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PrintableIstenSzek said: brownsugar said: yeah i was looking for sense of humour to-gotta make me laugh dude. and how can your forget hands? ive actually changed my mind about guys because they had bitten their nails down to the nub gross!!  and what about guys with girly fingernails. you know. some guys have these really long fingernails. their just a hair´s length from women´s clip ons! i call those vampyre hands. they make me shudder. I don't know. I don't come across too many guys that have that.  "I saw a woman with major Hammer pants on the subway a few weeks ago and totally thought of you." - sextonseven | |
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CarrieMpls said: IstenSzek said: 01. personality
02. intelligence 03. looks 04. confidence 05. weight-body type  We have the same list!  omg yes!  and true love lives on lollipops and crisps | |
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FruitToAttractBears said: minneapolisgenius said: Yeah, that is gross.  Not as gross as the guys with CLAWS. You know what I mean. I was on a bus once and there was this dude with nails pushin' an inch long. And was sitting there manicuring them on the bus while I was trying not to oh shit yes, that´s what i was talking about! on guys long fingernails just look like your too damn lazy to cut them fuckers once in a while. and there they are, tending to their nails as if those lobsterclamps are something to be so so proud of..  and true love lives on lollipops and crisps | |
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IstenSzek said: FruitToAttractBears said: Not as gross as the guys with CLAWS. You know what I mean. I was on a bus once and there was this dude with nails pushin' an inch long. And was sitting there manicuring them on the bus while I was trying not to oh shit yes, that´s what i was talking about! on guys long fingernails just look like your too damn lazy to cut them fuckers once in a while. and there they are, tending to their nails as if those lobsterclamps are something to be so so proud of.. Long toenails are worse though.
Isten, your posts already read like song lyrics.  "I saw a woman with major Hammer pants on the subway a few weeks ago and totally thought of you." - sextonseven | |
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IstenSzek said: FruitToAttractBears said: Not as gross as the guys with CLAWS. You know what I mean. I was on a bus once and there was this dude with nails pushin' an inch long. And was sitting there manicuring them on the bus while I was trying not to oh shit yes, that´s what i was talking about! on guys long fingernails just look like your too damn lazy to cut them fuckers once in a while. and there they are, tending to their nails as if those lobsterclamps are something to be so so proud of.. And THEN theres those guys who are so lazy they let their nails grow out so long a few break off and they don't trim the other ones so there's only one or two long scraggly nails on one hand while the rest look normal.  " | |
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IstenSzek said: FruitToAttractBears said: Not as gross as the guys with CLAWS. You know what I mean. I was on a bus once and there was this dude with nails pushin' an inch long. And was sitting there manicuring them on the bus while I was trying not to oh shit yes, that´s what i was talking about! on guys long fingernails just look like your too damn lazy to cut them fuckers once in a while. and there they are, tending to their nails as if those lobsterclamps are something to be so so proud of.. no i dont like that shit either | |
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Looks--can't help it, it's what I notice first, including Weight/Body type. But the rest are so important, looks alone are not enough.
Personality--probably more important than looks in the end, but I can only get to know someone after I've already looked a them. Personality compatability is probably the biggest determining factor in whether or not there is any relationship at all, however. Intelligence--pretty important factor, but I can get along with smart people too  --
Confidence--somewhat important, but never a deal breaker [Edited 11/28/06 14:24pm] My Legacy
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Oh god--please don't yell at me
Looks Personality Intelligence Weight/Body type Confidence The items on the list go up and down except looks stays the same, and Confidence always stays on the bottom | |
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AsianBomb777 said: Oh god--please don't yell at me
Looks Personality Intelligence Weight/Body type Confidence The items on the list go up and down except looks stays the same, and Confidence always stays on the bottom how could confidence be last on your list? you want a wimp? | |
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brownsugar said: AsianBomb777 said: Oh god--please don't yell at me
Looks Personality Intelligence Weight/Body type Confidence The items on the list go up and down except looks stays the same, and Confidence always stays on the bottom how could confidence be last on your list? you want a wimp? Well, it's not a concious choice of mine. I mean, I don't look for someone to date with a clear agenda in mind. It just sort of happens. And the overwhelming pattern in my life is that persons I date always have low self-esteem. Maybe only those with the absolutely lowest self-esteem would ever consider dating me.  | |
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Spookymuffin said: intelligence
personality looks confidence weight/body type Co-sign. Although since the top two are both absolutely necessary, it doesn't really matter which of them comes first. | |
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retina said: Spookymuffin said: intelligence
personality looks confidence weight/body type Co-sign. Although since the top two are both absolutely necessary, it doesn't really matter which of them comes first. I posses the top two you know. Just sayin' | |
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retina said: Spookymuffin said: intelligence
personality looks confidence weight/body type Co-sign. Although since the top two are both absolutely necessary, it doesn't really matter which of them comes first. I'm the same. But one of my therapists once told me I probably have a hard time finding men to date cause so few are as smart as me.  She said it exactly that way, too, so it's not me being arrogant, I swear. But even in the retelling I worry that I am arrogant about it and so I never want to put that first over anything.
