprise, I saw a woman holding a baby with her breast out breast feeding this baby. I caught myself staring at this woman breast and I couldn't look away. The woman caught me staring at her and I immediately told her "I'm sorry" and she smiled and said "that's okay". I felt like a pervert or something when I drove back home. I've seen plenty of breasts in my life so this is not like it was my first time seeing breasts. It felt like a instinct for me to look at the woman breasts. Was I at fault for looking at the woman? Or was she at fault for breast feeding in public? Have anyone here ever been in that situation?


I dont think you were at fault. Nor do i think that she was wrong for breast feeding in public. Breastfeeding is truly a beautiful thing, and she should be able to feed her baby when and where she needs to. I think its perfectly normal for you to want to watch that. It's beautiful. It doesnt sound like it turned you on, so I dont think its wrong.
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Reply #3 posted 10/18/02 12:10pm

mrchristian

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I am horny and a pervert, and it's still ok to look at a woman while she's breast feeding.
I wouldn't stare at her, but a quick pic for the photo album...no harm in that. wink
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Reply #4 posted 10/18/02 12:11pm

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CarrieLee said:

Men love boobies whether someone is breast feeding or flashing. Either way they are going to stare. You're normal!

Errr...straight men I meant!



Dunno about that, I've always wanted a little taste! redface biggrin
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Reply #5 posted 10/18/02 12:12pm

CarrieLee

Xenon are you sure you're gay? eek
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Reply #6 posted 10/18/02 12:12pm

Pochacco

Breast feeding it a perfectly normal thing,although the couple of times that I have witnessed it I found it quite shocking for some reason???

I guess if you are into boobies then you couldnt help but stare.

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Reply #7 posted 10/18/02 12:12pm

CarrieLee

Don't you just love the word "boobies"?? I can't get enough of it!

Boobies boobies boobies boobies boobies!!!
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Reply #8 posted 10/18/02 12:14pm

Pochacco

xenon said:

CarrieLee said:

Men love boobies whether someone is breast feeding or flashing. Either way they are going to stare. You're normal!

Errr...straight men I meant!



Dunno about that, I've always wanted a little taste! redface biggrin


I have to admit that Ive often wondered what boobie milk tastes like

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Reply #9 posted 10/18/02 12:14pm

AbucahX

violett said:

AbucahX said:

First of all let me state this: I am not a horny or perverted type of guy.

Last week, I was standing near a bench at the park watching kids play baseball. My friend nudged me on my arms and motioned me to look at a woman sitting on the bench. At my surprise, I saw a woman holding a baby with her breast out breast feeding this baby. I caught myself staring at this woman breast and I couldn't look away. The woman caught me staring at her and I immediately told her "I'm sorry" and she smiled and said "that's okay". I felt like a pervert or something when I drove back home. I've seen plenty of breasts in my life so this is not like it was my first time seeing breasts. It felt like a instinct for me to look at the woman breasts. Was I at fault for looking at the woman? Or was she at fault for breast feeding in public? Have anyone here ever been in that situation?


I dont think you were at fault. Nor do i think that she was wrong for breast feeding in public. Breastfeeding is truly a beautiful thing, and she should be able to feed her baby when and where she needs to. I think its perfectly normal for you to want to watch that. It's beautiful. It doesnt sound like it turned you on, so I dont think its wrong.
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You are absolutely right Violett. I wasn't turned on when i saw that, and it was a beautiful thing! I just felt that I needed to see that or something.
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Reply #10 posted 10/18/02 12:14pm

Pochacco

CarrieLee said:

Don't you just love the word "boobies"?? I can't get enough of it!

Boobies boobies boobies boobies boobies!!!



Carry you make me laugh so much , thank you

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Reply #11 posted 10/18/02 12:28pm

sag10

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You were quite curteous to her! Thanks for that..

