Spats said:

God grow some balls man

Spats said:

well, seriously, maybe it's time for you to start looking for substance in a relationship instead of settling for looks
it hasn't really worked out for you thus far

SammiJ said:

I agree...

SammiJ said:

I don't think i can get together with someone if i don't find them physically attractive though. They have to turn me on.

Spats said:

no and that's alright, totally!
but there has to be more than that, i mean is that all you need to be fullfilled in a relationship?
with the chick you're with now, you're not happy, but she turns you on...maybe you need a sexy smart intelligent woman with something to say
i think you need a change of heart my friend

mdiver said:

Excuse me? I don't lack any of that.

Spats said:

Hahahahahahaha that is funny.

What are balls for?

Do you remember?

SammiJ said:

I have been pretty happy with her. We get along really good.She's pretty, and smart but hooking up with her on a regular basis and getting sacktime has been a problem.

mdiver said:

you win.

Spats said:

well, this is where you need to realize, she's not in this for the sex hun...
you're happy with her, that's great!
discuss where you stand with her, come to a compromise
nothing's a-u-t-o-matic in a relationship.

SammiJ said:

I remember how U kissed me
Not with your lips but with your soul
With U I'm never bored, talk 2 me some more
I can hear U, I'm going 2 have 2 torture U now

evenstar3 said:

i'm actually going to go get my 12" of that and listen to it

evenstar3 said:

When he hooks up with better looking women than me , then he wins. Until then....

SammiJ said:

it's such a good song

Spats said:

one word: pictures. until you get some balls and post some it's all

Spats said:

Mate we have never seen any of your ugo's so dont go there.
Fact of the matter is this, you have not got yours damp for well over a year, That speaks for its self.

evenstar3 said:

Ok - now I am singing.. will have to break out the cd when I get home

SammiJ said:

You have a nice way of giving advice.

Better than the insult advice other people give.

We had a talk awhile ago and she told me what she wanted and what she didn't like about the way i have behaved. She thinks i can be too immature,too passive and standoffish sometimes. And if i could change some of that she would be willing to maybe give it another try. I told her i didn't know if i could do that but i would let her know. In my typical way i didn't get back to her for awhile. Then i called her and asked her out, She said no because she had plans. She called me back to ask me out and my immaturity came out again and i said no just to get back at her. That's where i am now. If she called again i would say yes. It's pretty complicated.

I'm happy because I had a fantastic night last night with great friends, a relaxing day today and have my usually-2-people-room to myself tonight at least... and I get to see my Bro again tomorrow

and I have a good week to look forward to, too!

Natisse said:

sounds lovely, i'm happy for you

evenstar3 said:

back atcha... thanks hon

I'm not happy...haven't been for a long time I'm still searching for that patch of blue but always thrilled to wake up in the morning and I have my health...you can't ask for any more than that.

Spats said:

You TRULY are a fucking idiot.

gemini13 said:

NAnomaly said:

I hope you find your happiness soon- maybe 2007 will be better..

Shanti1 said:

thank you, I'm hopeful and as long as I have hope all is not lost...

NAnomaly said:

Exactly...hope is a powerful thing

gemini13 said:

Why??

Spats said:

So you grant the premise?

Spats said:

BECAUSE YOU ARE.

now kindly LISTEN to what i've asked and go ruin someone else's thread with your bullshit.