Incidentally, I thought that was a weird thing to say in therapy.  |
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CarrieMpls said: retina said: Co-sign. Although since the top two are both absolutely necessary, it doesn't really matter which of them comes first. I'm the same. But one of my therapists once told me I probably have a hard time finding men to date cause so few are as smart as me. She said it exactly that way, too, so it's not me being arrogant, I swear. But even in the retelling I worry that I am arrogant about it and so I never want to put that first over anything.
Incidentally, I thought that was a weird thing to say in therapy. She was buttering you up for a hot lesbian hookup and you werent' smart enough to see it. | |
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AsianBomb777 said: CarrieMpls said: I'm the same. But one of my therapists once told me I probably have a hard time finding men to date cause so few are as smart as me. She said it exactly that way, too, so it's not me being arrogant, I swear. But even in the retelling I worry that I am arrogant about it and so I never want to put that first over anything.
Incidentally, I thought that was a weird thing to say in therapy. She was buttering you up for a hot lesbian hookup and you werent' smart enough to see it. 
omg, that is so, so wrong! |
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CarrieMpls said: AsianBomb777 said: She was buttering you up for a hot lesbian hookup and you werent' smart enough to see it.
omg, that is so, so wrong! 
I kid , I kid! Well, is she a lesbian though?  | |
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AsianBomb777 said: CarrieMpls said: I'm the same. But one of my therapists once told me I probably have a hard time finding men to date cause so few are as smart as me. She said it exactly that way, too, so it's not me being arrogant, I swear. But even in the retelling I worry that I am arrogant about it and so I never want to put that first over anything.
Incidentally, I thought that was a weird thing to say in therapy. She was buttering you up for a hot lesbian hookup and you werent' smart enough to see it.  | |
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I can't make a list
it is a unique combination of these attributes, and circumstance that does it. | |
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AsianBomb777 said: retina said: Co-sign. Although since the top two are both absolutely necessary, it doesn't really matter which of them comes first. I posses the top two you know. True, but unfortunately you don't have these top two: 
They're on my list as well you know.  | |
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heyduckie said: when u meet someone and consider a possible relationship.
#1 being most important. Personality Looks Confidence Weight/Body type Intelligence Intelligence -- love a smart woman. NOTHING is sexier than a woman who strong opinions who is cultured, well-read and a total geek. Confidence -- I love a woman who can walk through the world with the same strut that Divine used in the street scene in "Pink Flamingos" Personality -- Humor? Wit? Yessss... Looks -- She has to have good teeth, good hygiene, and be a non-chain smoker. Weight/Body type -- Don't care. I've dated skinny women and BBWs. Love 'em both. | |
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retina said: AsianBomb777 said: I posses the top two you know. True, but unfortunately you don't have these top two:
They're on my list as well you know. !!!!!
get your webcam hooked up mister  | |
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looks
intelligence personality confidence body type/weight A face is what initially draws me to a person, intelligence and personality are what keep me around. Confidence is very sexy to me, and weight is usually never much of an issue unless it's extreme either way. | |
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CarrieMpls said: retina said: Co-sign. Although since the top two are both absolutely necessary, it doesn't really matter which of them comes first. I'm the same. But one of my therapists once told me I probably have a hard time finding men to date cause so few are as smart as me. She said it exactly that way, too, so it's not me being arrogant, I swear. But even in the retelling I worry that I am arrogant about it and so I never want to put that first over anything.
Incidentally, I thought that was a weird thing to say in therapy. Yeah, I guess in her eager attempt to boost your self-confidence with a well-deserved compliment she didn't realize that she almost killed your hopes and dreams of finding a man.
Anyway, it does indeed sound arrogant just to tell this story, even though I know you're not. I remember when Llee posted a thread asking people if they thought they were smart and only the smart people said no. Well duh! 
It's really too bad it has to be like that, but there are some things people will always be sensitive about. | |
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ZombieKitten said: retina said: True, but unfortunately you don't have these top two:
They're on my list as well you know. !!!!!
get your webcam hooked up mister Why? I don't have any boobs to show! | |
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retina said: ZombieKitten said: !!!!!
get your webcam hooked up mister Why? I don't have any boobs to show! I know that!  | |
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Liar, liar, pants on fire. | |
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heyduckie said: when u meet someone and consider a possible relationship.
#1 being most important. Personality Looks Confidence Weight/Body type Intelligence 1. Weight/Body type; Personality (tie) 2. Intelligence 3. Looks 4. Confidence 5. Their definition of "relationship" is booty calls at my place. | |
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Aren't weight/body type and looks the same thing? | |
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Ace said: heyduckie said: when u meet someone and consider a possible relationship.
#1 being most important. Personality Looks Confidence Weight/Body type Intelligence 1. Weight/Body type; Personality (tie) 2. Intelligence 3. Looks 4. Confidence 5. Their definition of "relationship" is booty calls at my place. U have a deft tucci in matters of the heart. | |
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luv4all7 said: Aren't weight/body type and looks the same thing?
I guess it depends on how you categorize them. Skinny doesn't mean beautiful and fat doesn't mean ugly. So, they are different. | |
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