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Reply #12 posted 10/18/02 12:29pm

CarrieLee

Wooo hooo! Now can we get a boobie emoticon? PLEASE???
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Reply #13 posted 10/18/02 12:31pm

shausler

i wanna vagina icon
that b what im starin at in public
or is that in pubic?

truth b told

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Reply #14 posted 10/18/02 12:57pm

applekisses

CarrieLee said:

Wooo hooo! Now can we get a boobie emoticon? PLEASE???



lol Carrie, you crack me up, girl! smile I found one once...let me see if I can find it again...
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Reply #15 posted 10/18/02 1:00pm

applekisses



Here ya go... lol
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Reply #16 posted 10/18/02 1:06pm

CarrieLee

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Here ya go... lol




You are my hero!!! Note my new signature in 1.5 seconds...
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Reply #17 posted 10/18/02 1:07pm

sag10

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applekisses said:



Here ya go... lol



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Reply #18 posted 10/18/02 1:17pm

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xenon said:

CarrieLee said:

Men love boobies whether someone is breast feeding or flashing. Either way they are going to stare. You're normal!

Errr...straight men I meant!



Dunno about that, I've always wanted a little taste! redface biggrin


I had a boyfreind once who reallly wanted to taste my milk.
Although that would have required pregnancy... so unfortunatelty for him, he never got it. Too bad too, I have always wondered how that would feel.. eek
I cant believe I just admitted that to the world. eek
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Reply #19 posted 10/18/02 1:18pm

CarrieLee

lol Vi!!!

When my friend was pregnant she could shoot her milk across the room. Her and her boyfriend would role play and she would nurse him... eek


hahahahahahahahaaa my friends are nuts!
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Reply #20 posted 10/18/02 1:28pm

LaVisHh

violett said:

I had a boyfreind once who reallly wanted to taste my milk.
Although that would have required pregnancy... so unfortunatelty for him, he never got it. Too bad too, I have always wondered how that would feel.. eek
I cant believe I just admitted that to the world. eek


I have breastfed~! And it is an incredible experience. There are a lot of sensations (as the milk fills, and also as it drains) like tingles, and also warmth. Nothing like it.

Breastmilk tastes like human milk, LOL... it's sweet, and rich. Sort of reminds me of rice milk, but not as sweet - does that make sense? neutral

Anyways - to add a reply to AbucahX, the reaction the lady who was breastfeeding in the park gave you, was her way of "telling" you, it was ok to share in the wonder of breastfeeding with her by looking. biggrin
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Reply #21 posted 10/18/02 1:28pm

sag10

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CarrieLee said:

lol Vi!!!

When my friend was pregnant she could shoot her milk across the room. Her and her boyfriend would role play and she would nurse him... eek


hahahahahahahahaaa my friends are nuts!



I can't stop laughing at your signature!
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Reply #22 posted 10/18/02 1:32pm

CarrieLee

Isn't it so boobilicious? Thanks to Applekisses for my new sig!!! headbang
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Reply #23 posted 10/18/02 1:54pm

xenon

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CarrieLee said:


When my friend was pregnant she could shoot her milk across the room.




My sister used to do that, much to her boffs embarrassment.










Sag edit your post! evil
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Reply #24 posted 10/18/02 2:10pm

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AbucahX said:

. I felt like a pervert or something when I drove back home. I've seen plenty of breasts in my life so this is not like it was my first time seeing breasts.


LOL!! Sure but how often have you seen them in the park with a kid attached? I nursed two kids and I was able to do it in public without drawing attention to what I was doing. Some women are less inhibited. It's all cool and you aren't a pervert.
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Reply #25 posted 10/18/02 2:13pm

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xenon said:

CarrieLee said:


When my friend was pregnant she could shoot her milk across the room.




My sister used to do that, much to her boffs embarrassment.










Sag edit your post! evil



erm, ok!
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Reply #26 posted 10/18/02 2:54pm

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much like them eating a bananna, or sucking on a popcicle
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Reply #27 posted 10/18/02 6:19pm

Heavenly

for some reason I think it's pretty sexy.
it shows the warmth of motherhood.
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Reply #28 posted 10/18/02 9:22pm

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shocked ( o Y o ) omfg
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Reply #29 posted 10/18/02 11:39pm

Natasha

Don't you think BreastFeeding is a Sacred Bonding experience between Mother and Infant? For some Pervert Adult to wanna suck his wife's or girlfriend's Breasts is absolutely Retarded. He needs a Psychiatrist cause he has a Mommy Complex. Give me a Fucking Break!
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