Spats said:

Who cares! You are positively setting yourself up for misery and I can't say you don't deserve it.

I, meanwhile, am ridiculously happy.

evenstar3 said:

evenstar3 said:

And it's on your terms.

How am i setting myself up for misery?

Spats said:

Because you don't have the balls to tell her what you really feel/think/etc.

Spookymuffin said:

I'm happy today because I got my grade for a paper in International Law and I got 8,5 (out of 10) which is the highest mark I've ever gotten at the uni!
As always, I would be even happier if my love life
(or rather lack of) didn't consistently SUCK, but that's a whole 'nother story....

evenstar3 said:

So i should just come out and tell i want to have sacktime with her??? Come on, I can't do that.

Spats said:

You just want her for sex, nothing else at all?

purplehippieonthe1 said:

Congrats on your paper! I read this earlier and got all nervous because I had yet to find out how I'd done on an english paper of mine, but turns out I did really well too

evenstar3 said:

I thought that is what we were talking about. No, i like her and i like hanging out with her. Is that what you are talking about?

Spats said:

well then TELL her that. end of story. you don't have to hang all over her and be super sappy (not every girl likes that), just tell her what you honestly think.

gonna re-highjack the thread for a second:

I just found this pic on my comp. And it made me happy when I saw it.




ok carry on guys....

FruitToAttractBears said:

Awww, that's really cute

random picture that makes me laugh every time i see it:

evenstar3 said:

evenstar3 said:

Should i still wait for her to call me? I would prefer to do that. I guess i could try and say that stuff. I am not used to doing that though. This is the most difficulty i have ever had with a girlfriend.

Spats said:

Wait if you want, but then don't whine about being frustrated or get pissed if she moves on to someone else.

i'm totally stoked because i'll be taking these braids out this weekend... FOR GOOD


time for the dreadlocks baby!!

evenstar3 said:

I will think about it and decide tomorrow. I am going to bed. See ya.

SammiJ said:

awesome!

I really need a hair cut/style or something. I haven't had it cut in almost 2 years

evenstar3 said:

i love your hair!
layer it, but like choppy layers!

SammiJ said:

thanks

that's kinda what i was thinking of. i used to have layers in my hair but they're all grown out now

SammiJ said:

What kind? The clean, cute ones, or the HARDCORE ones? You know. Dookie-style.

FruitToAttractBears said:

the clean manicured kind, my hair's in braids now so it couldn't be all uglylike LOL

evenstar3 said:

I do. Who wouldn't?

evenstar3 said:

wtf!

Spookymuffin said:

evenstar3 said:

Spookymuffin said:

aw, i missed this post

you know, all this being nice could seriously damage your DOOMy repuatation.

evenstar3 said:

I called her again last night. Asked if she wanted to go to the movies tonight. Again she said no. She already has plans. I said fine. She said if i want to do something i should call a little more in advance than the night before. I told her if she wants to do something than just give me a call. And i hung up. So i have pretty much thrown it back in her lap.

Spats said:

good move. sit by the phone and wait for her call.
ask your friends to come and dust you off every couple of weeks